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Topic: do the guys always
wanttachat Joined Sat 01/27/07 Posts: 8827	Mon 02/25/08 08:03 PM
I have

gammalight6000 Joined Sun 12/23/07 Posts: 5403	Mon 02/25/08 08:04 PM
I think that if you driveby my profile and don't say hi you are a peeping tom or whatever your name is ... hey i drive by your profile all the time..do i count as a peeping tom?

USmale47374 Joined Sun 06/24/07 Posts: 835	Mon 02/25/08 08:05 PM
No, we don't always have to be first. Try not being first, and the girls will do the same.

shoesmonkey Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 7088	Mon 02/25/08 08:05 PM
It's just fine for women to speak up first. We are not in the Stone Age's here. Here's a flower for all of you guy's...first

sexysuzi66 Joined Sat 01/19/08 Posts: 287	Mon 02/25/08 08:06 PM
If it's Mutual Both should

Jess642 Joined Sat 03/31/07 Posts: 22732	Mon 02/25/08 08:06 PM
Hmmmmmmmmmmmm.........says who? Who says it HAS to be the man? I didn't get that memo...

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Mon 02/25/08 08:07 PM
i have not done anything with my mutual matches...??

blueeyedbarbie Joined Tue 01/22/08 Posts: 310	Mon 02/25/08 08:07 PM
I think that if you driveby my profile and don't say hi you are a peeping tom or whatever your name is ... I TOTALLY AGREE IF I LOOK AT SOMEONES PROFILE AND I LIKE WHAT I SEE I TRY TO AT LEAST SAY HI!

Johncenawlife316 Joined Sat 06/30/07 Posts: 3403	Mon 02/25/08 08:07 PM
Every time I say hi to some one or say what's up and something about the match system, I get no replys back at all. So now I don't even bother saying a word. I have even checked out others profile but do not hear noting when I say hi or anything. I think it's really rude because if some one say's hi to me I'll respond every single time just out of being nice.

chickayoshi Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 8621	Mon 02/25/08 08:07 PM
Man! This thread is making me want to send a message to one of MY Mutual Matches.

shoes4rhon Joined Sat 02/02/08 Posts: 3411	Mon 02/25/08 08:07 PM
I think that if you driveby my profile and don't say hi you are a peeping tom or whatever your name is ... hey i drive by your profile all the time..do i count as a peeping tom? no you would be a peeping gama

romancingu Joined Mon 02/25/08 Posts: 126	Mon 02/25/08 08:10 PM
If it is fate and who your spose to contact, Your finger will automatically start typing. Let your senses take control. Don't be scared and step up .It shouldn't matter who says what as long as someone says something

TheShadow Joined Sun 08/13/06 Posts: 14218	Mon 02/25/08 08:11 PM
Most of the women won't make the first contact. Thats because there chickens

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Mon 02/25/08 08:11 PM
Man! This thread is making me want to send a message to one of MY Mutual Matches. yeah...just looked at mine.....who are all these people??????? 3 pages of people i have never spoke to...or seen in the chat rooms...... I forgot that his was a "dating" site

unsure Joined Wed 08/16/06 Posts: 4886	Mon 02/25/08 08:14 PM
I actually have sent a few emails out to my mutual matches. I have always got a reply back..so don't be afraid to email your matches because obviously you both picked each other!!!

blueeyedbarbie Joined Tue 01/22/08 Posts: 310	Mon 02/25/08 08:15 PM
Man! This thread is making me want to send a message to one of MY Mutual Matches. yeah...just looked at mine.....who are all these people??????? 3 pages of people i have never spoke to...or seen in the chat rooms...... I forgot that his was a "dating" site HEY I AGREE I HAVE LIKE 10 PEOPLE THAT HAVE LOOKED AT MY PROFILE. THE MOST I HAVE HAD SINCE I JOINED LIKE A MONTH AGO!

UplandHunter Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 8066	Mon 02/25/08 08:16 PM
Man! This thread is making me want to send a message to one of MY Mutual Matches. yeah...just looked at mine.....who are all these people??????? 3 pages of people i have never spoke to...or seen in the chat rooms...... I forgot that his was a "dating" site HEY I AGREE I HAVE LIKE 10 PEOPLE THAT HAVE LOOKED AT MY PROFILE. THE MOST I HAVE HAD SINCE I JOINED LIKE A MONTH AGO! There you just had another one

Kaseynej Joined Fri 01/11/08 Posts: 538	Mon 02/25/08 08:17 PM
I don't think it matters who makes first contact. If you're interested enough you'll do it.

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Mon 02/25/08 08:18 PM
Does it matter???

Poetrywriter Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 22675	Mon 02/25/08 08:19 PM
I think that if you driveby my profile and don't say hi you are a peeping tom or whatever your name is ... Hi! Now can I go and perv your profile?