Hypothetically......you like a girl. You've been asking her out for a month, and she finally agrees. A week before the date, she's at your work, and she's been drinking. You want to kiss her...so you ask her to meet you at your truck when you get off work. She does..and you kiss...it goes a little further and you get a blowjob. You part, sending text to each other on the drive home ending it by telling her you'll dream of her.

Do you talk to her the next day...or say nothing at all?

Depends on if I'm getting another BJ or not

Ummm...I wouldnt have let her drive, if she had ben drinking.

she is drunk at my job?.....Ha!Bartender......!!!Coffee and a cab.then ta-ta--loser

I would talk to her, but would seriously reconsider the possibility of a long term relationship....

troy

Well, you liked her alot before this happened. Do you still pursue the relationship?

Yes, but only when I need a bj. Probably not the one to take home to ma!

Hmmm - serious JT now

Umm - not sure. I mean showing up at my job drunk isn't a good way to start it. And I'm not one to do stuff right away with a girl.

She shows up drunk at my work without being invited? Ugh.. can't have that. I personally wouldn't have let it GET as far as a blowjob. Someone that does, is in it only for a blowjob.

Ok..say she'd been drinking...but wasn't drunk. And..she normally is seen at your work. It's where you met here, so her being there isn't unusual at all.

i was going to say the guy should have put a stop to it in the first place if he was worth anything

I would have stopped her at her thought, and told her why,,DRUNK,,lol
And made quick conversatins with her the next day about how sweet she was wanting to do that for me even being drunk...lol
But to recieve and NEVER talk again,,,THAT GUYS an azzHOLE....
Nothing more or less in my mind.....or simply,,,A BIG,,,BIG USER, of ladies...

You allready put your feeling out there. You persued her. You told her your going to dream about her. I notice you thru in the drinking part. Sounds like your not sure. You kissed her and let her blow you. Know you wonder what to do. If you just played her, leave her alone. If she blew you that fast maybe she wont mind a casual relationship.

Of course I'd talk to her, I had a bj BEFORE the first date !!!

This ones keeper.

It would'nt get that far with me, but just to answer the question, of course I would talk to her but try not to embarrass her about what happened. This sounds more like a person in trouble to me though, I'd be worried about her, but at the same time I would'nt feel that I was important at all to her.

What a thought, the person whom I like has to be drunk to associate with me, what a downer!!!

I think that story just goes to show that sometimes its best to wait before engaging in any sexual act with someone else. Not necessarily so that you know that other person is waiting more, but to see further what type of person the possible partner is and see if you want more.

Ok.... I guess I wasn't suppose to read this, but I had to!

WTF!!! Of course ya call her back.... .Unless it wasn't a good BJ

LOL LMAO

But I am just a gal

True very True

I think all you guys are lyin.....most men would take the blow job. Quit tryin to be nice.
I woulda took the head and called her the next day