I don't like to see that listed as to me it means THEY don't want to really be deep about life with you,,SIMPLE and carefree and who cares about the past of ether of you just look to the future. WELL thats cool, but NOT if she was an axe murderer,lol
OR me,,lol
MOST mean it as NO DEALINGS LEFT UN-TIED, no baggage of FEELINGS left open..
But to see it in a profile I take it as a little closed to anothers thoughts. that just me.
AND then THE ONES who say that in their profile,,,EXCEPT TO DATE A MARRIED GUY!,LOL,LOL,LOL

Drama... This is quite simple, to me.

This refers to a person's propensity to "dramatize" events and situations in their life. We all have baggage... but it's sort of like..

Is it in a hot pink attache bag that constantly tears open and leaks foul smelling liquids everywhere, alarms blaring? Or is it in a nice, subdued neutral case that from time to time we need to remove things....

It's if every little thing that happens becomes an emergency... the "be all end all" of crises.. over and over and over again. Dramatic people tend to be very selfish.

This is drama. JMO

I had a freind call me last night for example. She called me to dump all her problems on me looking once again for my advice that she never listens to or adheres to. She has this belief in her head that when in her mind she is right she will fight for what is right. But with this stupidity in her thinking she believes her thinking she is right makes her ABOVE THE LAW! This is where the problems come in."The police had no right to beat me up at the bar because I got drunk and started a fight." uh yes they do.The minute you resisted arrest and took a swing on a cop. "The police had no right to kick down my door and take my child away from me and throw me in jail!" yes they did the minute you sold meth on surveilance video to an undercover cop you dumbass. Yeah and then when drama twat didn't get any sympathy for her own stupidity she got mad and hung up on me. Idiots I tell you.

Well, I can see that I did the right thing. I don't come with a lot of drama. And I don't consider wanting to be seen or see someone more often to be drama. Now, the only dram in my life is trying to decide if I really want to meet someone or just buy a bigger boat and get a dog.

Go for the bigger boat and dog. Less drama!

I second THAT!!

I followed my dreams and I'm so much happier. Somedays I wonder if that's really what women want, is a man to torture for the rest of his life spiritually, emotionally, financially, and physically. A mantlepiece man.

we have drama on this site, i live for today past is past , my only drama in life is trying to get my son out of bed in the morning lol

You will notice the heading above my picture says longhairbiker not ass kissing, boot licking, incapable, incompitent, insecure mantlepiece man.

Hey DebbieJT,

A bucket of cold water will take care of that. Where is the drama in that?

D odging
R eality
A mid
M omentary
A mnesia

Laymans terms.......Forgetting that YOUR life is only Your Life
and it aint as important as YOU think it is!!!!!!!!

hes 9 everythging is a drama hun lol

I love women. I respect them. I have many women freinds. I have a mother, grandmother, sister, niece, aunts that I love dearly. I may sound like I'm bashing but I'm not. I date quite a bit. Its great to meet new and interesting people. I'm just finding the quality level is down and the drama level is up. But that's my experience.

There are many quality women here. They just live great distances from me and do not have much in common or same interests.

OMG do I have drama .. I am the mother of a teenage girl and there is no drama like this in the world ... when Allison's boyfriend kisses Megan with tongue in the student lounge that is drama .. When Steven pummles Dylon for telling Alisa that she is a dog that is drama .. when her heart is breaking because someone rejects her that is drama .. Where is this place that you speak of where there is no drama.. I like the rollercoaster , never was one for the ferris wheel...

I get out and live and love and in that space there will always be drama .. people have wrecks , loved ones pass, people get divorced , and teenage girls will get thier hearts broken .. and so it is written

There is a saying......"Chit Happens"
The drama isnt in what happens....
it comes from how we deal with what happens
We make it bigger that life.....
or we tuck it away in that "I've been educated...yet again" file.

I find the worlds biggest turnoff is to take someone on a dinner date and she feels comfortable enough to ruin the dinner and the mood by dumping all her overdramatized problems she's ignorantly gotten herself into her whole life and is not smart enough to get herself out of. Even worse is if she starts talking about her freinds problems who are people I don't know, don't care to know, are irrelevant to the conversation at hand and in most aspects make no sense. I live in the now tangible real world. I want to know what positive accomplishments and contributions you've made in your life and what ones you will make in your future. I could give a flying f*ck rats as* less about your girlfreinds cousins husband cheating on her and his drinking problem. Drama? No thanks.

I think you really hit on it with the breakfast issue!

I have changed my whole life so I can live in a drama free zone and I love it! And I deserve it! And I enjoy it!

Biker~ I had a date not so unlike that...with a guy. He talked all night about how everyone had done him wrong, friends, family, exes. He also talked about why he refuses to have a cell phone, that he is paranoid to check his personal e-mail at work, people are too materialistic, and too judgmental, blah blah blah. He whined and bytched for so long I wanted to stab myself in the eye with my fork just to end it. And then when I told him, via e-mail, that we were so not right for each other, he bashed me too in a series of long bytch fest style streams of verbal diarrhea, until I finally had to block him. I feel you on that one. Seems like they might have a love match?