get a new counselor or see one on your own because I'm sure you have issues from this.

i know...
my brother isint really home all that often, just at night and his door locks, and he can take care of himself... he's usually out skateboarding or hanging out with friends. but my mother? i think half the reason she keeps taking hikm back is because she hopes something happens to her... i dont know but she wont sit down with us kids, because something will get said about how i dont like him, and she'll scream at me... and then we just keep screaming.

and thank you lissa

This is sad. I am sorry to read this. The best solution is to be away from the home (as you already said you were kicked out) and hope your mother wakes up and realize the guy should not be around. You would figure her priorities would be to watch over her own children from any danger. I hope all gets resolved.

WOW, Xme, SORRY to read this and what your going through.
If your Mom was the person she is suppose to be, SHE wouldn
t be where she is NOW with Mr. Azzhole.
You and your sister leaving is the BEST thing both of you could do. And as for your brother, its all up to you and your sister to talk with your mom and tell her that this creep might be a petafile and harm your brother, and that YOU GIRLS will call Children Family Services on HIM and HER if she KEEPS him in her life..
Then your Mom will be warned and you and your sis, decide what is best for your mom and your little brother.
Your Mom seems to desire lust and him,,,,than you kids..
And THATS just WRONG!!! And SHE'S WRONG for you to EVER have to go through the $hit you have went through..

contact a local church to see if they can help you out, and maybe try to talk to your mom for you?

Good luck, and PLEASE STAY AWAY from your MOM'S FREAK, He is on joint away from raping YOU or your sister.

okay so i know you realy cant choose who you want your parent to date or whatever, BUT here's my story.
okay so my mom and dad got divorced when i was 10 right after my little brother was born... he's 14 now, so i figure... for 14 years my mother has been with people who have verbally abused me. and her most previous ex now not ex again is the WORST. he crushes up whats left in the ends of cigarettes and puts them in my bed, and in my pillowcase, and one time i came home from work after pulling a double at mcdonalds because i needed the extra money... and i fell into my bed, like litterally collapsed and heard clank and had a sharp pain in my shoulder. i was LAYING on a sink full of dishes in my bed... and there was grease on my new christmas sheets and everything. i was so mad. and at my house i dont have a door on my "room," i live in the walk in closet area and i dont have a door... i have a "curtain" for a door, and he stands at the top of the stairs almost in my little brothers doorway and watches my shillouette as i change... he;s a total 56 year old pothead pervert... and when she finally told him to leave last time, he tried to kiss my 17 year old sister on the lips... he's creepy. so of course when i found out he was coming back, i called my sister to tell her he was moving back in, she called my mom and told her she was moving in with her friend. my mother threw me out of the house yesterday for telling my little sister, one of my best friends... someone who scares us both equally is coming back to the only place we've ever called home. and my mother knows how much he scares us both... but she obviously dosent care that shes losing her two oldest children due to her own dating decisions, and im scared that he might hurt her or my little brother. what should i do? my mother and i never talk about anything, we just yell at eachother, and im kind of glad she kicked me out... but at the same time i dont want anything to happen to her... shes my MOTHER... you know? i dont know what i should do and im scared for her. i know she has her own chemical imbalance, but wouldent you rather have your children as opposed to someone you always ***** to your children about? when you know she dosent even like him in the first place and just "NEEDS" to have someone around? i dont f u ck ing get it...