We have been best friend for YEARS! She calls me, Yes SHE.
And tells me she is inlove with me!
I love her BUT only as a friend would. I am completely
staight!! OMG!!
I do not want to lose a friend like this!
No I aint tryin nothin like that ! Not even ONCE!
What should I do ?
Better yet, What would you do?

just talk to her an tell her ur not like that but still wanna be friends

Tell her to quit being such a lesbian!!!

If hse weren't my best friend that would be easy! Funny tho

Wow Country, what a delimma. I think I would have to sit her down and have a heart to heart talk with her over coffee. No "vibrations" tell her. Not that way!


Hey how's your daughter doing?

Don't do it!!!!

She is supposed to be your friend so, you shouldn't have a problem with telling her how you feel.

Hi,just sit down with her and explain to her,you love her too. But only as a Friend and your not into Bi-Sexual lifestyle. You like being with a man and only a man. If she is a True Friend,she will understand and leave it at that and never say another thing about it.

LOL.. Sorry, I have to giggle a little here. I'm not sure I'm the one to give much advice on a topic like this.. considering I have been with a woman (well, 3). No comments necessary and guys.. don't get your hopes up (it's not going to happen.. nor such involvement again).

The only thing I can say that any right person would; is just sitting down with her an discussing your thoughts. If she is a "true" friend then she won't push the issue and will in heart accept the fact that you're not interested (nor ever will be). We always find out who are "real" friends are in the end of some ordeal/situation.. I suppose this is your time to find out who she is in your life :)

Best of luck..
~Teresa

Be straight up with her and tell her your true feelings about the situation. If she can't accept it then she is not a true friend!!!

Actually she is doin pretty good given what happened. She is angry with herself. I told her she would be able to fight again, just not until after spring. She uses crutches very well.
Thank you for the advice DYS!!

How could you still remain friends with her....

If all she is going to do...is think about getting you to sleep with her???

You really need to set things straight (no PUN intended) with her, that you don't think of her in a sexual way...

I hope it all works out in the end, and you can still remain friends.....good luck!!!

Just be honest, but be afraid to express affection in the same ways you always have.

let me hit it, i'll turn her to the right side

then you can take notes

Well, ahhh,

Wow! I had a friend like that...she was afraid to tell me her sexual status...I said as long as attraction wasn't towards me, I didn't have a problem with her lifestyle. Just tell her straight up that you don't swing that way, but you still want to continue being "just friends".

I have ALWAYS known she was gay, only thing is I think she just realized it. I mean how ya gonna just say somethin like that without bein confussed. What I mean is, I think she is just wanting someone to show her love. I have talked to her , but now she will not accept my calls.
If your a friend you stand by that person. NO matter whats goin' on. I am I right?

you have got you a good problem,,,,,,,i have talked to several women that hafe found there self in th same story,,,,some try it some walk away,,one even left her bubby for a ahort period of time for her best friend?luver,,,,but most women that do try it,,had rather keep there men,,,,now that u made a post about it,it kinda make me wonder if some women set up there so called best friends for a sexual adventuer,,,,,,,,,thanx for th confussine

What the heck are you doin here!

I've noticed that just about every comment you've left in the forums.. at least the ones I've come across, is sexually related.. you definitely need to find another means of releasing your pent-up sexual desires!!

what...push me back under your desk, it's ok