Topic: Apologies from Jim519
Fade2Black's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:17 AM

Some of you know me, some of you dont. FOr those that do this is for you....

Recently as you may have noticed all my friends were deleted and I havent been on much. Well, I had a "friend" come visit from out of town, she took it upon herself to act like a jealous girlfriend, even though she is far from that level with me, she took it upon herself to go through my emails, delete all my friends, and even go as far as deleting my "myspace" account without me knowing. Let's just say I am glad she went home and will never be invited back....

Some of you took it personally, for this I am sorry, but next time dont be so quick to judge and assume. Most of you were confused in what happended,...now you know

And people wonder why I stay single


No wondering here glasses

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Sun 02/24/08 07:20 AM


I guess that's what happens when you invite into your home, someone you "probably" sees you as more than you see them to be. Some people should learn not to have "saved" on their computers, personal login info., written it down where it's viewable next to the computer or even give it out to those you think you can trust. In my mind, y'all know each other quite well (in various ways) otherwise, she wouldn't have had the means to do such to you or your online friends/accounts.

Just one of many opinions I'm sure you've already received.


Close enough to let use my computer, you can only hope to trust someone, but that goes a long way.



Wow, she knew all of your passwords and everything? Must have been a real close friend! Sorry that happened, but I wouldn't let even my Mom know all of my passwords to my private information.noway

Fade2Black's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:21 AM
Edited by Fade2Black on Sun 02/24/08 07:21 AM

Welcome back bro

Women! noway

laugh laugh laugh

(I know i'm gonna get some hate mail for

That one)


Women sending hate mail? Why would the wonderful gender I am a part of EVAAAAAAAAAAAAH hate???? noway laugh laugh laugh

Jim519's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:27 AM



I guess that's what happens when you invite into your home, someone you "probably" sees you as more than you see them to be. Some people should learn not to have "saved" on their computers, personal login info., written it down where it's viewable next to the computer or even give it out to those you think you can trust. In my mind, y'all know each other quite well (in various ways) otherwise, she wouldn't have had the means to do such to you or your online friends/accounts.

Just one of many opinions I'm sure you've already received.


Close enough to let use my computer, you can only hope to trust someone, but that goes a long way.



Wow, she knew all of your passwords and everything? Must have been a real close friend! Sorry that happened, but I wouldn't let even my Mom know all of my passwords to my private information.noway


I keep all my passwords in a Rolodex in a secure place. I ran out for a bit to help a friend and she helped herself and found them...Trust me, I didnt just hand them over

lilith401's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:28 AM
Edited by lilith401 on Sun 02/24/08 07:29 AM

Wow, she knew all of your passwords and everything? Must have been a real close friend! Sorry that happened, but I wouldn't let even my Mom know all of my passwords to my private information.noway


Let us not forget the possibility it could just have been set on "remember me"... and that in the privacy of his own home, on his own personal computer, that is not such a far stretch to consider. We tend not to overly guard things which belong to us and are inherently private.

Oooops, just read the post explaining... flowerforyou

musclehd's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:28 AM

Some of you know me, some of you dont. FOr those that do this is for you....

Recently as you may have noticed all my friends were deleted and I havent been on much. Well, I had a "friend" come visit from out of town, she took it upon herself to act like a jealous girlfriend, even though she is far from that level with me, she took it upon herself to go through my emails, delete all my friends, and even go as far as deleting my "myspace" account without me knowing. Let's just say I am glad she went home and will never be invited back....

Some of you took it personally, for this I am sorry, but next time dont be so quick to judge and assume. Most of you were confused in what happended,...now you know

And people wonder why I stay single



Oh she is one of them laugh laugh

TravelArranger's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:29 AM
how awful for you!! Hope you can re-instate everything quickly!

Remember the 90 pct suffer for the actions of the 10 pct!

Welcome back! bigsmile

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Sun 02/24/08 07:31 AM




I guess that's what happens when you invite into your home, someone you "probably" sees you as more than you see them to be. Some people should learn not to have "saved" on their computers, personal login info., written it down where it's viewable next to the computer or even give it out to those you think you can trust. In my mind, y'all know each other quite well (in various ways) otherwise, she wouldn't have had the means to do such to you or your online friends/accounts.

Just one of many opinions I'm sure you've already received.


Close enough to let use my computer, you can only hope to trust someone, but that goes a long way.



Wow, she knew all of your passwords and everything? Must have been a real close friend! Sorry that happened, but I wouldn't let even my Mom know all of my passwords to my private information.noway


I keep all my passwords in a Rolodex in a secure place. I ran out for a bit to help a friend and she helped herself and found them...Trust me, I didnt just hand them over



That is crazy! You should get a restraining order for this one! huh

chuck366's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:33 AM
Kapow!

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:35 AM
Sorry to hear that Jim!!

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Sun 02/24/08 07:36 AM
You mean you didn't see this as an act of undying true love and profess your never ending devotion back to her? Geez, what's a woman got to do? laugh laugh laugh

I think I'd move if I were you! noway
Freaky.

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Sun 02/24/08 07:38 AM
sorry Jim.....she probably didnt take her meds that daylaugh

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Sun 02/24/08 07:38 AM
Wow! Sorry you had to go through that. Not all women are like that. There are still a lot of us out there who are nice, normal people. Believe me there are just as many strange guys out there. I'm glad you found your way back to JSH. Hope you are able to recreate your friends list.flowerforyou

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:40 AM
Sorry this happened to you Jim but your real friends on here will understand. If I were one of your friends I would have wondered what happened, especially since I was not the ONLY one deleted.

But this is a classic example of why I continue to say that people "trust" too easily.

ladyliz1417's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:43 AM
Wow! That sux! Glad you are back tho.bigsmile

Twitch's photo
Sun 02/24/08 07:44 AM
Welcome back Jim; that was a really mean thing to do; jealousy is ugly on anyone. Glad you are backflowerforyou

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Sun 02/24/08 09:33 AM

sorry Jim.....she probably didnt take her meds that daylaugh


laugh laugh

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Sun 02/24/08 09:36 AM
Wow that sucks!
Sorry to hear that!

Jim519's photo
Sun 02/24/08 09:36 AM


Wow, she knew all of your passwords and everything? Must have been a real close friend! Sorry that happened, but I wouldn't let even my Mom know all of my passwords to my private information.noway


Let us not forget the possibility it could just have been set on "remember me"... and that in the privacy of his own home, on his own personal computer, that is not such a far stretch to consider. We tend not to overly guard things which belong to us and are inherently private.

Oooops, just read the post explaining... flowerforyou


I agree, and that is why it is always harder to trust as you go along, it doesnt make it fair for the next person I meet, but that's reality.

Jim519's photo
Sun 02/24/08 09:37 AM

Wow! Sorry you had to go through that. Not all women are like that. There are still a lot of us out there who are nice, normal people. Believe me there are just as many strange guys out there. I'm glad you found your way back to JSH. Hope you are able to recreate your friends list.flowerforyou


I know not all women are like that, just the ones I meet!!! laugh