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Topic: WTF
anime_gamergirl Joined Wed 09/12/07 Posts: 16	Fri 02/22/08 07:47 PM
Okay, I started talking to this guy on here. He asks me out on a date. We have a great time together. He calls me the next day and tells me what a great time he had and that he really liked me and wanted to do it again, but didn't have time for a girlfriend right now and didn't want to break my heart. LOL. He wanted to be my friend, just my friend. Why put up an ad on a personals site if you don't have time for a girlfriend. He's just in college. It's not like he's working full-time and going to college, that I could understand. Now I see why I don't date men my age.... Isn't that just jacked up though?

PATSFAN Joined Mon 12/10/07 Posts: 42782	Fri 02/22/08 07:48 PM
Well at least he was honest with you, could have been worse!!

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Fri 02/22/08 07:49 PM
Okay, I started talking to this guy on here. He asks me out on a date. We have a great time together. He calls me the next day and tells me what a great time he had and that he really liked me and wanted to do it again, but didn't have time for a girlfriend right now and didn't want to break my heart. LOL. He wanted to be my friend, just my friend. Why put up an ad on a personals site if you don't have time for a girlfriend. He's just in college. It's not like he's working full-time and going to college, that I could understand. Now I see why I don't date men my age.... Isn't that just jacked up though?

erowid1 Joined Wed 02/06/08 Posts: 1029	Fri 02/22/08 07:49 PM
im just looking for friends, just cause its a dating site, means nothing to me, ive met some awesome folks!

ladyblack67 Joined Mon 06/11/07 Posts: 2404	Fri 02/22/08 07:49 PM
UGH!!! I'm so sorry, he's a real jerk!!!

Gumbyvs Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 2417	Fri 02/22/08 07:49 PM
He prolly already has a g/f or he just doesn't think you're the one. That's just my guess.

Silvercloud08 Joined Wed 02/20/08 Posts: 75	Fri 02/22/08 07:49 PM
Reminds me of the guy I went out with last Sunday... There have to be some real, nice ones out there somewhere though...

romeo1975 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 7083	Fri 02/22/08 07:50 PM
sounds like to me that he didn't have the "great time" maybe he was looking for?? That might be me though, i dont try to read people's minds. But i work 2 jobs and am trying to get back into school, but i still have time for somewhat of a social life. I wouldn't read much into it.

MsTeddyBear2u Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 22031	Fri 02/22/08 07:50 PM
Dating doesnt come with a marriage or girlfriend contract. At least he is being honest to you. Friendship is known to turn into more later on. A relationship should begin as friends... JMO

EtherealEmbers Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 6580	Fri 02/22/08 07:50 PM
Okay, I started talking to this guy on here. He asks me out on a date. We have a great time together. He calls me the next day and tells me what a great time he had and that he really liked me and wanted to do it again, but didn't have time for a girlfriend right now and didn't want to break my heart. LOL. He wanted to be my friend, just my friend. Why put up an ad on a personals site if you don't have time for a girlfriend. He's just in college. It's not like he's working full-time and going to college, that I could understand. Now I see why I don't date men my age.... Isn't that just jacked up though? Let me translate for you: I don't want a girlfriend/ don't have time means they don't want YOU for a girlfriend. I want to be friends means I want to be friends with benefits, that's okay, right? Never fails.

LexFonteyne Joined Thu 12/07/06 Posts: 32131	Fri 02/22/08 07:51 PM
I will never understand people who engage in that sort of behavior. What's the big attraction in playing with people's feelings? All I can say is that there are a lot of self-absorbed insensitive idiots in the world. I hope your next experience is better....

duckiegiggles Joined Sat 11/24/07 Posts: 4642	Fri 02/22/08 07:51 PM
hes just not into you that way move on and dont waste your time on him or worring about it ~NEXT~

Pjinkysmom63 Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 331	Fri 02/22/08 07:51 PM
All jacked up...what is up with him?? You're better off...it's a good thing you didn't waste anymore of your time with this idiot....happy hunting!!

Gumbyvs Joined Thu 12/27/07 Posts: 2417	Fri 02/22/08 07:52 PM
Okay, I started talking to this guy on here. He asks me out on a date. We have a great time together. He calls me the next day and tells me what a great time he had and that he really liked me and wanted to do it again, but didn't have time for a girlfriend right now and didn't want to break my heart. LOL. He wanted to be my friend, just my friend. Why put up an ad on a personals site if you don't have time for a girlfriend. He's just in college. It's not like he's working full-time and going to college, that I could understand. Now I see why I don't date men my age.... Isn't that just jacked up though? Let me translate for you: I don't want a girlfriend/ don't have time means they don't want YOU for a girlfriend. I want to be friends means I want to be friends with benefits, that's okay, right? Never fails. That's bitter, been there done that?

lcjw Joined Thu 10/11/07 Posts: 8594	Fri 02/22/08 07:53 PM
He is being honest, but I think that he found no chemistry between you two.

EtherealEmbers Joined Sun 02/03/08 Posts: 6580	Fri 02/22/08 07:54 PM
Okay, I started talking to this guy on here. He asks me out on a date. We have a great time together. He calls me the next day and tells me what a great time he had and that he really liked me and wanted to do it again, but didn't have time for a girlfriend right now and didn't want to break my heart. LOL. He wanted to be my friend, just my friend. Why put up an ad on a personals site if you don't have time for a girlfriend. He's just in college. It's not like he's working full-time and going to college, that I could understand. Now I see why I don't date men my age.... Isn't that just jacked up though? Let me translate for you: I don't want a girlfriend/ don't have time means they don't want YOU for a girlfriend. I want to be friends means I want to be friends with benefits, that's okay, right? Never fails. That's bitter, been there done that? Bitter has nothing to do with it, I'm okay with it, it'd be nice if people were more honest about it, but a lot of times, they don't even realize they're doing it. Actually yes, I've had lots of experience with it.. I've known a few guys that got married or went into long term relationships right after dating me, saying the same things

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 02/22/08 07:55 PM
I am on this site and I don't have time for a boyfriend. I am a single mom, working two jobs, getting my master's degree. It doesn't mean I shouldn't be able to have friends.

lcjw Joined Thu 10/11/07 Posts: 8594	Fri 02/22/08 07:57 PM
I am on this site and I don't have time for a boyfriend. I am a single mom, working two jobs, getting my master's degree. It doesn't mean I shouldn't be able to have friends. You are my hero! Been there done that!

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 02/22/08 07:58 PM
I am on this site and I don't have time for a boyfriend. I am a single mom, working two jobs, getting my master's degree. It doesn't mean I shouldn't be able to have friends. You are my hero! Been there done that! and now you have time to work out!! That is one thing I should find the time for...

lcjw Joined Thu 10/11/07 Posts: 8594	Fri 02/22/08 08:00 PM
I am on this site and I don't have time for a boyfriend. I am a single mom, working two jobs, getting my master's degree. It doesn't mean I shouldn't be able to have friends. You are my hero! Been there done that! and now you have time to work out!! That is one thing I should find the time for... I had to. Too many muffins and donuts made gain 20 LBS in 3 mos.