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Topic: booty call buddy?
foxebrownsuga Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 77	Thu 02/21/08 11:01 PM Edited by foxebrownsuga on Thu 02/21/08 11:07 PM
It's fine until the date you're on asks, "So, how long has it been?" and you look her in the eye and say, "Um, 12 hours ago.". hey if i could go 12 hours i wouldnt have this question!!!!

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 02/21/08 11:01 PM
It's fine until the date you're on asks, "So, how long has it been?" and you look her in the eye and say, "Um, 12 hours ago.". that's what I would be worried about.

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 02/21/08 11:03 PM
iF your date would ask you that......then you will have to rethink the whole relationship........no ones biz!!!

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Thu 02/21/08 11:03 PM
we all have needs foxe and we have to do what works for ourselves as long as we can live with it and aren't hurting anyone in the process.... I agree. There is nothing at all wrong with an honest booty call. You just have to determine if it is the right thing for you. For some people it absolutely is, and others would have difficulty dealing with it. But there is, again, nothing inherently wrong with it.

brandynicole Joined Fri 06/29/07 Posts: 5564	Thu 02/21/08 11:05 PM Edited by brandynicole on Thu 02/21/08 11:06 PM
iF your date would ask you that......then you will have to rethink the whole relationship........no ones biz!!! I totally agree Gypsy . That would be disrespectful .

robinlynn42 Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 2251	Thu 02/21/08 11:11 PM
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Pjinkysmom63 Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 331	Thu 02/21/08 11:29 PM
Foxe...what if you meet your soul mate and he just happens to know this guy who knows this guy and so on and this leads back to you (men do talk). Your soul mate may be the kind of man who wants a woman who doesn't hand out the goods. Men sow those wheats and when they are ready to settle down go for the good girl type (not the booty call type). Ask your self do you want a man who does booty calls the second question you will ask yourself for how long has he been doing this and who with. He may meet his booty call on the street while with you..that may be a bit awkward for everyone. Can you handle the love of you life passin out his candy.

ellgee1976 Joined Sat 10/28/06 Posts: 7296	Thu 02/21/08 11:31 PM
I would actually think that it would be ok to do that actually! I wish I did have someone to do that with cause it might even become more than what it started out to be! You never know! I say hell yes would love to have that option!!!! and this is why i say it never works...cuz ONE or the other would hope for more

JaceKnows Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 5110	Thu 02/21/08 11:32 PM
I would actually think that it would be ok to do that actually! I wish I did have someone to do that with cause it might even become more than what it started out to be! You never know! I say hell yes would love to have that option!!!! and this is why i say it never works...cuz ONE or the other would hope for more You've NEVER had one??

ellgee1976 Joined Sat 10/28/06 Posts: 7296	Thu 02/21/08 11:35 PM Edited by ellgee1976 on Thu 02/21/08 11:35 PM
I would actually think that it would be ok to do that actually! I wish I did have someone to do that with cause it might even become more than what it started out to be! You never know! I say hell yes would love to have that option!!!! and this is why i say it never works...cuz ONE or the other would hope for more You've NEVER had one?? my X hubs was sposed to be one.....im saying it doesn't work..someone or both always want more

JaceKnows Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 5110	Thu 02/21/08 11:40 PM
I can't imagine, in a million years, calling up my ex-wife and saying, "Hey, ya know, we're both divorced and single.. how about a go?". LOL You're a braver man than I am!

JaceKnows Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 5110	Thu 02/21/08 11:41 PM
Err, woman, I mean. (=

respectful137 Joined Thu 02/21/08 Posts: 4	Fri 02/22/08 11:32 AM
I agree with that! I would never have a ** buddy unless I wasn't in a relationship! Right now I'm not so I am looking for a buddy but the second that I do get in a relationship I would tell my ** buddy that she would have to wait until I see where the relationship goes! I would never cheat on a woman for the sole fact that I treat others the way I would want to be treated! "ALL WOMEN DESERVE THE UP MOST RESPECT"

Cambolaya65 Joined Mon 09/03/07 Posts: 5587	Fri 02/22/08 11:37 AM
std`s are on the rise

UplandHunter Joined Thu 02/07/08 Posts: 8066	Fri 02/22/08 11:39 AM
If your not in a relationship...but both must be honest

OrangeCat Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 76874	Fri 02/22/08 11:39 AM
hmmmmmmmmmmm

Danette_Giavanna Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 1273	Fri 02/22/08 12:21 PM
I plead the fifth on this one

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 02/22/08 12:24 PM
I would actually think that it would be ok to do that actually! I wish I did have someone to do that with cause it might even become more than what it started out to be! You never know! I say hell yes would love to have that option!!!! and this is why i say it never works...cuz ONE or the other would hope for more You've NEVER had one?? my X hubs was sposed to be one.....im saying it doesn't work..someone or both always want more Not always .. I have had "friends with benefits" arrangements with people I would NEVER want to be in a relationship with ..and that sentiment was mutual. We had only one thing in common....

angelindarkness Joined Sun 11/25/07 Posts: 6492	Fri 02/22/08 03:18 PM
we all have needs foxe and we have to do what works for ourselves as long as we can live with it and aren't hurting anyone in the process.... Agreed. To each their own, but it is not for me.