Topic: hey all i need some advice
sendingyoukisses's photo
Tue 12/19/06 09:23 PM
how do you tell someone that you found someone else with out hurting
their feelings.

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Tue 12/19/06 09:28 PM
there is no way of not hurting their feelings, but it would be much
worse to not be open/honest about it

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Tue 12/19/06 09:30 PM
But....... before doing this, be reallllly sure this is the thing you
want to do, because afterwards, theres not turning back

sendingyoukisses's photo
Tue 12/19/06 09:31 PM
well that i am an honest person i just hate hurting people's feelings
but i feel if i don't do this i will be passing up a good thing in my
eyes

sendingyoukisses's photo
Tue 12/19/06 09:32 PM
yea i know

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 12/19/06 09:33 PM
Hummm so this means Rick is history?

sendingyoukisses's photo
Tue 12/19/06 09:35 PM
well honestly if i had someone to talk to maybe i could explain why i
found someone else

outboundforever's photo
Tue 12/19/06 10:04 PM
I have learned that it is better to just say it strait out. When i had
to tell the guy, yeah he was hurt and i felt awful but after a few days
they told me that they were glad i told them because it would have hurt
more if I continured to lead them on. Im still great friends with them
to this day. I figured I'd put my two bits in. I hope this helps.

V

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Wed 12/20/06 06:46 AM
you see betty i knew i couldnt trust you

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Wed 12/20/06 06:56 AM
Excuse me but, was there a poem here I missed!!!!!!

iceprincess's photo
Wed 12/20/06 07:00 AM
WTF you make no sense you get on here professing your love and talking
of marriage all in the last month and now you break up with the poor guy
in post.Your really whacked. Rick don't know you but thank your lucky
stars cause she has a hell of lot more than "issues" shee's certifiable.

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Wed 12/20/06 07:04 AM
hmmm thinkin this should have been in relationship advice and that
this situation should have been better discussed privately between rick
and betty not the whole site

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Wed 12/20/06 08:55 AM
yea, i thought she said she had a hard time telling me, but she can tell
everybody else without blinking an eye.

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Wed 12/20/06 10:05 AM
just maybe she had her reason who knows no reason to bash her maybe she
couldn't tell him some people have hard time telling someone how they
truely feel