Topic: hey all i need some advice | |
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how do you tell someone that you found someone else with out hurting
their feelings. |
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there is no way of not hurting their feelings, but it would be much
worse to not be open/honest about it |
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But....... before doing this, be reallllly sure this is the thing you
want to do, because afterwards, theres not turning back |
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well that i am an honest person i just hate hurting people's feelings
but i feel if i don't do this i will be passing up a good thing in my eyes |
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yea i know
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Hummm so this means Rick is history?
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well honestly if i had someone to talk to maybe i could explain why i
found someone else |
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I have learned that it is better to just say it strait out. When i had
to tell the guy, yeah he was hurt and i felt awful but after a few days they told me that they were glad i told them because it would have hurt more if I continured to lead them on. Im still great friends with them to this day. I figured I'd put my two bits in. I hope this helps. V |
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you see betty i knew i couldnt trust you
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Excuse me but, was there a poem here I missed!!!!!!
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WTF you make no sense you get on here professing your love and talking
of marriage all in the last month and now you break up with the poor guy in post.Your really whacked. Rick don't know you but thank your lucky stars cause she has a hell of lot more than "issues" shee's certifiable. |
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hmmm thinkin this should have been in relationship advice and that
this situation should have been better discussed privately between rick and betty not the whole site |
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yea, i thought she said she had a hard time telling me, but she can tell
everybody else without blinking an eye. |
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just maybe she had her reason who knows no reason to bash her maybe she
couldn't tell him some people have hard time telling someone how they truely feel |
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