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Topic: Is he interested?
sexy_chevygirl Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 9	Wed 02/20/08 06:06 PM
I need a little advice. I met a guy that is in the law enforcement field. I have been told that men in this line of work have a different type of personality or way they relate to other people. We have been dating for a couple weeks and there are times I think he acts very indifferent towards me. It's nothing specific but it's a feeling. But he keeps calling, texting, IM-ing and he always says he wants to see me again. Am I just being paranoid or is he interested? I really like this guy and would like to see where it goes.

werewolf_by_night_1 Joined Wed 12/26/07 Posts: 1667	Wed 02/20/08 06:07 PM
sorry just saw law enforcement field. and stopped right there. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh fu**ing run

MirrorMirror Joined Fri 10/26/07 Posts: 89680	Wed 02/20/08 06:08 PM
I need a little advice. I met a guy that is in the law enforcement field. I have been told that men in this line of work have a different type of personality or way they relate to other people. We have been dating for a couple weeks and there are times I think he acts very indifferent towards me. It's nothing specific but it's a feeling. But he keeps calling, texting, IM-ing and he always says he wants to see me again. Am I just being paranoid or is he interested? I really like this guy and would like to see where it goes. They are control freaks

sexy_chevygirl Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 9	Wed 02/20/08 06:09 PM
why do you say run?

jvc534 Joined Mon 11/19/07 Posts: 1072	Wed 02/20/08 06:10 PM
I NEVER trust anybody in law enforcement... over sized egos....Military people are awesome though...get one of them!

FAK Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 7817	Wed 02/20/08 06:11 PM
Get him in bed, handcuff him to the headboard, steal his wallet and run

Totage Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 24210	Wed 02/20/08 06:11 PM
I need a little advice. I met a guy that is in the law enforcement field. I have been told that men in this line of work have a different type of personality or way they relate to other people. We have been dating for a couple weeks and there are times I think he acts very indifferent towards me. It's nothing specific but it's a feeling. But he keeps calling, texting, IM-ing and he always says he wants to see me again. Am I just being paranoid or is he interested? I really like this guy and would like to see where it goes. If he's contacting you he's interested, IMO. See where it goes, but be careful.

jtip1977 Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 10410	Wed 02/20/08 06:12 PM
bad boys, bad boys....what you gonna do?

Cambolaya65 Joined Mon 09/03/07 Posts: 5587	Wed 02/20/08 06:13 PM
gun,handcuffs,power=cheater!

JustLooking3 Joined Tue 02/05/08 Posts: 515	Wed 02/20/08 06:15 PM
bad boys, bad boys....what you gonna do? Run..... Cops

fall2grace Joined Wed 02/13/08 Posts: 100	Wed 02/20/08 06:27 PM
yah law enforcement I have never met an officer Id wanna date they are usually arrogant have found a few I wanted to run from tho hehe

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Wed 02/20/08 06:30 PM
sorry just saw law enforcement field. and stopped right there. ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh fu**ing run

bad_girl Joined Tue 07/17/07 Posts: 67379	Wed 02/20/08 06:30 PM
Get him in bed, handcuff him to the headboard, steal his wallet and run

madamx7316 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 15886	Wed 02/20/08 06:38 PM
Get him in bed, handcuff him to the headboard, steal his wallet and run yeah yeah what he said!

sexy_chevygirl Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 9	Wed 02/20/08 07:33 PM
OK I got it that pretty much everyone here won't date a cop...but you know cops need love too! I am also understanding that they have different pesonalities than most other people. But is he interested or just playing?

willy_cents Joined Sat 07/14/07 Posts: 4471	Wed 02/20/08 07:37 PM
I figure he is just playing...wanting in ur panties. If ya turn him down or dump him..he will get revenge as only a cop can. Ur screwed either way, looks like to me

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Wed 02/20/08 07:41 PM
I am not sure whether you really want anyone to tell you what to do. Follow your own instincts and if this question is really on your mind the person to ask is him, face to face.

sexy_chevygirl Joined Sun 12/16/07 Posts: 9	Wed 02/20/08 08:01 PM
I am not sure whether you really want anyone to tell you what to do. Follow your own instincts and if this question is really on your mind the person to ask is him, face to face. I don't want to be told what to do but I would like some opinions so I can decide what I am going to do. People get blinded when in situations like this and other people can see what they can't. Opinions and advise can't hurt and may just help. I also feel that's it's a little too soon to be asking him how he feels about me.

franshade Joined Tue 07/24/07 Posts: 24704	Wed 02/20/08 08:05 PM
I am not sure whether you really want anyone to tell you what to do. Follow your own instincts and if this question is really on your mind the person to ask is him, face to face. I don't want to be told what to do but I would like some opinions so I can decide what I am going to do. People get blinded when in situations like this and other people can see what they can't. Opinions and advise can't hurt and may just help. I also feel that's it's a little too soon to be asking him how he feels about me. I agree - just responded how I would handle it; I go right to the source. I have known many law enforcement employees who are model, ideal, fun, loving people - some who are complete azzholes (the job doesnt make the person ) I truly believe our own instincts are our best guides. Good luck, hope it works for you!

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Wed 02/20/08 08:05 PM
I was state patrol for 4 years, before I actually wanted to make real money . Indifference may be his way of trying to feel you out. Cops are very suspecting of people, it comes with the territory. If you are interested ride it out a bit longer, and see how it flows. I wouldn't waste a long time on it, but I wouldn't give up so easiy either if you like him