Hello everyone!

This my first time posting and was inspired to do so after reading all
of your comments. I was inspired to ask what you all think on the
subject when reading the cheating topic.

We all know that the passion wanes as the relationship between a man and
woman begins to mature, but what happens when it completely disappers?
What happens when a life has been built and a family is being raised but
there is no intamacy in the marriage and little to no hope of getting it
back? How important is it to express love sexually in a marriage and
what happens when it's more important to one partner than it is the
other?

Well...if its the man who wants sex more often then the woman...
and she not with it.... thats no problem....just wait until she falls
asleep....and get cooking....Most guys do....!

Been there done that got the t shirt and bumper sticker. But there were
more issues then just intamacy so it ended.

Yeah, chick with the issues...we need more information...who,s not
giving it up...how long has it been.... have the two of you discussed
it....?

Welcome to JSH !!!

I have mixed opinions on this topic.

I'm not really a marriage counselor. so I cannot give any specific
answer to the question being asked. but maybe others here will help you
with you're question on this issue. =)

Best of luck !!!

whatever..................!

I MET ALOT OF WOMEN IN THAT SITUATION, AND HAD A FEW BRO'S LIVING
IT...AND I WOULD SAY THAT ONE OR THE OTHER IS SEEKING OUT
THEIR SEX WITH A THIRD PARTY...
NOW, IF YOUR ASKING COULD THEY STAY MANOGIMUS, I DON'T THINK SO.. ONLY
IF THEY LIVE AWAY FROM OTHERS, AND STAYED WITH-IN
EACH OTHERS EYE...LOL
ALMOST ALL RELATIONSHIPS START WITH THE SEX,,,,,YOU CAN'T JUST
TAKE IT OUT AND FEEL THE SAME WAY TOWARD THE OTHER AS TIME GOES ON....

I didn't go out and screw someone , as I said there were also other
issues, it ended.

Wow....really....that,s shocking.... I need to chew on that for a
moment, or two...!

Well she is a bit coy with the info...so something is likely up with
her....I mean this ain,t CSI....spill it sister....!

ONtario who you askin to spill it??

Chick with issues, eh? It's something I wonder about because I have a
good friend who hasn't gotten any from his wife since they conceived
their son nearly 9 years ago. I am shocked myself...I just don't get
it!

The Chick with the headache.....?

uhmm ok Ontario

Look...that guy has bring ringing some other chicks bell, for years...
cmon....and his wife knows it....cmon....!

THERE WOULD BE ALOT OF IFS IN THIS QUESTION??
AND THERE ARE ALOT OF MIDDLE-AGED COUPLES THAT HVAE LEARNED TO OVER COME
THERE SEX PROBLEMS, IN ONE WAY OR ANOTHER,,,
BUT I DO KNOW THAT IF MY OLD LADY DID NOT WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH
ME ANYMORE, I WOULD "REALLY" BE INTO "WHY", BECAUSE IM VERY INTO
SEX, AND FOR US TO BE, THEN SHE WOULD OF HAD TO REALLY BEEN INTO SEX
WITH ME WHEN WE FIRST HOOKED UP, SO ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
NOW, IF SHE WOULD CHANGE,,,,,,,,YES, I WOULD BE ALL ABOUT WHY
AND TRYING TO FIND THE PROBLEM, SO AS LIFE WOULD STAY THE WAY IT
WAS FROM THE BEGINNING....

I wasn't married very long and yeah after the kid came the sex slowed
down alot. I come across tidbits here and there that this is common. I
was just wonderin what other people thought about it.

why does there have to be a problem? life changes, could just be a part
of everday life. I wouldn't think that it all happened at once, but more
gradually.

A woman should go out of her way to have sex with her man.... for
example....me I lose interest in a woman really quick...therefore its
best that she never put any clothers on.

Good point im4u and Ontario