I was talking to a woman co worker the other day, Some how she bought up rather or not I was dating any one or not and I go no. Then she asked me why not and I didn't have much of a reason, but if I guess I where to have been asked that again I would have to say with out a doubt because I am too shy to ask any girls ( woman ) out, that plus I don't have a whole lot of money or a car but working on that one. But then she goes well you don't want to be 50 or something to have a girlfriend it was either that or something else, I understand that totally and agree but there isn't much I can do about this part of life ( being single that is ). I mean not that she would ask me out either because she is old enough to be my mom... I guess she was just wondering or making small talk or whatever.

I mean other then being very shy and not being the one who would ask any girl ( woman ) out and not having much, doesn't help me out at all.

So I guess this all started to make me wonder rather or not I will be single for the rest of my life because I don't have much right now to offer.

I mean not that I care a whole lot rather I'm single for the rest of my life etc, but it would be nice to have a woman to be in a relationship with and sooner or later maybe spend the rest of one another lifes together.

But I guess if some one isn't looking or asking woman out then they will most likely be single for ever. Unless I'm wrong here but it surely doesn't sound like it as of right now, since most woman like to be asked out and I just for whatever the reason freeze up and can't think of much to say and become very shy. Even though I probably see a lot of woman I wouldn't mind asking out I just don't because I am at work for the most part and plus I don't think I would find the right words to come out with out feeling like an a$$ or something about it afterwords.

I mean surely I am in no big rush to get into a relationship but it would just be nice to know that I could be in one etc.

I don't know maybe I am not good looking enough. Maybe I am just way to damn ugly or something.

So does any body or any one else think they could be single for the rest of there life, because they seemly can't find any one that would be willing to give them a chance / shot at going out with that person etc. ?????

whewwwww ....

Dude...you will not believe this, but my God brother was thinking this about 3-4 years ago. He didn't think he would find someone. That he wouldn't get married and so on. But, after complaining about that, this woman (wife now) came into the picture. My family watched it from day one. It was so cute! Trust me. There is hope. Sometimes, the time is not right. You'll catch the eye of some lucky lady.

Nope. My problem is single women in my area. There are none.

yup--

Yeah, you could be right.

I think I may be single for the rest of my life!! I blew it bigtime with a guy and I feel like that was my chance! Ugh....However, I realistically think I will end up with someone....it just takes a little bit of faith. Have faith in yourself....It should not be about materials that you have or do not have. It is the PERSON not the THINGS you will spend your life with. That is just my opinion. Good luck with everything.

It sounds like a pity party here...and I wasn't invited.

Don't worry bro, one day you will meet a very out going woman that will be easy to talk to and love. I have before & I'm sure I will again. I'm a little shy my self and a long way from a smooth talker, but the right woman will come along and make it very easy for you, just stay positive.

lol.. I wasn't looking for not pity here. Just thoughts and opinions etc.

Thanks for your respond.

Hmmph...

You know, I think that you have a valid question...but at the same time, I think a lot of people may feel the same way that you do. But, I think the real question is whether we all want to sit around and worry about it or not. Its a valid desire but its not worth the headaches. And you know something? After I'd broken up with my last boyfriend, I just had to go with the flow of being single and enjoy it. If I'm serious with someone special, cool. If not, cool. Of course I'd love someone but I think living out the other things that God has for me right now are just as cool. So don't worry about it so much you know? The bible says not to worry about tomorrow because today has enough troubles of its own. And don't settle for the first goldfish that comes along if what you really want is a big ol trout you know? Just have confidence in yourself and go with the flow.

True, and I totally understand where your coming from.

Dont worry about it champ !! Chicks dig a champion !!