It seems to me that you can really tell if a woman if flirting or just
being nice, unless of course they just want to fuck your brains out,
then they are all over you like white on rice. But seriously how am I
supposed to know if I'm being hit on or if they are being nice. This
keeps happening more often with me and I don't want to mix things up and
start flirting with a woman that is just being nice, but if they are
flirting I wouldn't mind giving them my number or asking for theirs. Can
some one PLEASE HELP me with this matter. Thanks

if you think that they are flirting and you think that you'd like to get
to know them ask...excuse me, are you flirting with me? if they say
yes your in and if they say no come up with something like can i give
you my number anyway or maybe say "would you" lol ...if they say that
they aren't flirting and they turn down your number just say be polite
say something and tell to have a good day or something

thanks king i'll keep that in mind but i'm looking for a way to tell
with out having to ask it just seems a little oquard to ask something
like that but thanks i will keep those ideas in mind

would flirting with them be awkward for you? once you start flirting
they'll let you know. there's no sure way to tell in that instance
unless you act on it. you may be right you may be wrong but you won't
be sitting around wondering about it later though. some girls are just
naturally bubbly and they are extremely cute but the only way to know
is to ask...lol they may have not been flirting with you but when you
bring it up they might reconsider

I think some people flirt without even realizing it. I think King is
right, maybe you should just be a little flirty, trust me, if they are
flirting with you...you will know. If not, then they will say something
like well I need to get going but I will catch you later. I think you
should be able to tell if you throw them some looks...happy flirting :)

flirting is tough for me cause im pretty foward about my feelings i can
usaully tell by her eye contact and body posture

you WILL know when they are flirting!! Its so ovious! if you doubt that
she is flirting, then she probably isnt. But if she is a red flag will
go off! IMO

Thank you kay. But i think i should have explained a little more that i
never was much of a flirt or for the game also i haven't done much
dating or anything at all in the last few years for personal reasons i
have been single the whole time so im really lost because things have
changed alot like i'm not a teen any more so it's a whole new ball game
all together, but also i just haven't been out in public with women all
that much. Could you please give me some examples of what I might expect
to see when it comes to flirt. and if you can just overall try to catch
me up on things

You may want to decide "what" kind of woman you are seeking. If you are
interested in "power" women, (women who prefer to be the agressor), she
will more than likely, if she likes you a lot, be bold enough to just
come out and ask you if you want to go home with her or she with you. On
the otherhand, if you want to be the agressor, which it sounds like you
don't, but, if you change your mind, you should explain that you've not
been in the field for a while and a more timid woman will allow you to
explain. Now, if she allows you to finish explaining, then I'd say you
have a better chance of meeting this woman than the "power" woman. Trust
me, a power woman wants a man that will succumb to her primal and
adventurous needs. Decide what you really want from a woman before you
approach. Remember, if you don't use it...you lose it. Good Luck, kajn
rose

thank you it's the most helpful info that i have gotten yet cajunrose

so how is your back?

hurts like hell 24/7. But i have no choice but to live with it so i do.
Thanks for asking