so how is your back?

You may want to decide "what" kind of woman you are seeking. If you are
interested in "power" women, (women who prefer to be the agressor), she
will more than likely, if she likes you a lot, be bold enough to just
come out and ask you if you want to go home with her or she with you. On
the otherhand, if you want to be the agressor, which it sounds like you
don't, but, if you change your mind, you should explain that you've not
been in the field for a while and a more timid woman will allow you to
explain. Now, if she allows you to finish explaining, then I'd say you
have a better chance of meeting this woman than the "power" woman. Trust
me, a power woman wants a man that will succumb to her primal and
adventurous needs. Decide what you really want from a woman before you
approach. Remember, if you don't use it...you lose it. Good Luck, kajn
rose