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Here's the situation:
There is a girl at a wholsalers that my company buys from. Not only is she absolutely gorgeous, but she has a great personality and we get along very well. She had some extra weight on her at one time, but even then I was attracted to her (basically her personality and values are more important than her looks). When I go to the wholesalers to drop things off, we usually end up talking for about 5-10 minutes, even though she is very busy. I like dealing with her because she gets things done, and is basically a no B.S. girl. Her work ethic and personality is the type of girl I go for. Here's my question: I would like to ask her out on a date, maybe to dinner, but I'm not sure if I should since we buy from this company. Should I do it and see where things go, or just leave it alone? I feel we are mature enough that if it wasn't to work out, it wouldn't ruin our business relationship, but should I take that chance? I am very picky about who I date, and from the conversations that we have had over about 6 years, I believe that she could be the one. I would like to take it to the next step to see if this is true, but don't want to ruin anything business wise. When it comes to love, should I just go for it? Or am I being selfish, putting me ahead of my company? |
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what harm would there be to ask her out? she doesn't work with you directly....so I'd say go for it....good luck to you
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Ask her out!!!!!! You guys dont work directly with each other
And hopefully you two can be mature enough to seperate business/persoanl relations. In what you describe it seems your both mature enough Dont pass it up my friend! If you dont you will always wonder "what if?" |
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GO FOR IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Jobs come and go......how aften do you get a chance at true love?
Good luck! |
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Edited by
shutterbug
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Sat 02/16/08 11:29 AM
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ASK HER!!! If you don't, you could be passing up "THE ONE!" *you've already put 6 yrs. into this relationship* She could be wondering what's taking you so long.
Good luck! |
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start off as friends invite her out
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