Topic: Should I chill out ? :)
Tyhronn's photo
Sat 02/16/08 04:56 AM
Just need some advice. I have been talking to a girl, who I started to talk to online for a few weeks now, she gave me her phone # and we seem to have great conversations, she'll call back and everything if I leave her a voice, I asked her about possibly getting together next weekend but, she said she wasn't sure because she might have a party to go to. Is it me or should I chill out because seems to be going cool or is she pulling my leg ? lol laugh

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Sat 02/16/08 05:03 AM
'We' or me specifically... would have no idea.
I don't know you. I don't know her.
I don't know how the conversations have gone.
So how would I be able to guide you from here?

The best advice I have for you is to take it up with her.
She is the best person to address your concerns to.

AllSmilesInTulsa's photo
Sat 02/16/08 05:07 AM
I know I have to reach a comfort level before agreeing to meet. Give her a little more time.

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Sat 02/16/08 05:15 AM
Just chill out.It's only been a few wks since U've been in contact w/her.Many woman like 2 reach a comfort level before they ever agree 2 a meet.Realistically;there are some real weird & dangerous types out there as I'm sure ur aware of.Ur daily news & papers are a living testament 2 this right?Keep talking w/her & see if it leads somewhere,perhaps she may be the 1.Nothing ventured=nothing gained my friend.Good Luck!Godspeed!CyPoetglasses

bad_girl's photo
Sat 02/16/08 05:20 AM
flowerforyou

Just chill out.It's only been a few wks since U've been in contact w/her.Many woman like 2 reach a comfort level before they ever agree 2 a meet.Realistically;there are some real weird & dangerous types out there as I'm sure ur aware of.Ur daily news & papers are a living testament 2 this right?Keep talking w/her & see if it leads somewhere,perhaps she may be the 1.Nothing ventured=nothing gained my friend.Good Luck!Godspeed!CyPoetglasses

Jim519's photo
Sat 02/16/08 05:22 AM
Maybe there really is a party?

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Sat 02/16/08 05:23 AM
I would say just relax... continue talking on the phone... like others have said it may just be to soon to meet....

I know in my opinion it probably would be to soon to meet... no matter how the conversations were going... u just never know who is on the other end of this whole internet dating adventure...better to be safe than sorry..

good luck and yes "chill out"::smile:

DTHRomeo's photo
Sat 02/16/08 05:33 AM
Edited by DTHRomeo on Sat 02/16/08 05:34 AM
Just make sure you two are comfortable

To see each other then meet ...

Just don't wait too long to see her

That might kill it

Been There

Done That

simplyleslie's photo
Sat 02/16/08 05:58 PM
Give it time.

If you are supposed to meet you will.

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Sat 02/16/08 06:00 PM
You can also see if you can go with her to the party.

Monosyllabic♥Girl's photo
Sat 02/16/08 06:02 PM

Just need some advice. I have been talking to a girl, who I started to talk to online for a few weeks now, she gave me her phone # and we seem to have great conversations, she'll call back and everything if I leave her a voice, I asked her about possibly getting together next weekend but, she said she wasn't sure because she might have a party to go to. Is it me or should I chill out because seems to be going cool or is she pulling my leg ? lol laugh


Womans advice: Being a woman in the online dating world is scary! If she is a smart cookie, she is probably protecting herself by getting to know you better before meeting. Everyone on here sould do this...and stay safe!!!

Or...she already had plans or got suckered into going to the party.

I say at this point...CHILLhappy

cherryxxangel89's photo
Sat 02/16/08 06:03 PM
sounds like to me she has another date and says its a party