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not for me. even though a few people think i am a mexican since i am tanned so hard. thank you. |
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not for me. even though a few people think i am a mexican since i am tanned so hard.  I get that too. People think I'm Mexican all the time.
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not for me. even though a few people think i am a mexican since i am tanned so hard. thank you. |
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not for me. even though a few people think i am a mexican since i am tanned so hard. I get that too. People think I'm Mexican all the time. uh huh |
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Ive dated out of race
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I see everyone as equals in my book...there are good ones and bad ones in all races...as far as dating outside my race.....done it before and will do it again. Of coarse you get the little comments and stares...but if you can get over that....all is good   I remember going out with a boyfriend once..He was white..and I am not..we went to the park near my house and just sat there and talked and had lunch..then this group of guys come by us and the one guy was walking with his child and I swear he bumped into the child,tripped and fell..he did this like twice..and all we were doing was sitting there TALKING..So I told my boyfriend "If he comes back around here I'm gonna just reach over and start kissing you..THAT'LL give him something to stare at and fall over the kid for."..LMAO. |
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Ive dated out of race hmmm...sheep? kitties? |
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No problem here... Spread the love...
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Ive dated out of race hmmm...sheep? kitties? Kapow! lol hmmmm, i did marry some sort of creature at one point |
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Kapow! lol hmmmm, i did marry some sort of creature at one point snork! me, too...i'm not even certain he was human, lol... |
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Kapow! lol hmmmm, i did marry some sort of creature at one point snork! me, too...i'm not even certain he was human, lol... she wasn t hairy like a sheep, so I think maybe a snake |
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Black, white, Green, Yellow, I don't give a sh!t what colour they are, as long as their hot and can cook! Nothing sexier than a man in an apron 
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she wasn t hairy like a sheep, so I think maybe a snake i'm thinking mine was a pig... |
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Edited by
LadyOfMagic
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Sat 02/16/08 07:24 PM
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she wasn t hairy like a sheep, so I think maybe a snake i'm thinking mine was a pig... I've dated guys that looked like creatures that not even STEPHEN KING's mind couldn't think up 
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I see everyone as equals in my book...there are good ones and bad ones in all races...as far as dating outside my race.....done it before and will do it again. Of coarse you get the little comments and stares...but if you can get over that....all is good I remember going out with a boyfriend once..He was white..and I am not..we went to the park near my house and just sat there and talked and had lunch..then this group of guys come by us and the one guy was walking with his child and I swear he bumped into the child,tripped and fell..he did this like twice..and all we were doing was sitting there TALKING..So I told my boyfriend "If he comes back around here I'm gonna just reach over and start kissing you..THAT'LL give him something to stare at and fall over the kid for."..LMAO. It's funny you should say that ladyofmagic, like i mentioned previously, my boyfriend is Puerto Rican and I am about as white as a person can be....well anyways one night, he and i were out shopping and i am telling you, people couldn't seem to stop staring at us..one lady was staring so hard that i pulled him into a kiss just to freak her out....needless to say, she didn't stare anymore...i am definitely not ashamed..i love being with him, i don't care who stares...he makes me happy, and if people don't like it, well that's just too bad. Becca |
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I see everyone as equals in my book...there are good ones and bad ones in all races...as far as dating outside my race.....done it before and will do it again. Of coarse you get the little comments and stares...but if you can get over that....all is good I remember going out with a boyfriend once..He was white..and I am not..we went to the park near my house and just sat there and talked and had lunch..then this group of guys come by us and the one guy was walking with his child and I swear he bumped into the child,tripped and fell..he did this like twice..and all we were doing was sitting there TALKING..So I told my boyfriend "If he comes back around here I'm gonna just reach over and start kissing you..THAT'LL give him something to stare at and fall over the kid for."..LMAO. It's funny you should say that ladyofmagic, like i mentioned previously, my boyfriend is Puerto Rican and I am about as white as a person can be....well anyways one night, he and i were out shopping and i am telling you, people couldn't seem to stop staring at us..one lady was staring so hard that i pulled him into a kiss just to freak her out....needless to say, she didn't stare anymore...i am definitely not ashamed..i love being with him, i don't care who stares...he makes me happy, and if people don't like it, well that's just too bad. Becca Good for YOU Becca..live your life for you..NOT for others..YOU have to be happy with your life..nothing else matters after that.! |
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so true ladyofmagic..so true..he makes me happy and i really don't care what people think...i gave up on caring many many years ago and i have been much happier ever since.
Becca |
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I'd have a difficult time not dating different ethnic backgrounds from myself. How many French/ Filipino woman are out there? Other then my sister. I personally don't have a problem with dating outside of my race. What are your views on the matter? It is okay to date outside your race, as long as you do not date/marry outside of your culture and religion. When I was in school, I had a sociology professor, Dr. Reilly, who spoke about dating and told us that once you go outside your culture and/or religion, you are setting yourself up for a failed relationship. On race, something Dr. Reilly said was very interesting. He used intermarriage between blacks and whites, since they were the two majorities in the class. The professor said it is okay for a white person born in America to marry a black person, as long as that black person was born and raised in the United States. He said that a white person cannot marry a black person born in Africa since his/her culture would be different. He also said that an American born black person should not marry an African born black person, again because of the culture difference. In reference to religion, he said Christians should marry Christians. However, it is okay for a Catholic to marry a Protestant. But a Christian should not marry a Jewish person. Additionally, Jewish people should marry those of their own religion and in general, stay within your own religion. Dr. Reilly said when one goes outside his/her culture/religion, even though you might think you know how to behave and how to interact there are so many little things you do not know. In that respect it is easy to hurt/offend the other person because of cultural/religious differences and you wouldn't even know it. According to Dr. Reilly... I should not exist! Interesting school you went to. Definitely an interesting point of view from a sociology professor. Considering them darn Christians running all over the known world doing mission work..integrating cultures and societies...since..oh.. I don't know... The dark ages? Yep, according to your Dr. Reilly, I too should not exist, since my parents (happily married for almost 40 years now) are Catholic and Jewish respectively. I'm sure these generalisations were the product of serious thought by Mr. Reilly, but they are still blatant generalisations, and humanity just isn't that simple. Whether people split up because of personal conflict, cultural conflict, racial identity, or any other factor, it's never that easy to predict. The good Dr.'s theory is not born out statistically at all. As it happens, the only major prediction regarding divorce which has ever been demonstrated to be statistically significant is marrying before the age of 20, and even there a given couple may well break the curve. I say, if you truly love each other, go for it. Why limit dating or marriage by something as superficial as race? Now, if you actually can't identify with each other, that's different, but then why would you get married in the first place? |
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I personally don't have a problem with dating outside of my race. What are your views on the matter?
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I personally don't have a problem with dating outside of my race. What are your views on the matter? It is okay to date outside your race, as long as you do not date/marry outside of your culture and religion. When I was in school, I had a sociology professor, Dr. Reilly, who spoke about dating and told us that once you go outside your culture and/or religion, you are setting yourself up for a failed relationship. On race, something Dr. Reilly said was very interesting. He used intermarriage between blacks and whites, since they were the two majorities in the class. The professor said it is okay for a white person born in America to marry a black person, as long as that black person was born and raised in the United States. He said that a white person cannot marry a black person born in Africa since his/her culture would be different. He also said that an American born black person should not marry an African born black person, again because of the culture difference. In reference to religion, he said Christians should marry Christians. However, it is okay for a Catholic to marry a Protestant. But a Christian should not marry a Jewish person. Additionally, Jewish people should marry those of their own religion and in general, stay within your own religion. Dr. Reilly said when one goes outside his/her culture/religion, even though you might think you know how to behave and how to interact there are so many little things you do not know. In that respect it is easy to hurt/offend the other person because of cultural/religious differences and you wouldn't even know it.
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