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Topic: Giving up...
TheShadow's photo
Thu 02/14/08 11:38 AM
It's been interesting to see some of the topic's I have seen lately about people giving up...


I been throught a hell of a lot in my life time like most and I have felt the same way at times, but when i stop and look at my life. Is it really that bad? or is it that I'm looking at things as I'm not getting what I want when i want it and thats what i been seeing lately. If I gave up on things, i wouldn't be who I am today and there would of been so much I would of missed out on and some of the people as friends I have in my life today. Life is never easy and in order to grow we have to deal with what ever comes our way. Since this is a dating site/friendship a lot of the topic's are going to be about relationships. I'm still dealing with one of the worst situation I ever been in my life. Does it stop me though? No! because there more out there then ill ever realize and someone has a plan for me weather I see it or not.

What this all comes down to is, that we all have our issues and things we will all have to go through, but know this.
Life is somthing you don't have to go through alone if you chose not to. So if your thinking on giving up. Think twice because you don't know whats going to happen tomorrow....

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Thu 02/14/08 11:39 AM
Excellent post Shadow!!!flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

LAMom's photo
Thu 02/14/08 11:40 AM
Most awesome words,, Hugs to you
Life is incredible ,,, And its up to us to make it all it truely can be,,, Ups and Downs,, flowerforyou

MzBarb's photo
Thu 02/14/08 11:40 AM
awesome post!!! and so so true.

jennyjmn720's photo
Thu 02/14/08 11:40 AM
BRAVO SHADOW!!!!!bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile

TheShadow's photo
Thu 02/14/08 11:41 AM
Good to see you ladysflowerforyou

sirliftabench's photo
Thu 02/14/08 11:41 AM
dude good post.. makes sense.. you never know what tomorow wil lbring

DTHRomeo's photo
Thu 02/14/08 11:42 AM
drinker

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Thu 02/14/08 11:43 AM
Right on Shadow ... drinker :smile: bigsmile

Suzanne20's photo
Thu 02/14/08 11:51 AM
Excellent point Shadow

TheShadow's photo
Thu 02/14/08 11:51 AM
Edited by TheShadow on Thu 02/14/08 11:52 AM
They way i'm looking at this. Is I got two choices I can sit on my ass and do nothing about whats going on in my life and put myself through the pain witch I don't need. OR I can do something about and live life how it is ment to be and having all you as friends lets me know that I have something special that makes life what it is today.

So if your single and feeling down. Your not alone but you can get through this:wink:

lulu24's photo
Thu 02/14/08 11:52 AM
if you ever DO decide to give up, shadow...can i have your hair?

franshade's photo
Thu 02/14/08 11:52 AM
Great inspirational words Shadow.

:heart:

Goofball73's photo
Thu 02/14/08 11:53 AM
Dude...you are speaking the Gospel, and it is refreshing to see someone state this. And, you wrote it out very well too. drinker drinker drinker Have a couple on me bro. And, you are so right....you never know what tomorrow will hold. :wink:

TheShadow's photo
Thu 02/14/08 11:53 AM

if you ever DO decide to give up, shadow...can i have your hair?


laugh you'll have to cut if off my dead body before that happenslaugh laugh

UP2MISCHEIF's photo
Thu 02/14/08 11:54 AM
I TOTALLY AGREE WELL SAID

sirliftabench's photo
Thu 02/14/08 11:54 AM
Yeah man we all have ups and downs. iT sucks.. But i've been single for such a long time that sometimes it makes it hard to meet a good girl becuase i can get stuck in my ways

lulu24's photo
Thu 02/14/08 11:55 AM


if you ever DO decide to give up, shadow...can i have your hair?


laugh you'll have to cut if off my dead body before that happenslaugh laugh


that's fair.

you know, being dead and all...you won't put up much of a fight.

make certain you put it in your will for me, though, lol.

*chuckles mischievously*

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Thu 02/14/08 11:55 AM

They way i'm looking at this. Is I got two choices I can sit on my ass and do nothing about whats going on in my life and put myself through the pain witch I don't need. OR I can do something about and live life how it is ment to be and having all you as friends lets me know that I have something special that makes life what it is today.

So if your single and feeling down. Your not alone but you can get through this:wink:
Awwwwwwwwwwww big hugs shadow!!!flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

Moondark's photo
Thu 02/14/08 11:58 AM
I don't give up when not making progress. I only give up after relationship ends badly. And that doesn't last forever. Everything shifts and changes. The only time you know what is going to happen the next day is if you don't get out of bed.

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