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if you start caring for/liking or simply being attracted to more than one person online? How do you handle it in a non-hurtful way? Do you tell them? Do you not tell them? What gives here?
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Unless I'm in a relationship, I have the right to be attracted to as many people as I want, as does he. If it gets to the point that we're interested in just each other, I'd have no interest in even pursuing a relationship with another.
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Unless I'm in a relationship, I have the right to be attracted to as many people as I want, as does he. If it gets to the point that we're interested in just each other, I'd have no interest in even pursuing a relationship with another. Perfect. End of thread! |
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It was good advice, but I want to see more than 1 opinion.
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Qwicher....nicely put !!!!
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I think that unless you are moving it into real life then an online thing is just that .. like I want johnny depp to marry me and have my babies but it is just not happening ...
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I think that unless you are moving it into real life then an online thing is just that .. like I want johnny depp to marry me and have my babies but it is just not happening ... |
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Well, I had this problem once, picked the wrong one I guess, now they have both gone away. I say, make sure before you comitt to just one. it made me feel guilty to persue more than one at a time. but its ok to befriend any girl you are attracted to.
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You need to decide in your heart which one means more to you and when you do, then you need to tell the other one what you feel and hope he/she doesn't get hurt feelings too bad.
Someone will get hurt, but that is a chance you take when you fall in love no matter whether it is on-line, the real thing or whatever. The one who has your heart and the one you breathe, drink and feel all the time is the one. You will know and your heart will know. I can't think of anything greater than the feelings in your heart to help you decide. |
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Edited by
Jamie82
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Wed 02/13/08 04:01 PM
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I think a lot of ppl are attracted to more than one person online. For me im not like that so much. Im kinda picky and i know that. So when i like someone its usually just that person and thats it. oh wait the question is attracted to...oops i guess liking someone and being attracted to is different...right?
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You need to decide in your heart which one means more to you and when you do, then you need to tell the other one what you feel and hope he/she doesn't get hurt feelings too bad. Someone will get hurt, but that is a chance you take when you fall in love no matter whether it is on-line, the real thing or whatever. The one who has your heart and the one you breathe, drink and feel all the time is the one. You will know and your heart will know. I can't think of anything greater than the feelings in your heart to help you decide. |
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I think a lot of ppl are attracted to more than one person online. For me im not like that so much. Im kinda picky and i know that. So when i like someone its usually just that person and thats it. oh wait the question is attracted to...oops i guess liking someone and being attracted to is different...right? Not always, if I like someone it is sometimes due to a certain amount of attraction as well. |
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You need to decide in your heart which one means more to you and when you do, then you need to tell the other one what you feel and hope he/she doesn't get hurt feelings too bad. Someone will get hurt, but that is a chance you take when you fall in love no matter whether it is on-line, the real thing or whatever. The one who has your heart and the one you breathe, drink and feel all the time is the one. You will know and your heart will know. I can't think of anything greater than the feelings in your heart to help you decide. Well put Badgirl... |
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You need to decide in your heart which one means more to you and when you do, then you need to tell the other one what you feel and hope he/she doesn't get hurt feelings too bad. Someone will get hurt, but that is a chance you take when you fall in love no matter whether it is on-line, the real thing or whatever. The one who has your heart and the one you breathe, drink and feel all the time is the one. You will know and your heart will know. I can't think of anything greater than the feelings in your heart to help you decide. And we all love you Jen! |
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yea i know...i confused myself in my post too
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yea i know...i confused myself in my post too |
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Edited by
Jamie82
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Wed 02/13/08 04:15 PM
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yea i know...i confused myself in my post too nope it wasnt just u.lol i ramble sometimes and rather then erasing it i just pressed enter |
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I think a lot of ppl are attracted to more than one person online. For me im not like that so much. Im kinda picky and i know that. So when i like someone its usually just that person and thats it. oh wait the question is attracted to...oops i guess liking someone and being attracted to is different...right? Not always, if I like someone it is sometimes due to a certain amount of attraction as well. On the other hand...I can be attracted to someone without necessarily being interested in them. There IS a difference. |
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what bytchin said
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Edited by
Jamie82
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Wed 02/13/08 04:18 PM
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I think a lot of ppl are attracted to more than one person online. For me im not like that so much. Im kinda picky and i know that. So when i like someone its usually just that person and thats it. oh wait the question is attracted to...oops i guess liking someone and being attracted to is different...right? Not always, if I like someone it is sometimes due to a certain amount of attraction as well. On the other hand...I can be attracted to someone without necessarily being interested in them. There IS a difference. ok someone got what i was trying to say in my confusing post lol |
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