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Topic: More than one?
Peccy's photo
Wed 02/13/08 03:34 PM
if you start caring for/liking or simply being attracted to more than one person online? How do you handle it in a non-hurtful way? Do you tell them? Do you not tell them? What gives here?

QwicherBytchin's photo
Wed 02/13/08 03:37 PM
Unless I'm in a relationship, I have the right to be attracted to as many people as I want, as does he. If it gets to the point that we're interested in just each other, I'd have no interest in even pursuing a relationship with another.

lilith401's photo
Wed 02/13/08 03:39 PM

Unless I'm in a relationship, I have the right to be attracted to as many people as I want, as does he. If it gets to the point that we're interested in just each other, I'd have no interest in even pursuing a relationship with another.


Perfect. End of thread! drinker

Peccy's photo
Wed 02/13/08 03:42 PM
It was good advice, but I want to see more than 1 opinion.

diamondjewel's photo
Wed 02/13/08 03:42 PM
Qwicher....nicely put !!!!

shoes4rhon's photo
Wed 02/13/08 03:44 PM
I think that unless you are moving it into real life then an online thing is just that .. like I want johnny depp to marry me and have my babies but it is just not happening ... explode

Cambolaya65's photo
Wed 02/13/08 03:46 PM

I think that unless you are moving it into real life then an online thing is just that .. like I want johnny depp to marry me and have my babies but it is just not happening ... explode
Johnny is mine and im not even gay

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Wed 02/13/08 03:48 PM
Well, I had this problem once, picked the wrong one I guess, now they have both gone away. I say, make sure before you comitt to just one. it made me feel guilty to persue more than one at a time. but its ok to befriend any girl you are attracted to.

bad_girl's photo
Wed 02/13/08 03:58 PM
You need to decide in your heart which one means more to you and when you do, then you need to tell the other one what you feel and hope he/she doesn't get hurt feelings too bad.

Someone will get hurt, but that is a chance you take when you fall in love no matter whether it is on-line, the real thing or whatever.

The one who has your heart and the one you breathe, drink and feel all the time is the one. You will know and your heart will know.

I can't think of anything greater than the feelings in your heart to help you decide.

no photo
Wed 02/13/08 04:01 PM
Edited by Jamie82 on Wed 02/13/08 04:01 PM
I think a lot of ppl are attracted to more than one person online. For me im not like that so much. Im kinda picky and i know that. So when i like someone its usually just that person and thats it. oh wait the question is attracted to...oops i guess liking someone and being attracted to is different...right?laugh

jennyjmn720's photo
Wed 02/13/08 04:05 PM

You need to decide in your heart which one means more to you and when you do, then you need to tell the other one what you feel and hope he/she doesn't get hurt feelings too bad.

Someone will get hurt, but that is a chance you take when you fall in love no matter whether it is on-line, the real thing or whatever.

The one who has your heart and the one you breathe, drink and feel all the time is the one. You will know and your heart will know.

I can't think of anything greater than the feelings in your heart to help you decide.
I LOVE ALL THE MEN!!drinker drinker drinker drinker

Peccy's photo
Wed 02/13/08 04:05 PM

I think a lot of ppl are attracted to more than one person online. For me im not like that so much. Im kinda picky and i know that. So when i like someone its usually just that person and thats it. oh wait the question is attracted to...oops i guess liking someone and being attracted to is different...right?laugh

Not always, if I like someone it is sometimes due to a certain amount of attraction as well.

IndnPrncs's photo
Wed 02/13/08 04:05 PM

You need to decide in your heart which one means more to you and when you do, then you need to tell the other one what you feel and hope he/she doesn't get hurt feelings too bad.

Someone will get hurt, but that is a chance you take when you fall in love no matter whether it is on-line, the real thing or whatever.

The one who has your heart and the one you breathe, drink and feel all the time is the one. You will know and your heart will know.

I can't think of anything greater than the feelings in your heart to help you decide.


Well put Badgirl...

Peccy's photo
Wed 02/13/08 04:06 PM


You need to decide in your heart which one means more to you and when you do, then you need to tell the other one what you feel and hope he/she doesn't get hurt feelings too bad.

Someone will get hurt, but that is a chance you take when you fall in love no matter whether it is on-line, the real thing or whatever.

The one who has your heart and the one you breathe, drink and feel all the time is the one. You will know and your heart will know.

I can't think of anything greater than the feelings in your heart to help you decide.
I LOVE ALL THE MEN!!drinker drinker drinker drinker

And we all love you Jen!

no photo
Wed 02/13/08 04:08 PM
yea i know...i confused myself in my post toolaugh

Peccy's photo
Wed 02/13/08 04:12 PM

yea i know...i confused myself in my post toolaugh
Whew- I thought it was just me!

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Wed 02/13/08 04:15 PM
Edited by Jamie82 on Wed 02/13/08 04:15 PM


yea i know...i confused myself in my post toolaugh
Whew- I thought it was just me!


nope it wasnt just u.lol i ramble sometimes and rather then erasing it i just pressed enterohwell laugh

QwicherBytchin's photo
Wed 02/13/08 04:16 PM


I think a lot of ppl are attracted to more than one person online. For me im not like that so much. Im kinda picky and i know that. So when i like someone its usually just that person and thats it. oh wait the question is attracted to...oops i guess liking someone and being attracted to is different...right?laugh

Not always, if I like someone it is sometimes due to a certain amount of attraction as well.


On the other hand...I can be attracted to someone without necessarily being interested in them. There IS a difference.

hikerchick's photo
Wed 02/13/08 04:17 PM
what bytchin said

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Wed 02/13/08 04:18 PM
Edited by Jamie82 on Wed 02/13/08 04:18 PM



I think a lot of ppl are attracted to more than one person online. For me im not like that so much. Im kinda picky and i know that. So when i like someone its usually just that person and thats it. oh wait the question is attracted to...oops i guess liking someone and being attracted to is different...right?laugh

Not always, if I like someone it is sometimes due to a certain amount of attraction as well.


On the other hand...I can be attracted to someone without necessarily being interested in them. There IS a difference.


ok someone got what i was trying to say in my confusing post lol

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