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Topic: Wouldn't It Be Nice!!!!!!
feralcatlady's photo
Tue 02/12/08 06:46 PM


I had 23 peeks today.. thats a record for me.. lol

It must be the lips or the tongue.. bigsmile drinker :tongue:
see ... if everybody emailed you that looked at your profile... you would have 23 pointless emails to go thru. I got stuff to do besides that...


And out of those 23 pointless e-mails might be Mr. or Mrs. Perfect....cuz honestly can you know someone from a few pics and a profile........NOT

feralcatlady's photo
Tue 02/12/08 06:51 PM


The advantage of online dating has always been to look with a certain amount of privacy and if you find someone that piques your interest you contact them. It's like walking around on South Beach... you people watch but you don't go try to approach someone that you aren't attracted to initially. Let's be honest, if you wanted to be judged solely on your personality, intellect and all other assets other than physical you wouldn't have a picture up. That is the whole point of a picture... to attract on the first level so you can move on to the others. So why send a message to everyone you happen to 'see' if you aren't attracted to them... We are supposedly here because the traditional method is too time consuming and there are a lack of quality people in the typical bar or nightclub. Why be harsh on those that just want to look around and not waste their or someone else's time? If you are looking for friends and want to send someone a message on that note then so be it but we aren't all here just looking for friends...


Haha yeah that's what I was hinting towards, except I'm too lazy to type it all out. Very well said. happy


And hmmmm how many people have I matched that would not of given that person the time of day........lots

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Tue 02/12/08 06:55 PM

If all the guys that peek....could have the huevos to at least say hi......And I am sure this works both ways....

So just do it people..........Whenever I peek.....I usually write and just say hi.....Isn't that the name of the site after all....The only time I don't say hi is when I am recruiting for Matchmaking Game.


Deb, I actually used to send out a few e-mails after reading a profile -- talk about a waste of time! -- pffffffffffffftttt -- Maybe someday if they ever remove the 897,000 mile force field, I would try it again but I don't know....and people look at my profile, and about 1 out of 20 ever says anything! I figure this just isn't "my" place to meet anybody....

trueokie2's photo
Tue 02/12/08 06:57 PM



I had 23 peeks today.. thats a record for me.. lol

It must be the lips or the tongue.. bigsmile drinker :tongue:
see ... if everybody emailed you that looked at your profile... you would have 23 pointless emails to go thru. I got stuff to do besides that...


And out of those 23 pointless e-mails might be Mr. or Mrs. Perfect....cuz honestly can you know someone from a few pics and a profile........NOT


Hey now im up to 29... lol.. i think its funny.. laugh laugh

Jim519's photo
Tue 02/12/08 07:20 PM



If all the guys that peek....could have the huevos to at least say hi......And I am sure this works both ways....


So just do it people..........Whenever I peek.....I usually write and just say hi.....Isn't that the name of the site after all....The only time I don't say hi is when I am recruiting for Matchmaking Game.


ya know, after you do that enough times without any responce its kinda of a self esteem killer....

After that it just becomes better to just look and not suffer the rejection



Thank you....the first real honest answer.....


My answers were honest as well

If I tried to write to all my views or thought that I should expect an email from all that viewed me?...I would be way too busy to not get in the forums

feralcatlady's photo
Wed 02/13/08 06:26 AM
Thanks for all the answers.....It really did help......

itsmetina's photo
Wed 02/13/08 06:40 AM
people just r looking

Mac60's photo
Wed 02/13/08 06:50 AM
Holy Cow. Someone peeked at your profiles? I think that happened to me once.

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