Topic: Wouldn't It Be Nice!!!!!!
Jill298's photo
Tue 02/12/08 05:50 PM


If all the guys that peek....could have the huevos to at least say hi......And I am sure this works both ways....


So just do it people..........Whenever I peek.....I usually write and just say hi.....Isn't that the name of the site after all....The only time I don't say hi is when I am recruiting for Matchmaking Game.


it's not a matter of huevos, it's a matter of not thinking you're interested anymore. why email someone if i think i'm no longer interested in talking with them. what should i write? "hey, sorry i looked at your profile. false alarm" ?
haha I agree and I am totally guilty of looking at people at not writing them. But people do it to me all the time too... I don't take offense to it.

SweetAdaline's photo
Tue 02/12/08 05:52 PM


If all the guys that peek....could have the huevos to at least say hi......And I am sure this works both ways....


So just do it people..........Whenever I peek.....I usually write and just say hi.....Isn't that the name of the site after all....The only time I don't say hi is when I am recruiting for Matchmaking Game.


it's not a matter of huevos, it's a matter of not thinking you're interested anymore. why email someone if i think i'm no longer interested in talking with them. what should i write? "hey, sorry i looked at your profile. false alarm" ?


uhhh... whenever i get an e-mail i always go look at their pictures and 98.9% of the time i would NEVER wanna write them and say hello then you're trapped talking to them! and thats never good. so i don"t care who looks at mine, most the time i don't wanna talk anyhow! ha.

boneyjoe's photo
Tue 02/12/08 05:52 PM
if u look at some ones profile,,,,an they are way out of ur age range or live on th other side or th earth,,,are u sapose to say hi,,i was just looking around????

trueokie2's photo
Tue 02/12/08 05:53 PM
I had 23 peeks today.. thats a record for me.. lol

It must be the lips or the tongue.. bigsmile drinker :tongue:

Suzanne20's photo
Tue 02/12/08 05:54 PM
Edited by Suzanne20 on Tue 02/12/08 05:54 PM
I say hi if I have viewed them a few times. Sometimes tho I don't want to send them the wrong impression and have them think I am interested. Sometimes I just like to see where they are coming from so I look. But if I view them a few times I do message and I expect the same courtesy. I don't want to be accused of being a stalker and I don't like stalkers either.

feralcatlady's photo
Tue 02/12/08 05:54 PM


If all the guys that peek....could have the huevos to at least say hi......And I am sure this works both ways....


So just do it people..........Whenever I peek.....I usually write and just say hi.....Isn't that the name of the site after all....The only time I don't say hi is when I am recruiting for Matchmaking Game.


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Jill298's photo
Tue 02/12/08 05:54 PM

I had 23 peeks today.. thats a record for me.. lol

It must be the lips or the tongue.. bigsmile drinker :tongue:
see ... if everybody emailed you that looked at your profile... you would have 23 pointless emails to go thru. I got stuff to do besides that...

feralcatlady's photo
Tue 02/12/08 05:55 PM
Edited by feralcatlady on Tue 02/12/08 06:47 PM
ooops double triple post....sorry about that.

feralcatlady's photo
Tue 02/12/08 05:55 PM



If all the guys that peek....could have the huevos to at least say hi......And I am sure this works both ways....


So just do it people..........Whenever I peek.....I usually write and just say hi.....Isn't that the name of the site after all....The only time I don't say hi is when I am recruiting for Matchmaking Game.


it's not a matter of huevos, it's a matter of not thinking you're interested anymore. why email someone if i think i'm no longer interested in talking with them. what should i write? "hey, sorry i looked at your profile. false alarm" ?


uhhh... whenever i get an e-mail i always go look at their pictures and 98.9% of the time i would NEVER wanna write them and say hello then you're trapped talking to them! and thats never good. so i don"t care who looks at mine, most the time i don't wanna talk anyhow! ha.

feralcatlady's photo
Tue 02/12/08 05:55 PM
Edited by feralcatlady on Tue 02/12/08 05:57 PM



If all the guys that peek....could have the huevos to at least say hi......And I am sure this works both ways....


So just do it people..........Whenever I peek.....I usually write and just say hi.....Isn't that the name of the site after all....The only time I don't say hi is when I am recruiting for Matchmaking Game.


it's not a matter of huevos, it's a matter of not thinking you're interested anymore. why email someone if i think i'm no longer interested in talking with them. what should i write? "hey, sorry i looked at your profile. false alarm" ?


uhhh... whenever i get an e-mail i always go look at their pictures and 98.9% of the time i would NEVER wanna write them and say hello then you're trapped talking to them! and thats never good. so i don"t care who looks at mine, most the time i don't wanna talk anyhow! ha.





And oh what it would kill you to talk to someone that your not first off immediately attracted to.....I have had people in my Matchmaking thread say the same thing....and how stupid they feel now...because those same people they wouldn't give the time of day to on their own...are now some of their best friends.....hmmmmm go figure.

robinlynn42's photo
Tue 02/12/08 05:56 PM
common courtesy to say hi,i usually check out pics and let them know.but i will be better by saying hi.

i would like to see more people come out to the forums.

and post and make u think.

coquibella's photo
Tue 02/12/08 06:14 PM
The advantage of online dating has always been to look with a certain amount of privacy and if you find someone that piques your interest you contact them. It's like walking around on South Beach... you people watch but you don't go try to approach someone that you aren't attracted to initially. Let's be honest, if you wanted to be judged solely on your personality, intellect and all other assets other than physical you wouldn't have a picture up. That is the whole point of a picture... to attract on the first level so you can move on to the others. So why send a message to everyone you happen to 'see' if you aren't attracted to them... We are supposedly here because the traditional method is too time consuming and there are a lack of quality people in the typical bar or nightclub. Why be harsh on those that just want to look around and not waste their or someone else's time? If you are looking for friends and want to send someone a message on that note then so be it but we aren't all here just looking for friends...

feralcatlady's photo
Tue 02/12/08 06:19 PM




If all the guys that peek....could have the huevos to at least say hi......And I am sure this works both ways....


So just do it people..........Whenever I peek.....I usually write and just say hi.....Isn't that the name of the site after all....The only time I don't say hi is when I am recruiting for Matchmaking Game.


it's not a matter of huevos, it's a matter of not thinking you're interested anymore. why email someone if i think i'm no longer interested in talking with them. what should i write? "hey, sorry i looked at your profile. false alarm" ?


Well thats a good point....but something drew you there in the first place........and honestly writing an e-mail and saying hi is not asking for marriage.....gezzzzzzzz


Probably either a monkey pic or some enticing picture of a set of lips




Well again the honesty is a good thing....But let me just say this...Since I started this thread...two people have e-mailed and two friends I have now.......so see it's not such a bad gig.....

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE's photo
Tue 02/12/08 06:26 PM
So whats wrong with making new friends??? you dont have to have a committment just to chat and get to know someone from the other side of the earth

soxfan94's photo
Tue 02/12/08 06:28 PM

The advantage of online dating has always been to look with a certain amount of privacy and if you find someone that piques your interest you contact them. It's like walking around on South Beach... you people watch but you don't go try to approach someone that you aren't attracted to initially. Let's be honest, if you wanted to be judged solely on your personality, intellect and all other assets other than physical you wouldn't have a picture up. That is the whole point of a picture... to attract on the first level so you can move on to the others. So why send a message to everyone you happen to 'see' if you aren't attracted to them... We are supposedly here because the traditional method is too time consuming and there are a lack of quality people in the typical bar or nightclub. Why be harsh on those that just want to look around and not waste their or someone else's time? If you are looking for friends and want to send someone a message on that note then so be it but we aren't all here just looking for friends...


Haha yeah that's what I was hinting towards, except I'm too lazy to type it all out. Very well said. happy

Jill298's photo
Tue 02/12/08 06:32 PM

So whats wrong with making new friends??? you dont have to have a committment just to chat and get to know someone from the other side of the earth
sometimes it just doesn't seem like you have much in common with someone. And alot of times I look at someone's profile just because I posting in their thread. I am talking to them in there. Also, it goes both ways... Do you email everyone that looks at your profile to see if they want to be friends?

commonman's photo
Tue 02/12/08 06:33 PM

The advantage of online dating has always been to look with a certain amount of privacy and if you find someone that piques your interest you contact them. It's like walking around on South Beach... you people watch but you don't go try to approach someone that you aren't attracted to initially. Let's be honest, if you wanted to be judged solely on your personality, intellect and all other assets other than physical you wouldn't have a picture up. That is the whole point of a picture... to attract on the first level so you can move on to the others. So why send a message to everyone you happen to 'see' if you aren't attracted to them... We are supposedly here because the traditional method is too time consuming and there are a lack of quality people in the typical bar or nightclub. Why be harsh on those that just want to look around and not waste their or someone else's time? If you are looking for friends and want to send someone a message on that note then so be it but we aren't all here just looking for friends...


She is amazing^^^

Jill298's photo
Tue 02/12/08 06:33 PM
I just don't expect everyone that looks at my profile to email me.

trueokie2's photo
Tue 02/12/08 06:34 PM


I had 23 peeks today.. thats a record for me.. lol

It must be the lips or the tongue.. bigsmile drinker :tongue:
see ... if everybody emailed you that looked at your profile... you would have 23 pointless emails to go thru. I got stuff to do besides that...


I know just thought it was funny.. laugh laugh

Jill298's photo
Tue 02/12/08 06:35 PM



I had 23 peeks today.. thats a record for me.. lol

It must be the lips or the tongue.. bigsmile drinker :tongue:
see ... if everybody emailed you that looked at your profile... you would have 23 pointless emails to go thru. I got stuff to do besides that...


I know just thought it was funny.. laugh laugh
it is pretty funny :tongue: