yuo did nt read the entire post I made by the looks of it, or yuo havent kept up with ALL my posts. But to answer your question, if my 16 year old bot knocked up the a3yo village slut then I would hold him responsible AS WELL. Both parties are responsible. My sixteen y/o would be required to go out and get a job while continuing his minimum education of hs diploma. I would work things out with the girls parents where we had the baby at our house fifty percent of the time (if they refused or anything like that I wouldtake it into court as my sons right to know his child and be a part of their life. If both my son and the 13 y/o wanted to adopt the child out then i would support that as well. but allt hat to the side, I would hold both sides responsible. Now, if it was my 16 y/o and a nine year old? sorry boy your going to jail if thats what the law decides. And I would still require (unless the law dictated otherwise) that when he got out of jail that to live under my roof he would have to provide support for that child.

as I said earlier the only way a 13 year old would engage in reckless sexual behaviour is if there was a history of prior abuse
The parents of the girl would be responsible 4 THAT

I am sorry but I have to call bull**** on that one. Yes children who are abused (does not matter what type of abuse) are likely to repeat the abuse when they get older. HOWEVER, it is not a garuntee that a 13y/o that has sex was sexually abused as a child. And in all actuality it probably isnt even that high a number (compared to all 13 y/o who have sex) that were abused, compared to those that werent.

Well I'm not even going to get into anything that is referring to a 13 year old anything..except maybe Scitch..cause thats the ONLY thing right at that age.

Well I post in this thread, its automatic 16 and ABOVE related.

i agree with you, these girls look alot older, and they do lie, i have a teenage daughter and i would NEVER allow her to date a guy that much older, i live in the south, and i try to stay on top of things (being libral) and a cool parent, but i am old fashioned as well. i do talk to my daughter, thank goodness we have a close relationship, but it is difficult stradling the fence.... being the tough parent, and being a friend

i know that if my mom ever cared enough to talk to me or pay me the slightest bit of attention i probably never would have been pregnant at 16 by a 22 year old. i got with him becaus he paid attention to me

all the guys in her are talking about kickign his ass and sending him to jail...but honestly...how many of you had sex with a girl under 18 whild you were over 18??