Well my dear shorty, if its any consulation... its better to have to deal with loneliness (which sux big time) than to have to deal with having a bad relationship.

How can you be lonely on a date? Unless she is completely not speaking your language or sharing your interests. Do you feel that way even if you are connecting with your date?

That was my thought, but I have been wrong before....

That is so true!

does anyone liek being lonely>??> lol

Well my dear shorty, if its any consulation... its better to have to deal with loneliness (which sux big time) than to have to deal with having a bad relationship.



But the process of discovering someone, having the good and bad times, does prevent someone from being lonely. So I don't know if I would agree that a bad relationship is worse then being lonely.

Sort of the idea behind its better to have loved and lost then to never having loved.

I think some people like being alone. I can't see how anyone likes being lonely. Lonely implies a longing for something missing. Its inherently an unhappy state of being.

Ya know the last time someone said that to me was right after me ex left me for a Drug dealer that pimps her out for 50 and hour. I paid a lot of money on dental and hospital bills.

those who say "its better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all" Have no F*ucking clue what the hell their talking about. They have never felt the pain that bad.

You think it is a "stage" or I will find the right one? Well been there or at least was just real cloose and I felt nothing.

lol but if u never love u can never be hurt

Sorry to hear that. You seem like such a great guy. I dont know why anyone would leave you

but then ur life will basically be empty..its a fact of life that no matter what level of love it is. everyone's gonna get hurt one way or another

and where were you 10 years with that advice?

Still to this day I Wonder. Thats why I work so much. I don't have to think about it then.

Thank you though

i dont konw ive been hurt a few tiems, thats y i stopped havent been hurt ever since, lol a song stuck with me from back in the day Running Away from Hoobastank i like that song

I can't answer that for you. I have been very lonely when I was with someone who seemed to be very nice, was having a conversation , even holding hands, but I knew they didn't understand me at all. I want to be loved for who I truly am , not for waht someone else wants me to be, or imagines that I could be if they could mold me.

Well my dear shorty, if its any consulation... its better to have to deal with loneliness (which sux big time) than to have to deal with having a bad relationship.



But the process of discovering someone, having the good and bad times, does prevent someone from being lonely. So I don't know if I would agree that a bad relationship is worse then being lonely.

Sort of the idea behind its better to have loved and lost then to never having loved.


LOL..no disrespect intended Rabi (sorry you just look like one..just a hunch), but try being in a truly "bad realtionship" then lets see your answer. I only speak from experience..i was not "taught" this.

But the process of discovering someone, having the good and bad times, does prevent someone from being lonely. So I don't know if I would agree that a bad relationship is worse then being lonely.

Sort of the idea behind its better to have loved and lost then to never having loved.


LOL..no disrespect intended Rabi (sorry you just look like one..just a hunch), but try being in a truly "bad realtionship" then lets see your answer. I only speak from experience..i was not "taught" this.


Thank you. Someone else that sees it from my point of view.

But the process of discovering someone, having the good and bad times, does prevent someone from being lonely. So I don't know if I would agree that a bad relationship is worse then being lonely.

Sort of the idea behind its better to have loved and lost then to never having loved.


LOL..no disrespect intended Rabi (sorry you just look like one..just a hunch), but try being in a truly "bad realtionship" then lets see your answer. I only speak from experience..i was not "taught" this.



I don't doubt the pain, sumthindif, it can be hell. But still the magic of having love in your heart is the most powerful force in the universe. It might not feel that during moments of pain and deep hurt - but ultimately its true.

Lets break this down.

Think of your most painful breakup.

Now think of your happiest moment of love.

Which one is more powerful? Taking into account that if the breakup is recent that will be too powerful. But think of an old relationship where the pain is distant. Which moment is stronger? The pain or the love?