Topic: Trust...
IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 02/10/08 10:30 PM

agree with u babe, what that means to me is to let the relationship grow or not before I make any deep committments or move in together. Let the rope do its testing first, then if it's all good go deeper. What do you mean "it worked for me" Have you found a happy relationship?


No I haven't I meant that I'm ok with it... I don't mind it, I am at peace with life and what may or may not be in the cards for me..

hahahaha I'm runaway bride????laugh laugh

monkey694u's photo
Sun 02/10/08 10:31 PM
I hope totally that you two also find someone who will love and cherish you so those hurtful memories can go in the garbage forever.

"I learned that if that didn't then it can't happen"

Don't understand hon?

monkey694u's photo
Sun 02/10/08 10:34 PM
because you are so beautiful life is kind of a bad rap for you. Every attractive guy that thinks he's Mr right will want you as a trophy, and unfortunately trophies have a way of getting boring after while. Glad I don't have that problem....LOL

madamx7316's photo
Sun 02/10/08 10:35 PM
nope, once broken, im pretty much done. loyalty is huge with me

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 02/10/08 10:36 PM

because you are so beautiful life is kind of a bad rap for you. Every attractive guy that thinks he's Mr right will want you as a trophy, and unfortunately trophies have a way of getting boring after while. Glad I don't have that problem....LOL


Thank you but I don't fall into that trap.. I'm a pretty sharp cookie and believe it or not anyone that I would get serious with would probably go through hell just to get to that point with me.. Meaning, a lot of proving themselves, the wall thing.. alrighty, then how about those Devils? let's not reveal too much on hereohwell

madamx7316's photo
Sun 02/10/08 10:37 PM


because you are so beautiful life is kind of a bad rap for you. Every attractive guy that thinks he's Mr right will want you as a trophy, and unfortunately trophies have a way of getting boring after while. Glad I don't have that problem....LOL


Thank you but I don't fall into that trap.. I'm a pretty sharp cookie and believe it or not anyone that I would get serious with would probably go through hell just to get to that point with me.. Meaning, a lot of proving themselves, the wall thing.. alrighty, then how about those Devils? let's not reveal too much on hereohwell

:wink:

monkey694u's photo
Sun 02/10/08 10:37 PM
hear u madamx, after nine years of it I have a pretty strong aversion to people who screw around. Women or men aren't my friends if they play that crap.

monkey694u's photo
Sun 02/10/08 10:40 PM
Edited by monkey694u on Sun 02/10/08 10:42 PM
also after three of the freaks cost me a year peace bond I despise them even more on top of all the damage they do their victims. I still believe they deserve to taste their own mediacine. It's the best medacine for them!

madamx7316's photo
Sun 02/10/08 10:41 PM
im pretty much a bitter one...no room for mistakes in my gamedrinker

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 02/10/08 10:44 PM
Nope no room for mistakes lovie...

Monkey I don't regret nor blame.. I've learned/had true love and even though he ended up an total jerk, I don't regret the love I felt or received for those 3 yrs... It made me know that true love is possible now it just depends on the person.. the scary thing is 'HOW LONG' before you know if they'll change...

monkey694u's photo
Sun 02/10/08 10:44 PM
have you both made a conscious choice to try to change the type of person you are attracted to?

madamx7316's photo
Sun 02/10/08 10:46 PM
i dont get close. if i like them, im outty haha...seems to work for me. i will pick them apart until there is nothing but air left. at least im honest.

monkey694u's photo
Sun 02/10/08 10:46 PM
I hear you princess. Far as I have read it takes three years of living together before you really know whether it'll be lasting love or not. I guess that makes it all the more important to move slow and be as sure as possible beofre we open our life wide to anybody.

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 02/10/08 10:47 PM
I'm not attracted to any one type of person.. For me attraction is based on of course physical you don't want to have to use a grocery bag... but then intelligence, humor and integrity.. Those are my main criteria.. what follows is how they act and treat me and if I see red flags in any way whatsoever....

monkey694u's photo
Sun 02/10/08 10:48 PM
Madamx, what about your own pleasure though hon? How do you reconcile that with the anger they have fermented in you?

madamx7316's photo
Sun 02/10/08 10:49 PM

Madamx, what about your own pleasure though hon? How do you reconcile that with the anger they have fermented in you?


gotta admit, its not a pleasant existence, but, at least they cant hurt me again. gets lonely, but id rather be lonely than survive another one

monkey694u's photo
Sun 02/10/08 10:49 PM
ok, understand princess, so you are still able to find some contentment and fufillment in relationships. But you have to be convinced before they can touch your heart?

monkey694u's photo
Sun 02/10/08 10:49 PM
ok, understand princess, so you are still able to find some contentment and fufillment in relationships. But you have to be convinced before they can touch your heart?

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 02/10/08 10:50 PM


Madamx, what about your own pleasure though hon? How do you reconcile that with the anger they have fermented in you?


gotta admit, its not a pleasant existence, but, at least they cant hurt me again. gets lonely, but id rather be lonely than survive another one


It's alone we're not lonely... alone is a choice...

madamx7316's photo
Sun 02/10/08 10:51 PM



Madamx, what about your own pleasure though hon? How do you reconcile that with the anger they have fermented in you?


gotta admit, its not a pleasant existence, but, at least they cant hurt me again. gets lonely, but id rather be lonely than survive another one


It's alone we're not lonely... alone is a choice...


yes, you put it better than i did