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Topic: Trust...
Peccy's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:35 PM
Once lost it can-

Never be regained.
OR
Can be rebuilt with time.

HMontana's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:36 PM
Can be rebuilt with time...however, there has to be a foundation on which to build.

:heart: Peccy!

Gumbyvs's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:36 PM
Depends if the person you cheated on em with is more attractive than they are. smokin

TheShadow's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:36 PM

Once lost it can-

Never be regained.
OR
Can be rebuilt with time.

It can in some situations, mostly with friends. As a relationship that is a hard one and it depends what had happen.

missy51970's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:37 PM
Just speaking from past experience and only speaking for myself.. Once the trust is broken, it can never rebuilt..

wyatt1844's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:37 PM
Trust is like a savings account. It takes a long time to build it up, and then you can lose it all very quickly.

Suzanne20's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:37 PM
Trust with whom? Parent to child trust can be rebuilt. But as far as a relationship, if I can't trust you, it's not worth it. Once lost, it may take a long time to get back, and it depends why it was lost to begin with.

LAMom's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:37 PM
I think in time it can be regained,, at least for me,, I was able years after my divorce to once again trust my ex husband,,,

You have to be willing to let go of the past and move forward no regrets no vindeta's (( spelling ))) so to say,,,

Trust for me came after this process

HMontana's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:37 PM
I know you're being fecetious, Gumby, but I think this question is - maybe- deeper than romantic love.

??

flowerforyou

fastlinnie's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:37 PM

Can be rebuilt with time...however, there has to be a foundation on which to build.

:heart: Peccy!
i got one of them foundation things:heart: smokin

lonelyshorty's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:38 PM
can be rebuilt but it depends on what they did to lose it.

no photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:38 PM
i honestly think it can be rebuilt with time and dedication. but both parties have to work at it and most importantly want it to work. sometimes the separation period gives a person a chance to realise just what they had and don't want to lose.

trying_to_fly's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:39 PM

Can be rebuilt with time...however, there has to be a foundation on which to build.

:heart: Peccy!
I agree with Montana 100%

hikerchick's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:40 PM
People do things for so many different reasons..people make mistakes..no one is perfect..I think there are so many variables you can't just make a blanket statement. I know people who have cheated on their spouses during the darkest hours of their lives..basically good people who got weak or made a mistake..learned from it and realized what was really important to them. Every situation is different.

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:40 PM
Trust is a very tough subject.. I think you can only say when you're in the situation... I haven't found that it can be worked out and even if the trust comes back that person will "almost" always do whatever it was they did again...

MAKE_ME_GIGGLE's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:41 PM
depends on what they did to lose the trust.I think if one cheats, you can never get that trust back...other things, can be rebuilt

Wolfcub87's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:41 PM
I feel it depends on the circumstances and the people involved.

hikerchick's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:43 PM
((((((Princess)))))))

(((((Montana))))))

Love you guys..and trust you both!!!!flowerforyou

hikerchick's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:43 PM
Lonely - I didn't recognize you in you sparkle lips. Chic!

wyatt1844's photo
Sun 02/10/08 08:43 PM
Edited by wyatt1844 on Sun 02/10/08 08:46 PM

Trust is a very tough subject.. I think you can only say when you're in the situation... I haven't found that it can be worked out and even if the trust comes back that person will "almost" always do whatever it was they did again...


A wise man once told me, "If somebody does something to you once, they'll sure as hell do it to you again."

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