Topic: When you break it off with someone, | |
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do you tell them the real reason or do you try to let them down as easy as possible?
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Whatever gets them out the door the fastest
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Honesty is the best way to go... Its hard yet they deserve to know why.....
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i always like the truth no matter how much it hurts
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NEVER
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yup. be up front and don't give them any of that touchy feely crap.
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I agree with LAMom
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Breaking what off?????
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relationship
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I tell ya, it was hard to tell my ex the truth when breaking up. Especially if I had already told my parents at the time. I wanted to dress it up so I didn't feel embarrassed as well as he. But, there had to be a reason.
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Just tell them the truth.. That whats most important. Dont do it to be cruel and make the break up hurt worse, but you have to be honest and sometimes the truth hurts..
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Don't know. Never broke one off.
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Do unto others as you would want done unto yourself
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I believe in being up front, so honesty would win. But done as painless as possible.
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If you feel in your heart that you really don't love that person anymore, you have to. There's no away around it because you're giving them false hope that things are working out.
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And it's always best to tell them the real reason or reasons....
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Breaking what off????? Agreed! I would prefer no advanced warning whatsoever if you just have to break it off! |
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ya dont beat around the bush
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I think honesty is best, even though I never get it.
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Yes, she deserves to hear the truth from you, but do not pick the week of valentine's day. It the day of love and romance. Wait until the day has pass. The last thing she needs is to be reminded of all the happy couples when her heart is breaking.
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