What to do? Have others been through this, it's new to me! This is real, not something on the net, she hasn't gone there. But the notes on my car, the staking out my parking lot at night, all happens.

Always keep a sharp object with you
Might need to use it ^^
Good luck, hope things will clear up for you soon

and then you wake up.and noticed that the pillow case is wet with fear..and the sheets are wet with soilage

Well at least you have someone interested in you! There are plenty of people that have no one to stalk them, what about them?

Yep I was stalked for approximately two years...

I called the police and put a no approach pertection order out on them.

I have been free of this stalker for sometime now. Still I look over my shoulder... (shudder)

This person broke into two of my homes, went through personal items, he was truely sick, he threatened my life too.

I carried a weapon with me for a long time after that.

Document, Document, Document. Is she at all aggressive, threatening? Is she just being a nuisance? You may want to contact your local law enforcement. I'm not sure of your laws, but you may want to look into getting a Harassment Restraining Order. You do want to make sure you document everything. When, where, what, who and how. Maybe she's just getting something out of her system, but if you find out soon that she's not, you'll want to take care of yourself. You may even look into your local Human Services or Crime Victims Crisis Center agency and see what advice or information they have.

when your property starts getting vandalized by a stalker it sucks !!

She's not threatening or harassing me, just letting me know she is there I suppose. It's not real bad, I just hope it doesn't get that way.

So what did you vandalize now? And for that matter, who are you stalking now?

i had a stalker once that used to text me 10 times in 10 min..What freaked me out is he tells me he has been to my house and i never told him where i lived..5 min after he tells me that,there was a knock on the door,and the guy at the door pretended to be looking for someone and insisted it was my house..I directed him elsewhere. As he was leaving he grabbed my hand and told me he LOVED me..[shutters] I couldnt reenter my home for a couple of days.

oh man i would've freaked out...
i get a lot of creepies myself.... alot of them find me at my job.. its weird, my manager had a cop escort me to my car one day after work because of an incident that happened

sshhhhhhhhh Pinky, you promised you wouldn't tell!!!

Stalkers are nothing to play around with. I had one for almost 3 years and I finally got rid of him or so I hope! I did call the police and we did the phone tracing. They drove by my home several times a night just to check on me.
The scary part is..he knew exactly when I walked in my mothers door and he called me at her place. I was afraid to leave my home after dark..I still look over my shoulder and I still listen for his voice!
Stalkers can get dangerous!! It is not flattering at all, its actually terrifying.

YIKES

yes i remember a stalker/stalkers. i was about 22 or 23 at the time

since they/he had been following and left pics of me and my friends since i was 18 yrs.old. any way i always had a feeling
that i was being watched.when i was 19 and moved 2 another town,
i was starting college.my foster sister had a male visitor at her door he gave her some photos of us walking around and doing stuff
back where i lived before,it scared,the phones were tapped.i know they came into my living places,a note was left at one,my address books disappeared and reappeared.a bullet hole in my bedroom window.i remember a trip to a sioux falls abortion
clinic with my friend that i lost her friendship.i begged her i would take the baby but said no it would remind the sob that raped her.i never ever want to do that again.and i know we were followed all the way.

any way as this went on by the time i was 22 or 23 i knew i was
under a watchful eye.i knew by things being moved or seeing movement.anyway my foster sister ended up disappearing.lost a young man cause he made it angry.he saw something he shouldn't.this was a little more extreme.but i live one day at a time and never forget to this day.

but i also know i need to go on. what could i tell the cops without proof.but the lady is right,document if there is a message on ur phone do not delete u can take it to the cops for evidence.

if something ever feels out of place,a feeling or real evidence.
check it out make sure u have a friend or family member call.

u can find out what u have done on ur comp. nothing is gone unless u sand blast ur hard drive.

just leave her a note back with hers...ask her out to coffee and get acquainted. She obviously has feelings for you. You might even get a DATE!!!! That would be one up on the rest of us

You need to be careful if she sees you with somebody else too.
That could put them in danger.

Have you taken the novel approach of simply telling her you are not interested? (Assuming you are not)......