Topic: Don't really know what I want
Pretty_Good_Name's photo
Sat 02/09/08 01:32 AM
I was sitting back today and thinking about my lack of a relationship.
And then I thought , well maybe if I wasnt so choosy I would have a lady freind right now.
And at that moment it occured to me... I don't really want a relationship, I have had opportunities recently enough and sort of shrugged them off or didn't give any chase.
Anyone else here kinda feeling the same way?huh

Suzanne20's photo
Sat 02/09/08 01:34 AM
I am not really looking for a relationship right now. Just got out of a bad one not long ago so I am kinda in a "man-hating" phase right now. Just here for friends for the most part.

SonOfJack's photo
Sat 02/09/08 01:34 AM

I was sitting back today and thinking about my lack of a relationship.
And then I thought , well maybe if I wasnt so choosy I would have a lady freind right now.
And at that moment it occured to me... I don't really want a relationship, I have had opportunities recently enough and sort of shrugged them off or didn't give any chase.
Anyone else here kinda feeling the same way?huh


preach it to the church, Ive turned down more P ussy, latly just because I think there is more out there. Was I ever phuckin' wrong!

Wonderbread's photo
Sat 02/09/08 01:37 AM
Its just how it should be, not wanting is not a bad thing. It tends to lead to bigger and better things. You don't have to worry about anyone but yourself.

SonOfJack's photo
Sat 02/09/08 01:38 AM

Its just how it should be, not wanting is not a bad thing. It tends to lead to bigger and better things. You don't have to worry about anyone but yourself.


and your dog

Wonderbread's photo
Sat 02/09/08 01:38 AM


Its just how it should be, not wanting is not a bad thing. It tends to lead to bigger and better things. You don't have to worry about anyone but yourself.


and your dog

and the monkey and whiffle ball bat!

no photo
Sat 02/09/08 07:58 AM
thats why were online and not in clubs.
I guess if I was really serious.
Id join a school club or something.
IDRK, thats why Im not doing it...:tongue:
GL :wink: , maybe something will catch your eye.

no photo
Sat 02/09/08 08:09 AM

I was sitting back today and thinking about my lack of a relationship.
And then I thought , well maybe if I wasnt so choosy I would have a lady freind right now.
And at that moment it occured to me... I don't really want a relationship, I have had opportunities recently enough and sort of shrugged them off or didn't give any chase.
Anyone else here kinda feeling the same way?huh


Yeah, I figured it out, awhile back, that I'm better off being alone than being with the wrong person again.

I got mixed up in three LDRs with people from other sites in 2006, all of whom turned out to be excessively dishonest and misleading. Found this site at the end of 2006, and decided that I would try to find someone nearby who fit my (admittedly restrictive) standards. Nobody nearby would even talk to me.

So I said screw it, made some friends, posted a lot, and started getting tons of e-mail. Still nothing from anyone anywhere near me.

I realized, fairly early in the process, that I probably wasn't going to meet anyone here. All of the people who were interested, were also very far away, and there was no way I was going to do another LDR.

And when my ex -- the one I wanted all along -- showed up again in November, well, that settled that.

The one thing I have learned from all this is that the kind of person who would interest me, does not use dating sites.