Imagine that, through some horrible sewing accident, your significant other loses the ability to ever have sex again. Do you stay?

the concept is quite possibly the most disturbing thought ever placed in my mind.

not the "never having sex part" just the whole sewing thing.

I wanna know what the hell she was doing with the sewing machine.
Geeeez.
But yeah, I'd stay. Sex is good, but its not the most important thing in the world, I'd rather have a good relationship. (and for all you haters out there, yes, wonder has a nice side)

I have to agree with Pretty_Good_Name...but I would stay regardless.

if i HAD a partner, and he was in a accident and he couldnt have sex again, i would 100 percent stay with him. sex isnt the most important thing in the world.

some of my ex boyfriends have been very selfish, i had a operation, and i was recovering and in a lot of pain, and he still made me have sex with him. wtf?? if i dont find a nice man, im going to stay single. ive had such bad experiences with men.

you can still have a happy and fulfilling life even without sex.

Me too, usually involves them trying to beat me up for talking to their girlfriends.
But hope things work out for ya!

thanks

I just can't leave this thread alone, I am sorry but dude, when I read this and look at your picture it seems a little maniacal.

Iwas in that situation when my husband became ill and the last 2 years he was alive we were not able to but leave him never cheat on him never that isn' what love is all about

Sex is'nt everything!

My fiance' that died from cancer- lost that ability.
I stayed by his side till the day he died. We held each other, kissed, hugged, touched. Still loved each other just as much...

Why is it that sex has gotton so important today.
Granted I like sex, have had some great sex in my life time.
Personally though- there is so much more to a relationship than jusst that. JMO

You touched a nerve with this question with me- hence the long answer...

Sorry for your loss, he was blessed to have you by his side.

Once you create that bond sex should never be and issue of splitting up if it was due to one or the other could no longer preform.

So there for yes I would stay dont mean you cant cuddle and enjoy each other.

Don't give up DEBBIE, there are still GOOD men out there...

ya'll are all much nicer than i...

You would leave?

*shrugs* i don't know.

i think it would depend on a whole slew of things, to be honest...and i really think it works that way for everyone.

sex isn't the most important thing in a relationship, but it's sure up there. if i don't desire my partner...well, then they are just a friend.

and to what degree is this "never have sex again"? i mean...nothing, zilch, nada? or just...a bodily part that doesn't perform? cause i could work with that...toys, cuddling, loving...many other parts of the body for pleasure and that connection.

but i'm not sure i could do the "nothing" approach. it would really depend on the strength of the relationship...if there were problems beforehand, bitterness, anger...all sorts of issues.

i could sit her and say "yes" to sound nice, but in the real world there's no way to ever know for certain how i'd react until i was confronted with the situation.