Fri 02/08/08 07:47 PM
me and this guy who I met on another site have been texting all week and cybering. I had never really done that before on the phone, he was cute as hell, 50 y.o., I am 53, he was horny as hell tonite and I guess he thought he was gonna get some. I had some problems today, a cap on my tooth broke, so couldn't kiss very well let alone another else, and one other issue, I can't really discuss happened, No not STD Flare up. Anyways, when we got to the meeting place, Starbucks, I was real cold, cause I knew nothing was gonna happen because of the tooth thing and my "other problem, which is very temporary" He got the message that I wasn't gonna put out, sorta got mad, and we split ways, I know he was attracted to me and I him. Should I call him and explain, or let it go and forget him. I know nothing will really come of it, he is 50, horny as hell, and I am 53, past menopause, still good in the sac, but no spring chicken. Just need an honest opionion, contact him or let it go..flowerforyou
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btw I have no std, that was a joke haha

Italy, if he got mad at you for nothing you could control, that's BS!!!! I'd let him go and find someone who will understand when something happens.... That's my opinion....

call an explain sure can't hurt anything

Do what is in your heart...
Perhaps you should explain...

but i never explained anything, to embarassed, and he never asked we just parted ways, he mad, me upset cause of the situation????

if i were a woman, i would blow him off and get a vibrator.

you are still a beautiful lady. if all he wanted was a piece of ass then he was not much of a man. especially if he got mad. dump him and find a real man

thanks trytofly i kinda feel the same way

If you just want a piece of A$$ then call him. If you want a real relationship then don't call him!

I agree with trying but that is JMO I don't think you owe anyone a explanation

yep i kinda agree, he didn't even have the patience to talk a little, just kinda wanted to leave and do the deed it seemed,

IT WAS ME

Well if he couldn't understand and that horny then maybe he wasn't the right guy for you.

The right guy would have understood and would have just met you and talked etc.

I'm not to sure if you want to tell him what had happened or not, that is if you had not already said anything as it was about your tooth problem etc.

If you had not then maybe you should email him if you have his email address and tell him right up what you where hoping for and tell him sorry about today if you want to say that, and let him know the problem if he didn't know.

But if he didn't want to listen then hell with him, go find some one else, that at least respects your wishes and all.

thanks you guys are great, case closed i feel better now..

THAT WAS ME

Hm, it does kinda sound like he might have thought you were giving him the brush off if were were cold and distant in your behavior. If you didn't mention anything about the tooth, or bad timing, he wouldn't know about anything that was causing your behavior. So he might have got the wrong idea from your behavior. In this case, I agree with Littlesquaw on this.

You're welcome....I'm glad I could help...

If he got mad 4 no good reason,,could be a sign of things to come maybe a better man is waitng just around the coroner..You dont need to explain,sometimes things just happen,,

mirror mirrow that is not funny!!