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Topic: What is going on , on here
MusicLover247's photo
Fri 02/08/08 12:59 PM
OK so I have all these mutual matches. Why is it only one them is talking? I thought this was a site where you come to meet new people, all the people on my page haven't said anything. am I doing something wrong or is it just them?

Dawn7007's photo
Fri 02/08/08 01:01 PM
ohwell ohwell I have mutual matches too. Seems like everyone is afraid to say (type) a few words to one another. I would say, it's just them. keep trying, I know I am...

redhead44613's photo
Fri 02/08/08 01:01 PM
I have the same prob... dont feel bad.. just chat here in the forums an u will be makein friends an be chattin all the time

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 02/08/08 01:02 PM
flowerforyou your on my mutual match. flowerforyou why havnt YOU said anything?? flowerforyou

MusicLover247's photo
Fri 02/08/08 01:03 PM

flowerforyou your on my mutual match. flowerforyou why havnt YOU said anything?? flowerforyou

So it's the women that needs to make the first move here?

redhead44613's photo
Fri 02/08/08 01:04 PM


flowerforyou your on my mutual match. flowerforyou why havnt YOU said anything?? flowerforyou

So it's the women that needs to make the first move here?

sometimes u have to take the first step

Dawn7007's photo
Fri 02/08/08 01:07 PM
get's lame after awhile after u contact the person & they never responded. Question, why click yes or maybe for a mutal match why didn't that person just click no & be done with it?

MusicLover247's photo
Fri 02/08/08 01:08 PM
So it's not true. The best things don't come to those who wait. Ya want somethin ya have to go out and get it.

RICOL's photo
Fri 02/08/08 01:08 PM
Hey I have the same problem and if I do sent a Hello,they don't answer

franshade's photo
Fri 02/08/08 01:08 PM
:heart: That's what makes you special:heart:


flowerforyou your on my mutual match. flowerforyou why havnt YOU said anything?? flowerforyou

Dawn7007's photo
Fri 02/08/08 01:09 PM
ohwell Looks that way

MusicLover247's photo
Fri 02/08/08 01:09 PM

get's lame after awhile after u contact the person & they never responded. Question, why click yes or maybe for a mutal match why didn't that person just click no & be done with it?

Exactly. What are these guys doing, just trying to get their photo on as many pages as possible?

Dawn7007's photo
Fri 02/08/08 01:10 PM
seems that way, doesn't it?

MusicLover247's photo
Fri 02/08/08 01:11 PM

Hey I have the same problem and if I do sent a Hello,they don't answer

Than you're just trying to talk to the little girls on here who aren't really looking for anything but a little attention.

franshade's photo
Fri 02/08/08 01:14 PM
Hope I dont offend anyone.

#1 yes it's a free dating site
#2 some here are looking only for a partner
#3 some are here looking for friend (ME) first and foremost
#4 if someone doesnt write to you please dont complain
take the initiative and make first contact
#5 dont change yourself, unless it's something you wanna do
#6 dont take things personally this is afterall the internet
#7 if everything else fails, just join the forums meet a bunch
of people, make friends, have fun!!!

Enjoy JSH

MirrorMirror's photo
Fri 02/08/08 01:15 PM
:heart: :heart: I love everybody :heart: :heart:

Dawn7007's photo
Fri 02/08/08 01:16 PM
Edited by Dawn7007 on Fri 02/08/08 01:17 PM
frown frown Hey feel for you RICOL. Have you ever noticed that the ones that do respond live out of state or too far away? Seems like they guys that are my mutual matches, don't want to respond. What's up with that?

lilith401's photo
Fri 02/08/08 01:18 PM
Edited by lilith401 on Fri 02/08/08 01:18 PM

So it's not true. The best things don't come to those who wait. Ya want somethin ya have to go out and get it.


I heard the following version of that quote...

"Good things come to those who wait because they are left behind by those that DO". flowerforyou

Be patient... and then breathe deep and re-focus... be more patient. And don't forget to be patient. On dating sites, patience is not a virtue, it's the required prerequisite to grow the thick skin that soon must follow. You'll need it. I know I did.

flowerforyou

In the end, it is worth it. Welcome!

steelersgirltina's photo
Fri 02/08/08 01:18 PM


get's lame after awhile after u contact the person & they never responded. Question, why click yes or maybe for a mutal match why didn't that person just click no & be done with it?

Exactly. What are these guys doing, just trying to get their photo on as many pages as possible?


I have emailed a few times if they read it and dont reply I move on. I have to learn that not everyone is gonna dig me. I bet they could not keep up with me with watchin my football either!! :wink:

Dawn7007's photo
Fri 02/08/08 01:18 PM

Hope I dont offend anyone.

#1 yes it's a free dating site
#2 some here are looking only for a partner
#3 some are here looking for friend (ME) first and foremost
#4 if someone doesnt write to you please dont complain
take the initiative and make first contact
#5 dont change yourself, unless it's something you wanna do
#6 dont take things personally this is afterall the internet
#7 if everything else fails, just join the forums meet a bunch
of people, make friends, have fun!!!

Enjoy JSH

:smile: ohwell No not offended

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