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Topic: Repeating our mistakes ..
Sapphiremind Joined Fri 11/23/07 Posts: 241	Fri 02/08/08 12:48 PM
Go Steelers....I live 25 miles North of Bens hometown! but I have been a Steeler Fans since the Franco Army Days!!!

jellybean1021 Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 52	Fri 02/08/08 12:52 PM
Confession is good for the soul right? I married the same man twice, not many people knew we were ever divorced, so it is sort of a secret. I am not sure what got into me, but I am here to say I am glad it got out. Didn't work the first time, wonder why I thought it was going to work the second?

alrightguy2 Joined Fri 11/30/07 Posts: 1306	Fri 02/08/08 12:54 PM
Go Steelers....I live 25 miles North of Bens hometown! but I have been a Steeler Fans since the Franco Army Days!!! Why do I think we need a Steelers thread?

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Fri 02/08/08 01:02 PM
WOW! Are we gonna get billed for this session? I feel like I'm being shrank! well if the hat fits

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Fri 02/08/08 01:03 PM
Confession is good for the soul right? I married the same man twice, not many people knew we were ever divorced, so it is sort of a secret. I am not sure what got into me, but I am here to say I am glad it got out. Didn't work the first time, wonder why I thought it was going to work the second? OMG ... I did that many times with an ex Bf ... sigh

steelersgirltina Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 4792	Fri 02/08/08 01:31 PM
GO STEELERS!!!! my post or my football team either way thanks Well I live in Pittsburgh so... I wish I could get a job back home and MOVE!! I miss primanti bros. and so much more!! I AM OFFICALLY JEALOUS OF YOU NOW

steelersgirltina Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 4792	Fri 02/08/08 01:32 PM
Go Steelers....I live 25 miles North of Bens hometown! but I have been a Steeler Fans since the Franco Army Days!!! Bens sister plays basketball here in Oklahoma. i have never liked the sport until now!! LOL (basketball that is ) I have been a stillers (how is it said back home) fan since I can remember. Myron Cope YOI!

Cambolaya65 Joined Mon 09/03/07 Posts: 5587	Fri 02/08/08 01:33 PM
a french philosopher said" hell is repetition "

steelersgirltina Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 4792	Fri 02/08/08 01:34 PM
Confession is good for the soul right? I married the same man twice, not many people knew we were ever divorced, so it is sort of a secret. I am not sure what got into me, but I am here to say I am glad it got out. Didn't work the first time, wonder why I thought it was going to work the second? I think that when I found my ex cheating for the 1st time I thought hell he would not cheat again. WRONG. thought it would change. NOPE

DTHRomeo Joined Wed 06/20/07 Posts: 43387	Fri 02/08/08 01:34 PM
Cuz we think THIS time Is going to be different

steelersgirltina Joined Thu 01/31/08 Posts: 4792	Fri 02/08/08 01:40 PM
Cuz we think THIS time Is going to be different so if we think we are screwed and if we dont we are screwed. is it too much to ask for a guy to watch a football game with me???

mommyof1 Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 25303	Fri 02/08/08 01:47 PM
Because at the time, we don't recognize that it is the same (or a similar) situation. That, or we think it's different this time because it's a different person or the relationship dynamic is different. So this time it will be okay. Sometimes we just figure that this person won't let us down, or that they'll stand by us. But at the same time, if you always question if this person's going to let you down because of past experiences, you'll never open up to someone and be truly happy. Ya but more than making the same mistake with the same person .. which is pretty identifiable .. How about you make the same mistake but with different people, different scenarios. That makes me feel sooooooooooooooooooooooooo blonde. rolls eyes and sighs Why can't women think LOGICALLY like men do ........ Ummm Judy... US women CAN think LOGICALLY...you just hafta wanna do it that way

rtaylor74 Joined Sun 01/20/08 Posts: 1188	Fri 02/08/08 01:48 PM
Oh we've all done it. I had a FOUR year brain fart trying over and over with the same crazy woman trying to make it work. (Trying to recapture the magic I felt during the first six months of our relationship). I consider myself to possess above average intelligence, so I don't think it was an intellectual flaw. It's one of those things ya just can't help. And once you think you've grown up and will never do it again, BOOM, here comes another one. Bottom line is, that's life and love. I don't consider it a weakness or a flaw, it's love. And the moment you think you can rationalize emotions, then life has a funny way of ***** slapping you back into reality. The one good thing I can say about repeated mistakes is that if you're lucky enough to finally find someone special, all those bad experiences will make you appreciate that person so much more. I hope...

BlueskyJ Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 2927	Fri 02/08/08 01:59 PM
i was thinking about what you said 'continually making the same mistake over & over....I think that is true of me when it comes to dating.....i have to reevaluate what i want from a first date cause they rarely end up leading to a second date.... Also no more dinner dates as a first date....too much money for the result....Example, last Saturday took a woman to dinner on a first date...cost between $50-60 & I drove 40 minutes to her area besides spending the time to prepare & actually go out...no response when i left her 2 messages after the date....guess it didn't go as well as i thought....no thank-yous either....jeez this dating thing sucks....

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Fri 02/08/08 04:21 PM
i was thinking about what you said 'continually making the same mistake over & over....I think that is true of me when it comes to dating.....i have to reevaluate what i want from a first date cause they rarely end up leading to a second date.... Also no more dinner dates as a first date....too much money for the result....Example, last Saturday took a woman to dinner on a first date...cost between $50-60 & I drove 40 minutes to her area besides spending the time to prepare & actually go out...no response when i left her 2 messages after the date....guess it didn't go as well as i thought....no thank-yous either....jeez this dating thing sucks.... Can we get an AMEN on that one. I hate dating. All I want is to be in love with my best friend, my soul mate. The one that makes me laugh when I'm with him, smile when I hear his voice on the phone, and sing in the shower. Geesh how hard can this be?

BlueskyJ Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 2927	Fri 02/08/08 04:26 PM
Apparently extremely hard....cause that is all i want & can't seem to find anything close....

misty_57 Joined Sat 12/01/07 Posts: 1618	Fri 02/08/08 04:27 PM
Someone asked me once..."How many times are you going to go around that mountain?" Finally figured out what they meant I guess until I get it right

BlueskyJ Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 2927	Fri 02/08/08 04:28 PM
my problem is i keep trying to climb that mountain....i gotta change my tactics

misty_57 Joined Sat 12/01/07 Posts: 1618	Fri 02/08/08 04:30 PM
my problem is i keep trying to climb that mountain....i gotta change my tactics

neanderthalDave Joined Sun 11/11/07 Posts: 1789	Fri 02/08/08 04:39 PM
Ive made the same mistake more them a few times.Ive been on and off with one girl since 01,havint seen her since oct. but we talked for over a hour last nite,and Im thinkin about hookin up again. But why? I dont know. It will just end badly again I know that,But theres this lil bit of hope in me that maybe it might work out this time.yeah not f**kin likely though. Thats my insanity right?