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hi all, im begining to think that i have a problem when it comes to finding somone.
ive been told that im not dating material, and for some reasons if im with somone then i always end up wrecking things somehow cos of how much i love that person ill admit i do get jealous about some things but then everyone does i was just wondering what you think. would you date somone like me? |
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Not everyone gets jealous.
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hi all, im begining to think that i have a problem when it comes to finding somone. ive been told that im not dating material, and for some reasons if im with somone then i always end up wrecking things somehow cos of how much i love that person ill admit i do get jealous about some things but then everyone does i was just wondering what you think. would you date somone like me? SURE |
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Not everyone gets jealous. really? so it just me then is it? is that my problem? |
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depending on your degree of jealousy and if you act on all of those feelings..
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nope not datin you
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hi all, im begining to think that i have a problem when it comes to finding somone. ive been told that im not dating material, and for some reasons if im with somone then i always end up wrecking things somehow cos of how much i love that person ill admit i do get jealous about some things but then everyone does i was just wondering what you think. would you date somone like me? SURE |
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Not everyone gets jealous. really? so it just me then is it? is that my problem? Could be. No one like a jealous rage. |
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nope not datin you ohhh sad day |
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hi all, im begining to think that i have a problem when it comes to finding somone. ive been told that im not dating material, and for some reasons if im with somone then i always end up wrecking things somehow cos of how much i love that person ill admit i do get jealous about some things but then everyone does i was just wondering what you think. would you date somone like me? SURE |
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Hey there!
Honestly you have to build your relationship with trust and to do that you need to communicate with each other. Those are the two most important things in a relationship. Once you trust her then you dont have to worry about if she is going to cheat. Another thing you might want to try is before you get into a relationship maybe ask God if he wants you to get with this person. He will let you know... |
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Edited by
welshboy
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Sun 02/03/08 10:55 AM
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depending on your degree of jealousy and if you act on all of those feelings.. ill admit i have acted cos of being jealous but then if i said why i was jealous you might understand but its not fair to talk about somone like that on the threads. i havnt got a bad bone in my body and the only reason i can think of is cos i love them too much and let it get the better of me this is why i asked cos if its me that has a problem then i want to stop it all so i can be a normal guy when im with somone |
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You have to have trust, I had that problem with my ex.
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<<<~~~~~doesn't do jealousy!!!
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i dotrust them with all my heart but its hard to explain cos i dont want to say everything that happened in the threads.
i know i shouldnt have got so jealous but its hard somtimes when you cant even say your with that person in the threads |
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Not everyone gets jealous. |
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thank you all for your replies, i can see now its all my fault
when its your first love its probably harder to over come it, i trusted her with everything i just wish i could explain it better thanks again all |
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hi all, im begining to think that i have a problem when it comes to finding somone. ive been told that im not dating material, and for some reasons if im with somone then i always end up wrecking things somehow cos of how much i love that person ill admit i do get jealous about some things but then everyone does i was just wondering what you think. would you date somone like me? SURE |
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depending on your degree of jealousy and if you act on all of those feelings.. ill admit i have acted cos of being jealous but then if i said why i was jealous you might understand but its not fair to talk about somone like that on the threads. i havnt got a bad bone in my body and the only reason i can think of is cos i love them too much and let it get the better of me this is why i asked cos if its me that has a problem then i want to stop it all so i can be a normal guy when im with somone yes, you are correct, and you are being very respectful of this person, which is great.. but it sounds to me like the relationship was gone, when the trust left. That is a huge part of a relationship, and I am not sure it can come back once its gone..the jury is still out on that. |
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hi all, im begining to think that i have a problem when it comes to finding somone. ive been told that im not dating material, and for some reasons if im with somone then i always end up wrecking things somehow cos of how much i love that person ill admit i do get jealous about some things but then everyone does i was just wondering what you think. would you date somone like me? SURE Is she telling you that you bring this on yourself?? |
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