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Topic: Internet vs. Face to face.
thatonegirl05 Joined Sun 09/16/07 Posts: 1355	Sat 02/02/08 12:21 AM
On the internet, do you find yourself talking to and flirting with people that if you saw in real life, you more then likely wouldn't approach, or even think about getting to know?

OrangeCat Joined Tue 10/23/07 Posts: 76874	Sat 02/02/08 12:22 AM
could be true to an extent

itsmetina Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 18944	Sat 02/02/08 12:23 AM
its much easier to flirt on here

Wonderbread Joined Wed 12/13/06 Posts: 5587	Sat 02/02/08 12:23 AM
On the internet, do you find yourself talking to and flirting with people that if you saw in real life, you more then likely wouldn't approach, or even think about getting to know? Completely true. I have no self confidence, its just easier this way. Plus if i did approach someone in real life, i'm sure a mod would show up and censor me.

Da_Absolute_Truth Joined Mon 10/15/07 Posts: 303	Sat 02/02/08 12:25 AM
Yup, I wouldn't normaly approach any girl even if I had a deep interest in them. I dunno why...but hey!!! It's all good.

thatonegirl05 Joined Sun 09/16/07 Posts: 1355	Sat 02/02/08 12:26 AM
No, I completely agree that it's a lot easier on the internet. I think that's why I like it.Like, I can talk more freely on here, and some of the people that I talk to make me feel so much more confident, which helps me in real life with people that I'd like to talk to .. It also widened my eyes, and I'm starting to notice a lot of different people, rather than the ones I used to focus on before.

Wonderbread Joined Wed 12/13/06 Posts: 5587	Sat 02/02/08 12:26 AM
Congrats!

sahmoa Joined Sun 05/27/07 Posts: 542	Sat 02/02/08 12:27 AM
On the internet, do you find yourself talking to and flirting with people that if you saw in real life, you more then likely wouldn't approach, or even think about getting to know? Completely true. I have no self confidence, its just easier this way. Plus if i did approach someone in real life, i'm sure a mod would show up and censor me. lmfao...a mod...censor

curios789 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 3156	Sat 02/02/08 12:27 AM
Definitely. I feel much more comfortable online, because I know I can show my personality without being judged first. I only talk to girls face-to-face if there's something around to strike up a conversation.

chickayoshi Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 8621	Sat 02/02/08 12:28 AM
Internet always seem to be easy for me. Face to face? I wouldn't know what to do with myself.

Da_Absolute_Truth Joined Mon 10/15/07 Posts: 303	Sat 02/02/08 12:30 AM
No, I completely agree that it's a lot easier on the internet. I think that's why I like it.Like, I can talk more freely on here, and some of the people that I talk to make me feel so much more confident, which helps me in real life with people that I'd like to talk to .. It also widened my eyes, and I'm starting to notice a lot of different people, rather than the ones I used to focus on before. Same here, I'm not very comvfortable in most social situations. But I've learned how to carry myself a lil'bit better from the coversations I've had with some of the people here. I see get to see the person for who they are not just they way the look. We tend to focus so much on a persons physical attributes and things like money, clothes, that sometimes we totally ingore what's more important.

dcrdnk Joined Wed 08/15/07 Posts: 5094	Sat 02/02/08 12:31 AM Edited by dcrdnk on Sat 02/02/08 12:32 AM
nawwwwww I'd flirt anyway , jus' that they can't slap me from a 'puter

thatonegirl05 Joined Sun 09/16/07 Posts: 1355	Sat 02/02/08 12:32 AM
Yeah, I'm a really shy person, so I tend to make a lot of things awkward when I try to talk to people, especially a guy that caught my eye. But working in a grocery store, definitely does not help.. It's hard watching all these good looking, or just genuinely nice guys come and go and all I can do is just look at them, and say the whole "Hi, how are you?.. Have a nice day." I wish I was better at talking to guys, haha. It sucks.

Chazster Joined Tue 08/28/07 Posts: 6206	Sat 02/02/08 12:32 AM
Yea I am less shy online. Sometimes have self esteem problems lol.

Wonderbread Joined Wed 12/13/06 Posts: 5587	Sat 02/02/08 12:33 AM
Yeah, I'm a really shy person, so I tend to make a lot of things awkward when I try to talk to people, especially a guy that caught my eye. But working in a grocery store, definitely does not help.. It's hard watching all these good looking, or just genuinely nice guys come and go and all I can do is just look at them, and say the whole "Hi, how are you?.. Have a nice day." I wish I was better at talking to guys, haha. It sucks. same way i feel working at the bank, but towards the ladies. Atleast your cute, I'm sure they're just as scared of talking to you as you are of them.

thatonegirl05 Joined Sun 09/16/07 Posts: 1355	Sat 02/02/08 12:35 AM
Yeah, I'm a really shy person, so I tend to make a lot of things awkward when I try to talk to people, especially a guy that caught my eye. But working in a grocery store, definitely does not help.. It's hard watching all these good looking, or just genuinely nice guys come and go and all I can do is just look at them, and say the whole "Hi, how are you?.. Have a nice day." I wish I was better at talking to guys, haha. It sucks. same way i feel working at the bank, but towards the ladies. Atleast your cute, I'm sure they're just as scared of talking to you as you are of them. I highly doubt that, lol.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Sat 02/02/08 12:36 AM
On the internet, do you find yourself talking to and flirting with people that if you saw in real life, you more then likely wouldn't approach, or even think about getting to know? Completely true. I have no self confidence, its just easier this way. Plus if i did approach someone in real life, i'm sure a mod would show up and censor me. hahahaha they're everywhere!!

Da_Absolute_Truth Joined Mon 10/15/07 Posts: 303	Sat 02/02/08 12:36 AM
At work I tend to just keep to myself, there's a only a handfull of people I talk to, but that's just maily because I have to deal with these people on a day to day bascis. I dunno it's just seams easier that way. You don't get judged and I already get enough weird looks from people at work.

Wonderbread Joined Wed 12/13/06 Posts: 5587	Sat 02/02/08 12:37 AM Edited by Wonderbread on Sat 02/02/08 12:40 AM
Yeah, I'm a really shy person, so I tend to make a lot of things awkward when I try to talk to people, especially a guy that caught my eye. But working in a grocery store, definitely does not help.. It's hard watching all these good looking, or just genuinely nice guys come and go and all I can do is just look at them, and say the whole "Hi, how are you?.. Have a nice day." I wish I was better at talking to guys, haha. It sucks. Its true, its the same way for most people. same way i feel working at the bank, but towards the ladies. Atleast your cute, I'm sure they're just as scared of talking to you as you are of them. I highly doubt that, lol. Just take the chance, it never hurts to try right?

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Sat 02/02/08 12:37 AM
<------hides behind her kitty cat mask!!!