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| Topic: How come girls don't like good guys? | |
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And Grover, so that you don't misunderstand me, I never meant to imply that you are not interesting or not a good catch. It was just a thought brought on by the fact that this topic really does get posted to DEATH.
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this question gets asked about a hundred times a week on here. All I can say is maybe the guys who think they are such great catches really aren't as great as they think they are. Being clean and neat is great, but do you make her laugh? Do you stimulate her mind? It isn't enough to just be "nice"; you have to be interesting as well. <------- Not A Good Catch! come on drifter, you're HOTT  Are you blind???  nope. I just don't think there is only one way that people should look. Beauty takes so many different forms. True. But Personally I'd settle for a face that didn't scare women and young children. Watching women walk away is great to a point but when there running, it makes you a wee bit self conses. 
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pointer, most, not all but most, women aren't necesarrily attracted to jerks and losers, but instead are attracted to the alhpa-male figure. To put it bluntly we are all animals, humans have a mating dance just like chimpanzees. Unfortunately i lack the patience for such games so i go for the few who are interested in me when i am myself. In fact, no matter how physically beautiful women are, that typical superficial nature makes them very unattractive to me. (Which, for some reason, makes them more attracted to me) hmmm, think about it....
p.s. sorry if i offended anyone, i have a couple drinks in me and am a little frustrated about the issue as well. |
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this question gets asked about a hundred times a week on here. All I can say is maybe the guys who think they are such great catches really aren't as great as they think they are. Being clean and neat is great, but do you make her laugh? Do you stimulate her mind? It isn't enough to just be "nice"; you have to be interesting as well. <------- Not A Good Catch! come on drifter, you're HOTT Are you blind??? nope. I just don't think there is only one way that people should look. Beauty takes so many different forms. True. But Personally I'd settle for a face that didn't scare women and young children. Watching women walk away is great to a point but when there running, it makes you a wee bit self conses. you are good looking.i wouldn't kick ya out of bed for eating cookies!!
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ya know, drifter, I think that whole "I'm so ugly" thing is an act to get women to tell you how wonderful you are.
Admit it!!! it't working...
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and drifter, while we are on the subject..try having a body that makes people want to tranquilize you and tag your ear...
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Not all good girls- like bad guys...
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I think we all want to be treated right..After dealing with physical abuse from a spouse..sometimes trust issues come into play even if we dont want them to.
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ok, a couple of thoughts. I myself have been attracted to bad boys; they're fun. They aren't marriage material though, and when women are tired of just having fun, and are looking for a mate, they choose someone like you :) Also, why do you go for women that like bad boys when you know you aren't one? Do you like the chase? Trying to convince them to change their minds? Do you like a challenge? Someday, some woman will look at you and think "Wow! What a great guy!" That's the woman you want. It may not happen immediately, but it will happen. Sometimes, things happen when you're not looking for them.
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ok, a couple of thoughts. I myself have been attracted to bad boys; they're fun. They aren't marriage material though, and when women are tired of just having fun, and are looking for a mate, they choose someone like you :) Also, why do you go for women that like bad boys when you know you aren't one? Do you like the chase? Trying to convince them to change their minds? Do you like a challenge? Someday, some woman will look at you and think "Wow! What a great guy!" That's the woman you want. It may not happen immediately, but it will happen. Sometimes, things happen when you're not looking for them. Some good words, maybe the best string of thoughts that I have read on this post tonight. Even though I agree with most. I don't like chasing women or playing games. See my profile. Then come back here. 
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