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Topic: How come girls don't like good guys?
Grover47's photo
Thu 01/31/08 04:39 PM
I know I am a good guy that knows how to treat women but I see women that I like dating "bad" guys and always end up getting hurt. I have been single for 17 months and have dated several times and I have always have had total respect for women. I am nice, considerate and romantic. Why can't I find love? I'm intelligent, I have a great job, I live in a nice home and I am very clean. I drive a nice car and I am not cocky. I know that part of it may be my attraction to Caucasian women. I do date women of any age, (prefer 30 to 55 years). I don't see why women do not like the kind and sweet type and end up with the bad, cheating and careless men and leave us good, faithful and careful men to a life of loneliness. I wish everyone a great evening.

trueokie2's photo
Thu 01/31/08 04:42 PM
Aw I'm sorry..flowerforyou Welcome to my world..

Drifters13's photo
Thu 01/31/08 04:43 PM
It just happens like that. I'm not getting into what I've been through but to me Its just not worth worrying about. so I just don't care and don't let anyone care. Works out better that way.

Have a drink or twenty and don't worry about it.

drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker drinker

Most likey not the best answer, but it always works for me sometimes.

IndnPrncs's photo
Thu 01/31/08 04:43 PM
Not all women are that way... Generalizing could be part of the problem as well... ALL women do not liked to be lumped in with SOME women... :wink:

Brenda_Darling's photo
Thu 01/31/08 04:45 PM
I know that from what i've seen, in others realtionships, is that most women want the Good guys when they are ready to settle down... or they want a good guy at heart with a bad boy look...most women are attracted to the whole bad boy persona...but dont give up hope theres some one out there for u

Rose41's photo
Thu 01/31/08 04:47 PM
wow grove...ur starting to post now...thats kool budhappy

no photo
Thu 01/31/08 04:47 PM
I think i know your problem!!! :angry: bigsmile Stop dating them caucasian women and come on over to us Hawaiian women!!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

hikerchick's photo
Thu 01/31/08 04:48 PM
this question gets asked about a hundred times a week on here. All I can say is maybe the guys who think they are such great catches really aren't as great as they think they are. Being clean and neat is great, but do you make her laugh? Do you stimulate her mind? It isn't enough to just be "nice"; you have to be interesting as well.

Grover47's photo
Thu 01/31/08 04:48 PM
I am not saying "All" women, just the ones that I have dated in the past year. They all have been hurt by the person that they choose over me. I never generalize when it come to anyone. I would never want to be generalized myself.

inflames1958's photo
Thu 01/31/08 04:49 PM
May be spinning my wheels but i feel your pain.

zebra127's photo
Thu 01/31/08 04:49 PM
Its not really true theres a sexy thing to a bad guy..image but when it boils down to the relationship if the guy is that way over 35 then hes role playing trust me....and not worth keeping

cutelildevilsmom's photo
Thu 01/31/08 04:51 PM
hey grover I am so over the babd boy persona.

Drifters13's photo
Thu 01/31/08 05:03 PM

this question gets asked about a hundred times a week on here. All I can say is maybe the guys who think they are such great catches really aren't as great as they think they are. Being clean and neat is great, but do you make her laugh? Do you stimulate her mind? It isn't enough to just be "nice"; you have to be interesting as well.


<------- Not A Good Catch!

hikerchick's photo
Thu 01/31/08 05:08 PM


this question gets asked about a hundred times a week on here. All I can say is maybe the guys who think they are such great catches really aren't as great as they think they are. Being clean and neat is great, but do you make her laugh? Do you stimulate her mind? It isn't enough to just be "nice"; you have to be interesting as well.


<------- Not A Good Catch!


come on drifter, you're HOTTdrinker

Drifters13's photo
Thu 01/31/08 05:09 PM



this question gets asked about a hundred times a week on here. All I can say is maybe the guys who think they are such great catches really aren't as great as they think they are. Being clean and neat is great, but do you make her laugh? Do you stimulate her mind? It isn't enough to just be "nice"; you have to be interesting as well.


<------- Not A Good Catch!


come on drifter, you're HOTTdrinker


Are you blind??? bigsmile drinker drinker bigsmile

ourulesin2003's photo
Thu 01/31/08 05:11 PM
Yeah I feel ya homey. I know exactly what you mean every woman I go for doesn't want to be with me either. at least you get to have a friendship with them though I dont even get to be their friend they tell me they are "busy" when I ask them to hang out.

ajhagena's photo
Thu 01/31/08 05:12 PM
Edited by ajhagena on Thu 01/31/08 05:12 PM
I feel like I've posted in this thread before.


Actually, that's not really true, since I know for a fact that I enjoy not posting in the thousands of different versions of this exact thread that are posted every single week.

steelersgirltina's photo
Thu 01/31/08 05:13 PM
There are women out there that dont learn from experience! brokenheart LOL
Really there are women left that want to be treated right.

hikerchick's photo
Thu 01/31/08 05:15 PM

I feel like I've posted in this thread before.


Actually, that's not really true, since I know for a fact that I enjoy not posting in the thousands of different versions of this exact thread that are posted every single week.


oh yeah!! drinker flowerforyou drinker flowerforyou

hikerchick's photo
Thu 01/31/08 05:16 PM




this question gets asked about a hundred times a week on here. All I can say is maybe the guys who think they are such great catches really aren't as great as they think they are. Being clean and neat is great, but do you make her laugh? Do you stimulate her mind? It isn't enough to just be "nice"; you have to be interesting as well.


<------- Not A Good Catch!


come on drifter, you're HOTTdrinker


Are you blind??? bigsmile drinker drinker bigsmile


nope. I just don't think there is only one way that people should look. Beauty takes so many different forms.

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