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Sounds like you knew what you were getting into before you said "I do". I haven't seen a relationship work yet where the man married the woman just so he could get a green card. He stiffed you for the rent but he'll be living off of the rest of us for years to come. No sympothy here. i did not know because he changed after we got married. i thought i was in love and i thought he loved me too. he told me a couple weeks ago what his true intentions were. and no he will not be living off the rest of you because he is going back to his home country as soon as we can afford his ticket. |
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agreed, nothing like taking something at face value... understood we don't know the whole story, we ARE only gettin one side, but damn... insensitive, but realistic Yep. That's what I'm sayin' ... girl comes in here looking for creative ways to keep a roof over her head, and gets bashed by a few. Talk about judgmental. EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEK. I'm thinking to myself .... Wow. Never let some of the JSH community know if I have a situation beyond my control. Yea to all who have been kind and generous with ideas though. |
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all i asked for was some ideas because my family is not talking to me. i know i have made mistakes that were my fault and i am taking responsibility for them but all i want now are some good legal ideas.
thank you to you all who suggested churches, legal aid, goverment help and such. i do appreciate it and i will be getting on the phone this morning. it just hard to drive down there when a car's brakes are broke...LOL |
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Sounds like you knew what you were getting into before you said "I do". I haven't seen a relationship work yet where the man married the woman just so he could get a green card. He stiffed you for the rent but he'll be living off of the rest of us for years to come. No sympothy here. i did not know because he changed after we got married. i thought i was in love and i thought he loved me too. he told me a couple weeks ago what his true intentions were. and no he will not be living off the rest of you because he is going back to his home country as soon as we can afford his ticket. I am soo confused - you need help w/ur rent, yet he's still in household??? he has abused you, yet still in household and now u add that he is leaving to his home country as soon as "we" can afford his ticket???? whats wrong w/this picture??? he spent all the money yesterday, he should have bought his ticket and left yesterday??? sorry if I misunderstood, but this is what I understood re: your postings |
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OK, answer me this. Did you guys scare her off because all this talk and she has not said a word  Would you really blame her if she was scared off? I mean she comes her looking for advice and then people start acting stupid and saying stupid things. It was a serious question and people have to act all goofy! Get real people...there is a time to be funny and a time to be serious!! Grow up a little! |
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Sounds like you knew what you were getting into before you said "I do". I haven't seen a relationship work yet where the man married the woman just so he could get a green card. He stiffed you for the rent but he'll be living off of the rest of us for years to come. No sympothy here. i did not know because he changed after we got married. i thought i was in love and i thought he loved me too. he told me a couple weeks ago what his true intentions were. and no he will not be living off the rest of you because he is going back to his home country as soon as we can afford his ticket. I'm sorry I did come off as cold hearted and that wasn't right. I'm sure you had/have your reasons for marrying the guy. I am more pissed off at guys like this than the women that marry them. I hope you are able to come up with something before the first. As far as "we" affording his ticket back home? He sounds like he has taken enough from you, let him figure out how to get the money to go back to his country. Good luck |
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She's friggin 20 years old? OMG. I was SUCH A MESS at 20. AND had a 4 year old already. Geesh. A little grace folks, a little grace.
The ONLY one who still believed in me at 20 was my daddy. God rest his soul. He was my hero. Still is. Sometimes we just have to learn the hard way. Most of us are wayyy past 20, we can share our wisdom and prudence with this kid. I mean I've got my sh*t together now, but it took me a while for sure. Thank God for the kind people in my life. IMHO 
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I really wanna hear the other side of this story. I bet he's got a good story. Wonder who he found in his bed? Little red riding hoods brother? he cheated on me! he married me only for a green card and then just to be an *ss about it, spent all the money and now he is going to be leaving. there is no other side to it. don't defend him when he is an abuser. he has slammed me into walls many times. If I was you I would go to the nearest womans shelter. You said that he was abusing you. I know they will take you in and they will help you with counseling..you are a young girl and this could really make you think that all men are like him. So go and talk to someone there and see what they say. |
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Sounds like you knew what you were getting into before you said "I do". I haven't seen a relationship work yet where the man married the woman just so he could get a green card. He stiffed you for the rent but he'll be living off of the rest of us for years to come. No sympothy here. i did not know because he changed after we got married. i thought i was in love and i thought he loved me too. he told me a couple weeks ago what his true intentions were. and no he will not be living off the rest of you because he is going back to his home country as soon as we can afford his ticket. I'm sorry I did come off as cold hearted and that wasn't right. I'm sure you had/have your reasons for marrying the guy. I am more pissed off at guys like this than the women that marry them. I hope you are able to come up with something before the first. As far as "we" affording his ticket back home? He sounds like he has taken enough from you, let him figure out how to get the money to go back to his country. Good luck NICE. That's really big of you Myrtlebeach. I commend you!
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yeah, let him find his own way back..stop worrying about him, it's gotten you no where so far, right?
however, being deported sounds promising |
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 Deportation does have it's rewards eh? 
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Edited by
ellgee1976
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Wed 01/30/08 07:52 AM
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i think i'd be embrasing my inner bi*ch and enjoy watching as they took him away personally
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Sounds like you knew what you were getting into before you said "I do". I haven't seen a relationship work yet where the man married the woman just so he could get a green card. He stiffed you for the rent but he'll be living off of the rest of us for years to come. No sympothy here. i did not know because he changed after we got married. i thought i was in love and i thought he loved me too. he told me a couple weeks ago what his true intentions were. and no he will not be living off the rest of you because he is going back to his home country as soon as we can afford his ticket. I'm sorry I did come off as cold hearted and that wasn't right. I'm sure you had/have your reasons for marrying the guy. I am more pissed off at guys like this than the women that marry them. I hope you are able to come up with something before the first. As far as "we" affording his ticket back home? He sounds like he has taken enough from you, let him figure out how to get the money to go back to his country. Good luck Looks like we do have some decent people in here that steps up when they know they do wrong!!! It takes a good guy to say when he does wrong..good for you!!
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I apologize young lady.
 Your original post was seen as being somewhat facetious. I wish you well.
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Sounds like you knew what you were getting into before you said "I do". I haven't seen a relationship work yet where the man married the woman just so he could get a green card. He stiffed you for the rent but he'll be living off of the rest of us for years to come. No sympothy here. i did not know because he changed after we got married. i thought i was in love and i thought he loved me too. he told me a couple weeks ago what his true intentions were. and no he will not be living off the rest of you because he is going back to his home country as soon as we can afford his ticket. I am soo confused - you need help w/ur rent, yet he's still in household??? he has abused you, yet still in household and now u add that he is leaving to his home country as soon as "we" can afford his ticket???? whats wrong w/this picture??? he spent all the money yesterday, he should have bought his ticket and left yesterday??? sorry if I misunderstood, but this is what I understood re: your postings yes he has hurt me before but there are issues that are more complicated than him just leaving. his mom is going to buy his ticket for him to leave. he leaves next week actually. its not like he is in the apt anyways. we got the rent money and all i need now is the electricity money and the money to fix my car. i do have an uncle not too far away that is a mechanic and is going to help me with my car. i already called the electricity company and they told me to pay what i can. thanks to those who helped. |
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GOOD LUCK TO YOU SUNSHINE
NO WOMAN EVER DESERVES TO HAVE MAN PUT HIS HANDS ON HER FOR ABSOLUTELY NO REASON. STAY STRONG AND GOOD LUCK |
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GOOD LUCK TO YOU SUNSHINE NO WOMAN EVER DESERVES TO HAVE MAN PUT HIS HANDS ON HER FOR ABSOLUTELY NO REASON. STAY STRONG AND GOOD LUCK ty! just one more week until he is out of my life forever! yes i will struggle financially for a bit but i will NOT ever put myself in a position to be completely dependent on anyone else EVER again! |
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i am going through a divorce and he left me with nothing. he spent it all yesterday. any ideas on how to get some mula before the first? Selling crack and azz always helps!!
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2 words catalytic converters
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I really wanna hear the other side of this story. I bet he's got a good story. Wonder who he found in his bed? Little red riding hoods brother? he cheated on me! he married me only for a green card and then just to be an *ss about it, spent all the money and now he is going to be leaving. there is no other side to it. don't defend him when he is an abuser. he has slammed me into walls many times. 
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