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Topic: Do people date on here?
trueokie2's photo
Mon 01/28/08 07:50 PM
Only if they show up.. Hee Hee..

CuriousinPhoenix's photo
Mon 01/28/08 07:55 PM


Makes me wonder though, but kinda hard when even I reach out and start to say hi to some women they don't bother to even answer or if they do then they stop speaking to me. frown


Ah well guys do the same thing, email and nothing back. Not sure what to make of it, considering how LONG I have been out of the dating scene...

want2liveagain's photo
Tue 01/29/08 05:19 AM
Look I'm serious I just ended a long term relationship and thought there would be alot of women that want to date (go out to dinner and movie or dancing) but no luck. Now my ex is having the time of her life so where is the justice. Am I that bad??

coco56's photo
Tue 01/29/08 05:21 AM
i have talked to a wonderful man on here and he is coming to see me in feb so yes you can find someone i waited a long time , but i never did give up and you shouldnt either bigsmile

unsure's photo
Tue 01/29/08 05:37 AM
I just think it takes time. I have went on a few dates..by dates I mean out for coffee or dinner. I am mostly looking for just friends though BUT I am keeping an open mind and if something happens thats great!!
I hope you find what you are looking for!! flowerforyou

Fade2Black's photo
Tue 01/29/08 05:41 AM

Hey do people really date here or is it just a play thing and tease machine, I want to date as I just got dumped and want some fun.



Uhhhh wouldn't that be a question for YOU to answer .. you wanna date, then date. laugh laugh laugh

no photo
Tue 01/29/08 08:11 AM


Hey do people really date here or is it just a play thing and tease machine, I want to date as I just got dumped and want some fun.



Uhhhh wouldn't that be a question for YOU to answer .. you wanna date, then date. laugh laugh laugh



*shaking my head and supressing a snickersnort*laugh
Yup!

Goofball73's photo
Tue 01/29/08 08:13 AM
Hmmmmmm. A dating site where the people actually do......DATE! What a f*cking concept!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

TheShadow's photo
Tue 01/29/08 08:14 AM

Hmmmmmm. A dating site where the people actually do......DATE! What a f*cking concept!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh
laugh laugh Hm, a date would be nice

MIDNIGHTRUNON411's photo
Tue 01/29/08 08:17 AM
flowerforyou it really does take time but i am meeting someone from here saturday and gonna see how things go. who knows!! might be my other half or could just turn into a friendship.

no photo
Tue 01/29/08 08:17 AM
A few of my favorite people on JSH have found their matches here. This site can and does work, for some people.

I think a lot depends on what you want, a certain amount of luck, geography, and the viability of your own personal standards.



no photo
Tue 01/29/08 08:18 AM
i will take one date plz.:wink:

Peacekeeper101's photo
Tue 01/29/08 08:20 AM
Personally, I like this site just to chat it up. I'm happily married, not looking for anything but conversation here... it's a nice way to pass the time during a deployment ;).

MIDNIGHTRUNON411's photo
Tue 01/29/08 08:20 AM

laugh laugh Hm, a date would be nice


how's about coming to GA. and we can go out on the town shadow!!flowerforyou drinker bigsmile

chuck366's photo
Tue 01/29/08 08:21 AM
nope just cyber sex

lynn83's photo
Tue 01/29/08 08:32 AM
A date would be nice, but like others have said just having someone to talk to (when you should be working) is nice. Making friends is always nice. :smile:

chuck366's photo
Tue 01/29/08 08:35 AM
I thought a date was something you eat?> there is another meaning>?

Moondark's photo
Tue 01/29/08 08:42 AM
Edited by Moondark on Tue 01/29/08 08:46 AM
Dating sites don't work overnight. You can't register for one, find an interesting person, and then be going out for coffee the next evening. All online dating sites take time. And because women are very cautious, probably takes longer than if you go out to the bar to try and pick someone up.

We want to take the time to get to know as much as we can before meeting. Sure, people could be lying. Same as meeting a person randomly in life. But the internet gives us a buffer zone so that people don't know where we live while we are getting to know someone.

You meet someone in life, start to get to know them, and if they are lying, they know your phone number and where you live before you find out, usually.

Online, you talk, get to know someone, a while after talking, you agree to meet at some public place. Meet a few times in person to see if this person is really on the up and up, and only then do you give out your numbers or let them know where you live.

Online dating sites take LONGER. But if you utilize them right, they can also have the potential to be safer.

If you are looking for a quick fix, go to the bar or some other local gathering place.

But some women don't date men they meet at bars. I don't. Two times I broke that rule were absolute disasters. And I worried for months because they guys turned out to be really scary and really screwed up. And they knew where I lived. There will be no third time.

dks6457's photo
Tue 01/29/08 02:57 PM
doesn't work well, not for the serious, i think there should be a seperate site for thowse who are after sex exclusive relationships.

dks6457's photo
Tue 01/29/08 02:59 PM
if your after sex alone there are sites to accomadate you, then again you always have your handlaugh

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