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Ok scenario.
I have two jobs, one i just do less than 5, for the other benefits i get (free membership) So there is a women that works there, she's in a senior position to me, but has no ability to directly hire, fire, or change my work schedule. What are pros and cons for asking if she would like to get coffee sometime? thanks |
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Ok scenario. I have two jobs, one i just do less than 5, for the other benefits i get (free membership) So there is a women that works there, she's in a senior position to me, but has no ability to directly hire, fire, or change my work schedule. What are pros and cons for asking if she would like to get coffee sometime? thanks Is she your boss |
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Pros: you might get a date lol
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Absolutely nothing. There is nothing wrong with getting to know your Co-workers. Go for it! If it turns in to something great, if not, play it cool and still be friends.
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con~if it doesnt work out or she turns psycho on you you still have to work with her..not to mention the jealous phase if she sees you talking to another girl at work
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Ok scenario. I have two jobs, one i just do less than 5, for the other benefits i get (free membership) So there is a women that works there, she's in a senior position to me, but has no ability to directly hire, fire, or change my work schedule. What are pros and cons for asking if she would like to get coffee sometime? thanks if it's just coffee break, that's cool. you will get to know her on a personal level but if you're gonna dive into dating her, there's a lot of cons. |
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I think its just if the girls like you,loooool CON!!! J/K
con~if it doesnt work out or she turns psycho on you you still have to work with her..not to mention the jealous phase if she sees you talking to another girl at work |
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Edited by
duckiegiggles
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Mon 01/28/08 12:12 AM
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I think its just if the girls like you,loooool CON!!! J/K con~if it doesnt work out or she turns psycho on you you still have to work with her..not to mention the jealous phase if she sees you talking to another girl at work well then its good thing for you i deleted you from my friends list then huh? |
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i don't think the other girl things would apply too much in this place. We're both 24ish, and most employees in our area are HS students.
Well it's lifeguarding, she's a head lifeguard, while i'm just a lifeguard, but mainly that means on shift, she is the go to person for patrons and running the pool. Behavior issues, demerits and what not among guards gets reported higher up. |
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HEY ...TRY IT MAN...U NEVER KNOW MAN...U MIGHT END UP BEING THE BOSS!!!!!!.....
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If she does evaluations or anything of that sort, if she is a supervisor, even though she can't fire you, I wouldn't recommend it. If she her position is a level up from you, but isn't in your branch on a position flow chart, then it isn't such a big deal.
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If she does evaluations or anything of that sort, if she is a supervisor, even though she can't fire you, I wouldn't recommend it. If she her position is a level up from you, but isn't in your branch on a position flow chart, then it isn't such a big deal. i agree with Moondark. Otherwise if you're interested in dating her, try looking to relocate or look for another job :) |
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Lol, I didnt even notice you were gone, lool sorry
I think its just if the girls like you,loooool CON!!! J/K con~if it doesnt work out or she turns psycho on you you still have to work with her..not to mention the jealous phase if she sees you talking to another girl at work well then its good thing for you i deleted you from my friends list then huh? |
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Lol, I didnt even notice you were gone, lool sorry I think its just if the girls like you,loooool CON!!! J/K con~if it doesnt work out or she turns psycho on you you still have to work with her..not to mention the jealous phase if she sees you talking to another girl at work well then its good thing for you i deleted you from my friends list then huh? pros for both of us then damn think it killed the thread too...sorry |
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