Topic: advice
BlondGuy561's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:02 AM
Ok scenario.

I have two jobs, one i just do less than 5, for the other benefits i get (free membership)

So there is a women that works there, she's in a senior position to me, but has no ability to directly hire, fire, or change my work schedule.

What are pros and cons for asking if she would like to get coffee sometime?

thanks

bad_girl's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:04 AM

Ok scenario.

I have two jobs, one i just do less than 5, for the other benefits i get (free membership)

So there is a women that works there, she's in a senior position to me, but has no ability to directly hire, fire, or change my work schedule.

What are pros and cons for asking if she would like to get coffee sometime?

thanks


Is she your boss

ybor363's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:04 AM
Pros: you might get a date lol

sick_of_games's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:05 AM
Absolutely nothing. There is nothing wrong with getting to know your Co-workers. Go for it! If it turns in to something great, if not, play it cool and still be friends.

duckiegiggles's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:07 AM
con~if it doesnt work out or she turns psycho on you you still have to work with her..not to mention the jealous phase if she sees you talking to another girl at work

yvory's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:09 AM

Ok scenario.

I have two jobs, one i just do less than 5, for the other benefits i get (free membership)

So there is a women that works there, she's in a senior position to me, but has no ability to directly hire, fire, or change my work schedule.

What are pros and cons for asking if she would like to get coffee sometime?

thanks



if it's just coffee break, that's cool. you will get to know her on a personal level but if you're gonna dive into dating her, there's a lot of cons.

no photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:09 AM
I think its just if the girls like you,loooool CON!!! J/Klaugh :wink:


con~if it doesnt work out or she turns psycho on you you still have to work with her..not to mention the jealous phase if she sees you talking to another girl at work

duckiegiggles's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:10 AM
Edited by duckiegiggles on Mon 01/28/08 12:12 AM

I think its just if the girls like you,loooool CON!!! J/Klaugh :wink:


con~if it doesnt work out or she turns psycho on you you still have to work with her..not to mention the jealous phase if she sees you talking to another girl at work


well then its good thing for you i deleted you from my friends list then huh?

BlondGuy561's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:12 AM
i don't think the other girl things would apply too much in this place. We're both 24ish, and most employees in our area are HS students.

Well it's lifeguarding, she's a head lifeguard, while i'm just a lifeguard, but mainly that means on shift, she is the go to person for patrons and running the pool.

Behavior issues, demerits and what not among guards gets reported higher up.

Alanzisho's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:12 AM
HEY ...TRY IT MAN...U NEVER KNOW MAN...U MIGHT END UP BEING THE BOSS!!!!!!.....drinker

Moondark's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:13 AM
If she does evaluations or anything of that sort, if she is a supervisor, even though she can't fire you, I wouldn't recommend it. If she her position is a level up from you, but isn't in your branch on a position flow chart, then it isn't such a big deal.

yvory's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:14 AM

If she does evaluations or anything of that sort, if she is a supervisor, even though she can't fire you, I wouldn't recommend it. If she her position is a level up from you, but isn't in your branch on a position flow chart, then it isn't such a big deal.


i agree with Moondark. Otherwise if you're interested in dating her, try looking to relocate or look for another job :)

no photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:17 AM
Lol, I didnt even notice you were gone, lool sorry:tongue:



I think its just if the girls like you,loooool CON!!! J/Klaugh :wink:


con~if it doesnt work out or she turns psycho on you you still have to work with her..not to mention the jealous phase if she sees you talking to another girl at work


well then its good thing for you i deleted you from my friends list then huh?

duckiegiggles's photo
Mon 01/28/08 12:26 AM

Lol, I didnt even notice you were gone, lool sorry:tongue:



I think its just if the girls like you,loooool CON!!! J/Klaugh :wink:


con~if it doesnt work out or she turns psycho on you you still have to work with her..not to mention the jealous phase if she sees you talking to another girl at work


well then its good thing for you i deleted you from my friends list then huh?



pros for both of us then

damn think it killed the thread too...sorry