Topic: Why is it?
Gumbyvs's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:11 PM


My personal opinion on this matter would be a inevetable answer due to everyone elses opinions because for the fact it differs to others. As for myself I might consider dating a smoker but on the other hand i find it very unatractive..


WTF...? noway


I pretended that post didn't exist, and so should you.

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:11 PM
As a matter of fact..yes I do believe it..cuz I've seen it happen..how can you not believe in something that you've seen evidence of?

Brenda_Darling's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:11 PM
i agree with scinn about not being able to afford it anymore but i've never really had anyother problems from that...other than nonsmokers being jerks and not wanting to hang out or even get to know me just cuz i smoke.

Gumbyvs's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:12 PM

As a matter of fact..yes I do believe it..cuz I've seen it happen..how can you not believe in something that you've seen evidence of?


Because there is no evidence? Perhaps? Maybe? Quite certainly? <best stewie impression>

You believe in global warming too huh?

Scinn's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:12 PM




Personally I don't mind either way...but I find men (and women) who use chewing tobacco highly unattractive.

You've got to keep in mind (and this is coming from a fellow smoker lol) that it's not just the health factor, smoking causes very bad breath, bad teeth, etc etc. No one wants to kiss a smoker...as they say, it's like kissing an ash tray. It doesn't exactly taste good and therefore a turnoff. People who also smoke don't tend to care, as they too smoke...so therefore it doesn't make a big difference to them.

I'm currently trying to quit, so hopefully one day I'll be able to say I'm no longer a smoker...but that's why there isn't much of a middle ground on it. Non-smokers find kissing smokers gross (just like I would find kissing a guy who chews tobacco gross) but most fellow smokers don't really care.


People that chew are disgusting, hands down.

And didn't your mother tell you "Never be a quiter!"?


lol I was trying to be nice about the chewing bit :wink: and nope...my mother never really spoke to me much. But, on the other hand...I get horrid cotton mouth, smoker's cough and a perpetual bad taste in my mouth which requires me to brush my teeth about 4 or 5 times a day and chew gum regularly to help control that. Would be nice to be able to breath, lose the smoker's cough and actually taste food for once. *lmao*


I guess I'm blessed, I've smoked for almost 22 years now and the only problem I have is the bad smelling clothes. Of course I don't smoke in the house, cause I dislike what it does to the walls and electronics, but I figure I enjoy it so much, why quit?


Well I don't smoke in the house, don't smoke in the car and don't smoke on the screened in porch if the kids are out there because of the kids....I smoke, but it doesn't mean they have to. *lol* But again, it just comes down to personal things...but you are lucky! lol I've been smoking for about 11 years now and can't wait until I can fully quit. laugh

Wiccancowboy's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:13 PM
I too agree it depends on the person. I am a smoker who quit cold turkey only to start after i joined the army. It doesnt matter to me either way if there is love involved it shouldnt matter what he or she does as long as its not beating her/him or the childeren.

boneyjoe's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:14 PM
good luck on stop smoken scinn,,,i stoped 3 years ago

liquidcandy's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:15 PM


My personal opinion on this matter would be a inevetable answer due to everyone elses opinions because for the fact it differs to others. As for myself I might consider dating a smoker but on the other hand i find it very unatractive..


WTF...? noway
ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh ditto lmaonoway noway

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:15 PM
Ok..fine..whatever..I'm not askin you to believe me..The question was asked and I gave my take on it..doesn't matter wether you believe me or not.

Fiammetta's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:15 PM
I have bad asthma and so I can't get near someone who smokes without having a reaction to it. I don't think it is a very healthy life choice and I don't want to date someone who can't take care of themselves. Having said that, I would date someone who smoked, even though I can't stand it, before I would date someone who dipped. My dad did both so I have lived with it. I find it highly distateful.

Brenda_Darling's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:16 PM
i smoke out side...nomatter what the weather is...away from any nonsmokers or children...but i've smoked for 5 years and i'm only 19 now..i started because i wanted to see how far i could push things because of the 18years old to buy tabacco thing...

but i'm starting to understand why some people act the way they do about smokers

Gumbyvs's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:17 PM

Ok..fine..whatever..I'm not askin you to believe me..The question was asked and I gave my take on it..doesn't matter wether you believe me or not.


Believe that there are no facts to back up what you're saying, I know this. But I can believe in the tooth fairy, sane women and santa too if you want me too.

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:17 PM


Ok..fine..whatever..I'm not askin you to believe me..The question was asked and I gave my take on it..doesn't matter wether you believe me or not.


Believe that there are no facts to back up what you're saying, I know this. But I can believe in the tooth fairy, sane women and santa too if you want me too.


Hey now on the sane women...

devildog08's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:17 PM
there is. thats why you talk to me. lol.

hunter870's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:18 PM
No matter what you do, you can never please everyone and there will always be someone to tell you, you are wrong and they know better than you.Just be yourself and do what makes you happy,and if people dont want to be around you,THAT is their lossflowerforyou smile and have a great evening:wink: just remember to be yourselfbigsmile

Gumbyvs's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:18 PM



Ok..fine..whatever..I'm not askin you to believe me..The question was asked and I gave my take on it..doesn't matter wether you believe me or not.


Believe that there are no facts to back up what you're saying, I know this. But I can believe in the tooth fairy, sane women and santa too if you want me too.


Hey now on the sane women...


Please, sane and women in the same sentence should be outlawed!

LadyOfMagic's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:20 PM
As I said..nothing is added or taken away from my life just cuz you do or dont believe me so I'm all good.

IndnPrncs's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:20 PM




Ok..fine..whatever..I'm not askin you to believe me..The question was asked and I gave my take on it..doesn't matter wether you believe me or not.


Believe that there are no facts to back up what you're saying, I know this. But I can believe in the tooth fairy, sane women and santa too if you want me too.


Hey now on the sane women...


Please, sane and women in the same sentence should be outlawed!


You standing up to pee will be a vague memory in a minute... huh grumble

Brenda_Darling's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:20 PM

No matter what you do, you can never please everyone and there will always be someone to tell you, you are wrong and they know better than you.Just be yourself and do what makes you happy,and if people dont want to be around you,THAT is their lossflowerforyou smile and have a great evening:wink: just remember to be yourselfbigsmile


thanks for that bit of wisdom or advice what ever u want to call it.:smile:

Brenda_Darling's photo
Sun 01/27/08 04:21 PM





Ok..fine..whatever..I'm not askin you to believe me..The question was asked and I gave my take on it..doesn't matter wether you believe me or not.


Believe that there are no facts to back up what you're saying, I know this. But I can believe in the tooth fairy, sane women and santa too if you want me too.


Hey now on the sane women...


Please, sane and women in the same sentence should be outlawed!


You standing up to pee will be a vague memory in a minute... huh grumble


i agree