Before you enter a relationship with someone you have the right to ask what the situation with her and the older gentleman actually is. As humans we tend to think the worst. Ask and then let us know!!!

that suks..................she may have something ajax won't remove.............

Hummm all I can say there is something that don't smell right.

lmao..................

something just doesn't sound right about this. I'd run like hell if I were in that situation. sounds like trouble.

confront him ask him whats going on .dont take her word for it

Do you really believe this sheeatt? No you dont just keep saying you dont You should run to the nearest planet far away from your little drama queen unless you want to wait for great grandpa to break up with her. HELLO ARE U LISTENING 2 ALL THESE REPLIES? just find someone that is not so out there, ok

I am 56 years old and have had younger lady friends pretty regularly since my divorce in the early nineties. By younger, I mean mid twenties to mid thirties. Some have been sexual and some just kissing and cuddling. I always let them know I would step aside if something, I don't want to say better here, else came along. They all were very honest with me as I was with them. I enjoyed their company as they did mine. They were not financially needy and did not want my money, just my companionship.
I say "go for it" if that is what you want. Older men such as myself are generally realistic with themselves and understand we cannot compete with the young studs. Just make sure she is honest with you about a commitment and remember she left someone else to be with you, who she feels is better than what she has now. Will this happen to you in the future?