Ok Ladies.. you want an honest profile?? Here ya go. Right now I cant offer you crap except what might be in the tomorrow. As it stands today.. I dont have crap to my name. But you know what?? I have more heart..more desire..more hope.. and more soul than most people out there. Not just men either. Yeah you have the looks.. the money.. the house.. but you have no SOU:L!! You wouldnt know YOU if you passed YOU on the streets. I pity you types. And I dont ever want to be YOU. I am rebuilding ME from a harsh reality. Everyone on here.. talking about games..Well... no ****?? Who hasnt been gamed? Except for the gamers and they dont make a crap in the long end of the spectrum ,do they?? My bottom line in all of this drivel? Simple. A Man or a Woman isnt made up of what we have.. we are made up of WHO we are..inside.. does anyone understand that any more? Or has life and love been reduced to a bank account and muscles or boob size? Is there any diginity ..honor.. self worth left in this world?? Or has it all been reduced to material worth? To build on the words of a great black man: I have a dream.. and maybe someday..I will find some one ,like myself.. that understands that life isnt about what you have now.. its about who you will be tomorrow.. but that probably wont happen. I dont expect many answers from this except from the trolls that answer everyone.. and to them I say,, RE-READ WHAT I JUST SAID!!!

Paging Dr Daniels.... Dr Jack Daniels. . . .

Boom chicka bow wow..

well said my friend,well said

I totally hear you, i've been in almost every state in this country, I've got about a duffelbag worth of cloths to my name right now. I'm only 20, but i'm an Army vet, lived all over the place, had my share of ups and downs. I've loved, & Loathed. I've climbed a mountan, & lived in a mental hospital. I finally know myself, & Love myself, for my strengths, & flaws. I can't wait to see what the rest of life has to throw at me.

i wouldnt care if he was a dustbin man working on minimum wage if he was a good man and treated me right

dam i hope u find ur equal

OMG you have just tilted the universe off it's axe's! I know exactly what you mean i have always believed that it is the little things in this life that we need to cherish and never worry about what it is that you don't have and always dream that one day you can eventually have it all! The dream is a very good one a very good one indeed and for those of us that pay attention and never give up those dreams will come true.
I don't have a lot of money shyt I am a 32yr old student just now trying to grt my shyt right, but as I always say better late than never. I have had my fair share of kicks in the face not only in relationships but in life as well, people frown on a independant humble woman such as myself because at the time I am a low income woman and single mom but hey I am F**kin makin it and everything I have I own and as long as I can pay my bills and feed my son than life is good and one day my dream will come true.....I will be free to finally live!!:)

For those of you that have answered my post on a human scale.. I say THANK YOU .. for the few of you that have simply shown your stupidity.. I say THANK YOU for proving my point.. morons.

Most people wouldn't know how to be honest if it bit them on the arse...


And when someone is refreshngly honest, the self-deceivers run shrieking for a moderator and some kind of sedative.

yep jess they sure do

I think we should have more posts like this without people getting pist off or scared and having them deleted!
I have stayed out of the sex and dating threads cus it is the same topics over and over again and I really think it takes away from the whole reason why we are all here!
I do admit I have posted a lot in there and havr been a little TMI at times but I am always honest about everything I say!

Very well said, and truly, you are not the only who feels that way. A lot of people, including myself, feel the way you do. I look at the heart and soul of a person, not the external trappings. I wish you well

I say, way-to-go! I respect your honesty and it is obvious that you are a man of honor! I totally know what to what you are referring! I think there are TONS and TONS of people who do not live in the real world, with real people who have real feelings.

Heck, I just wrote Dr. Phil a letter and told him just that! Not to get on my soapbox AGAIN, but the people they portray as "average" is not "average" in this neck of the woods. They were speaking of an economical average...........but still....

Any girl would be lucky to find you, twistyy~~

I might be a moron. But I learned through trial and error my wisdoms and I like myself and feel that I am a good soul that tries to help his fellow man when applicable.

I'm a moron who takes pride in his accomplishments. I enjoy life.

If you've got nothing...you've got nothing to hold you back...

I don't see this, or ANY internet site as the end all,be all way to meet people, but rather as just a fun way to to put yourself out there without risking more than a little time....I put no real hope or expectations in it, but see it rather as just another stone to turn over.
As for assets & money, I'm not all that but I do have a pretty good life that I've worked hard for. That's not to say that I'd base any dating decisions on someone meeting a fiscal criteria, but a person wants to find an equal right ?
With 6 billion people on the planet, the sea is full of fish and it's a vital and important risk we take when we decide to open our lives and hearts to another.
For me, Chemistry is the important thing.
Good luck

Good post!














I don't even have a pot to piss in either...
But that does'nt define who I am!
Deffinately what is inside counts!

Excellent post.


Material things aren't what is important, the soul is and being able to be you