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Topic: Children and dating
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Wed 01/23/08 11:26 PM
Good morning everybody, I hope you all had a great day!

My question is - If you found out that the person you were dating was going to have a child with somebody else (before you met them), would you stick around knowing that the mother/father would still be in their life during and after the pregnancy?

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Wed 01/23/08 11:27 PM
What time is it where you are??? And I wouldnt stick around. There is no commitment with that.

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Wed 01/23/08 11:27 PM
I would...

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Wed 01/23/08 11:29 PM

What time is it where you are??? And I wouldnt stick around. There is no commitment with that.


It's 1:30 AM ... just got off work.

How is there no commitment?

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Wed 01/23/08 11:30 PM
If you care for that person then what happened before you doesn't matter... It may suck to think about but the fact remains you weren't there, it is what it is and you have to decide what that person means to you...

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Wed 01/23/08 11:30 PM
i would stick around, stormy doesnt think so though

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Wed 01/23/08 11:31 PM

I would...
nope sorry you're comming to bed with me:heart:

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Wed 01/23/08 11:32 PM
i did

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Wed 01/23/08 11:32 PM
I definatly would....its not about what happens in the past....for all you know this could be the perfect person for you....but how would you ever know all because you let a kid get in your way.....I am still friends with my ex....we have a great friendship and its too bad if someone didnt want to pursue a relationship with me because of it....

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Wed 01/23/08 11:33 PM


I would...
nope sorry you're comming to bed with me:heart:


Sorry babe, I'm the one having the kid...

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Wed 01/23/08 11:34 PM
rob....you seem like a good guy...so i would stick around for ya

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Wed 01/23/08 11:35 PM

rob....you seem like a good guy...so i would stick around for ya

that is cooldrinker drinker drinker

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Wed 01/23/08 11:35 PM
Wow thats a tough question!! I guess the question is this, did he/she tell the person they were dating that they were expecting a baby? If not, then they started the relationship off with a lie!!
I honestly do not think I would want involved in anything like that. I think there is just to much drama involved esp. when a brand new baby is involved. I think I would step back and maybe they could work things out.
My boys are now 13 and 19, I actually just sent my first son off to college so I don't think I really want to start over with children. I love kids don't get me wrong, but I prefer men that have children in the same age group or someone that doesn't have brand new babies!!
I have no drama in my life and I prefer to keep it that way....nope I don't think I would get involved.

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Wed 01/23/08 11:36 PM
Rob is a good Bro...


rob....you seem like a good guy...so i would stick around for ya

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Wed 01/23/08 11:36 PM
I soooo wish,lol:heart: :heart: :heart: love love love



I would...
nope sorry you're comming to bed with me:heart:

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Wed 01/23/08 11:38 PM

Wow thats a tough question!! I guess the question is this, did he/she tell the person they were dating that they were expecting a baby? If not, then they started the relationship off with a lie!!
I honestly do not think I would want involved in anything like that. I think there is just to much drama involved esp. when a brand new baby is involved. I think I would step back and maybe they could work things out.
My boys are now 13 and 19, I actually just sent my first son off to college so I don't think I really want to start over with children. I love kids don't get me wrong, but I prefer men that have children in the same age group or someone that doesn't have brand new babies!!
I have no drama in my life and I prefer to keep it that way....nope I don't think I would get involved.


I found out after we were already dating. The person I am seeing is somewhat ok with it... It just got me thinking with all the possible jealousy involved.

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Wed 01/23/08 11:39 PM

rob....you seem like a good guy...so i would stick around for ya


I am a good guy bigsmile and thank you! :heart:

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Wed 01/23/08 11:39 PM


Wow thats a tough question!! I guess the question is this, did he/she tell the person they were dating that they were expecting a baby? If not, then they started the relationship off with a lie!!
I honestly do not think I would want involved in anything like that. I think there is just to much drama involved esp. when a brand new baby is involved. I think I would step back and maybe they could work things out.
My boys are now 13 and 19, I actually just sent my first son off to college so I don't think I really want to start over with children. I love kids don't get me wrong, but I prefer men that have children in the same age group or someone that doesn't have brand new babies!!
I have no drama in my life and I prefer to keep it that way....nope I don't think I would get involved.


I found out after we were already dating. The person I am seeing is somewhat ok with it... It just got me thinking with all the possible jealousy involved.

OK you are going to be a father? Or she is going to have a baby by someone else?

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Wed 01/23/08 11:41 PM



Wow thats a tough question!! I guess the question is this, did he/she tell the person they were dating that they were expecting a baby? If not, then they started the relationship off with a lie!!
I honestly do not think I would want involved in anything like that. I think there is just to much drama involved esp. when a brand new baby is involved. I think I would step back and maybe they could work things out.
My boys are now 13 and 19, I actually just sent my first son off to college so I don't think I really want to start over with children. I love kids don't get me wrong, but I prefer men that have children in the same age group or someone that doesn't have brand new babies!!
I have no drama in my life and I prefer to keep it that way....nope I don't think I would get involved.


I found out after we were already dating. The person I am seeing is somewhat ok with it... It just got me thinking with all the possible jealousy involved.

OK you are going to be a father? Or she is going to have a baby by someone else?


I am the lucky father

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Wed 01/23/08 11:43 PM
Thanks brother

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