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| Topic: Why do men pretend to be what they aren't? | |
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Okay normally I don't post about my personal life (because I don't really have one). But I've been talking to this guy I met online, not here, he found me on myspace around Christmas time. Hes been talking a good game, we talk pretty much every night. Ive invited him out a few times but he lives about 40 miles from me. He also keeps talking about taking me out, but has yet to make good on that. In an attempt to be trusting, Ive just let it go, continue to chat and never take anything too seriously. Today I get this complimentary comment on my page, so I went to comment him back...but got a little lost in checking out the females profiles on his page. Evidently hes this complimentary to all of his single female friends. So do I call him out on it? This is likely what Ill do because I can't keep my mouth shut to save my life. Or do I just let it go and see if he ever actually makes good on the plans he keeps making with me? And why ON EARTH cant men actually fall for a girl and be as sweet as they are when they are screwing around with them or on them? hell yea call him out! pick a fight with him 
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Hiker...Greg...get out of my head! There's not enough space in there for both of you!  sorry babe - great minds think alike.It can't be helped.    I think I must be getting old. I just can't get myself all worked up about someone I have never met, and expect that because we e-mail he has to cease all other communication with the outside world. |
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Umm..you haven't even met yet, correct? So why should you expect that you would be the only girl in the world he talks to? It's not like you are engaged. If he hasn't promised to stop talking to other people I wouldn't make a fuss about it. I talk to all kinds of guys on here. I am not going to date any of them. I just like talking to people, male and female. Right to the point i have friend's a lot of them And i care for some of them but not in that way They are my friends And let me say most men are lazy On myspace so they give the same comment out to all There friends this is most likely what he did So just ask him if he is lazy fox you took off your coat! |
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it depends, with that many women, i would re-evaluate the situation, and wonder if i go out with him, to take it light, and keep him out of your pants cause he's a playa, and just enjoy dinner, if he holds good on his promise ever,.. or feel him out, for business, he my be playing his options for lack of real time. my opinion, is 80% of guys s%$k, sorry guys. but it's true. so play it light, with protection, or call him out!
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it depends, with that many women, i would re-evaluate the situation, and wonder if i go out with him, to take it light, and keep him out of your pants cause he's a playa, and just enjoy dinner, if he holds good on his promise ever,.. or feel him out, for business, he my be playing his options for lack of real time. my opinion, is 80% of guys s%$k, sorry guys. but it's true. so play it light, with protection, or call him out! I think it's good practice generally to keep one's pants on when meeting new people. 
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amen to that
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when did e-mailing become as serious as having sex? People talk like it means the same thing. A guy owes you nothing just because he e-mailed you. Yikes.
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Umm..you haven't even met yet, correct? So why should you expect that you would be the only girl in the world he talks to? It's not like you are engaged. If he hasn't promised to stop talking to other people I wouldn't make a fuss about it. I talk to all kinds of guys on here. I am not going to date any of them. I just like talking to people, male and female. Right to the point i have friend's a lot of them And i care for some of them but not in that way They are my friends And let me say most men are lazy On myspace so they give the same comment out to all There friends this is most likely what he did So just ask him if he is lazy fox you took off your coat! Yes i did for a bit ! |
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some don't here, and we all know that, there's some real sweet talkers here, but i have met a lot of nice guys her as well as women, that really help and care, like the ones in this conversation.
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Umm..you haven't even met yet, correct? So why should you expect that you would be the only girl in the world he talks to? It's not like you are engaged. If he hasn't promised to stop talking to other people I wouldn't make a fuss about it. I talk to all kinds of guys on here. I am not going to date any of them. I just like talking to people, male and female. Right to the point i have friend's a lot of them And i care for some of them but not in that way They are my friends And let me say most men are lazy On myspace so they give the same comment out to all There friends this is most likely what he did So just ask him if he is lazy fox you took off your coat! Yes i did for a bit ! you look good. 
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ever heard players got to play? thats all he is, your most likely nothing two special 2 home. I would stop wasting ur time Well said, these guys (and gals too) are everywhere. Don't waste your time. If you call him on it he'll just tell you everything you want to hear and its only going to make him feel better about himself. These guys just collect..once the novelty has worn off they move on to someone new. 
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ever heard players got to play? thats all he is, your most likely nothing two special 2 home. I would stop wasting ur time Well said, these guys (and gals too) are everywhere. Don't waste your time. If you call him on it he'll just tell you everything you want to hear and its only going to make him feel better about himself. These guys just collect..once the novelty has worn off they move on to someone new. does this mean I am a playa because I talk to more than one guy? I never knew!!! Wow. |
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welcome to the tournament! Let the games begin!!!!
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welcome to the tournament! Let the games begin!!!! Whoot!! |
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Umm..you haven't even met yet, correct? So why should you expect that you would be the only girl in the world he talks to? It's not like you are engaged. If he hasn't promised to stop talking to other people I wouldn't make a fuss about it. I talk to all kinds of guys on here. I am not going to date any of them. I just like talking to people, male and female. This is more than just talking. I chat with a lot of people, but they dont all talk about how we are going to arrange our lives and schedules to be with eachother. And rearrange which weekends he has his son so that we both have our kids on the same weekends. |
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Umm..you haven't even met yet, correct? So why should you expect that you would be the only girl in the world he talks to? It's not like you are engaged. If he hasn't promised to stop talking to other people I wouldn't make a fuss about it. I talk to all kinds of guys on here. I am not going to date any of them. I just like talking to people, male and female. This is more than just talking. I chat with a lot of people, but they dont all talk about how we are going to arrange our lives and schedules to be with eachother. And rearrange which weekends he has his son so that we both have our kids on the same weekends. you are doing all this planning with someone you have never met? Sweetheart...you need slow it down, I think. |
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I think this is being interpreted wrong. And its hard to try to explain. Im 31, was married for 6 years, have been a single mother to 2 kids for 13 years. The last relationship I had was almost 2 years and Ive opted to be single for 4 years. I have a college education and a career. Its not like Im some stupid nieve girl. Im pretty good at pegging the good from the bad and this one just has me stumped.
I did call him out and he explained that Im the only person he calls and talks to on line and I can see hes getting frusterated with me and my standoffish "biscotti" behavior. But my stance is, hell either hang and deal with how I manage it, or hell wuss out and move on. Either way, Im not losing anything, I havent invested anything. |
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maybe your intimidating and hes afraid he cant match up to your success
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prob why you not seeing a descent guy.
Good luck |
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I am intimidating. I also refuse to settle for anyone who can't relate to where I am and what I have accomplished (materially and emotionally) in life. I expect to be respected and if that means being single forever, Im okay with that. Raising my kids with a sense of morals and setting a good example for them is much better than showing them its okay to settle for something less than you deserve.
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