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I GO OUT ON DATES, AND THEY GO REALLY WELL....BUT THEN WHEN I CALL THEM BACK IN A FEW DAYS THEY DONT RETURN MY CALL....WHATS GOIN ON HERE??????? HELP!! There is your problem, Give them your number and have them call you Then you can not return their call if they call ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() At least it cuts out the return call worries nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo... Why not...................... |
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I agree. Call the next day and get some feedback... whether or not it's a good date, it's just good manners anyway. like i said i dont want to seem like im in a rush! No, just a casual, "thanks for the crappy coffee" call. Not a desperate "let's have coffee again tomorrow" call. If you're purposely waiting a few days...then you're playing games. We wanna feel like we're worth your effort. Ignoring someone for a few days should come after you're married a few years. ![]() |
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You know, rather than waiting a few days to call, maybe drop an email or message on here (if thats where you are "meeting" her) later that night or the next day to let her know that you had a nice time and would like to meet again. It takes the pressure off calling and puts the ball in her court while letting her know you are interested.
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I GO OUT ON DATES, AND THEY GO REALLY WELL....BUT THEN WHEN I CALL THEM BACK IN A FEW DAYS THEY DONT RETURN MY CALL....WHATS GOIN ON HERE??????? HELP!! There is your problem, Give them your number and have them call you Then you can not return their call if they call ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() At least it cuts out the return call worries nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo... Why not...................... because you are twisting the rules, putting it on the GIRL |
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Edited by
mikecom21hotmaiL
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Mon 01/21/08 09:44 PM
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I GO OUT ON DATES, AND THEY GO REALLY WELL....BUT THEN WHEN I CALL THEM BACK IN A FEW DAYS THEY DONT RETURN MY CALL....WHATS GOIN ON HERE??????? HELP!! There is your problem, Give them your number and have them call you Then you can not return their call if they call ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() At least it cuts out the return call worries nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo... Why not...................... because you are twisting the rules, putting it on the GIRL My hunting license has expired LOL |
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Edited by
mikecom21hotmaiL
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Mon 01/21/08 09:43 PM
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lol
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lol well, nothing worse than a tired or lazy hunter... did i say that? wink ![]() |
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lol well, nothing worse than a tired or lazy hunter... did i say that? wink ![]() I am not a tired or lazy hunter, I just choose to be the prey rather than the hunter ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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You're leaving the wrong call back #
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You know, rather than waiting a few days to call, maybe drop an email or message on here (if thats where you are "meeting" her) later that night or the next day to let her know that you had a nice time and would like to meet again. It takes the pressure off calling and puts the ball in her court while letting her know you are interested. i dont want them to think im a coward and hide behind a computer screen cause im 2 scared to talk on the phone... |
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lol well, nothing worse than a tired or lazy hunter... did i say that? wink ![]() I am not a tired or lazy hunter, I just choose to be the prey rather than the hunter ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() oh really? the prey? rrrrrrrrrrrrrr |
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You're leaving the wrong call back # ![]() ROFLMAO...................... ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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You know, rather than waiting a few days to call, maybe drop an email or message on here (if thats where you are "meeting" her) later that night or the next day to let her know that you had a nice time and would like to meet again. It takes the pressure off calling and puts the ball in her court while letting her know you are interested. i dont want them to think im a coward and hide behind a computer screen cause im 2 scared to talk on the phone... you think wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy too much. just call the girl the next day or ask for a follow up date you don't have to smother her |
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unless she goes for that sort of thing
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lol well, nothing worse than a tired or lazy hunter... did i say that? wink ![]() I am not a tired or lazy hunter, I just choose to be the prey rather than the hunter ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() oh really? the prey? rrrrrrrrrrrrrr OP see how it works ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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You know, rather than waiting a few days to call, maybe drop an email or message on here (if thats where you are "meeting" her) later that night or the next day to let her know that you had a nice time and would like to meet again. It takes the pressure off calling and puts the ball in her court while letting her know you are interested. i dont want them to think im a coward and hide behind a computer screen cause im 2 scared to talk on the phone... It takes the pressure off her though as well. You are letting her know you are interested but not being pushy about it. Honestly, I think you are worrying too much about what she is going to think rather than just doing what comes natural to you. Just be yourself. If that means waiting a few days to call, then wait. If shes really into you, it wont matter. |
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ITS KILLING ME!!!!!!!
IVE TRIED IT ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!! AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA ![]() |
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I GO OUT ON DATES, AND THEY GO REALLY WELL....BUT THEN WHEN I CALL THEM BACK IN A FEW DAYS THEY DONT RETURN MY CALL....WHATS GOIN ON HERE??????? HELP!! What are you saying on the messages you leave? |
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I know, its rough...but, there is someone out there for you that will accept for just who and how you are. Be patient.
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I know, its rough...but, there is someone out there for you that will accept for just who and how you are. Be patient.
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