Topic: I NEED HELP - ASAP!
mikecom21hotmaiL's photo
Mon 01/21/08 09:38 PM



I GO OUT ON DATES, AND THEY GO REALLY WELL....BUT THEN WHEN I CALL THEM BACK IN A FEW DAYS THEY DONT RETURN MY CALL....WHATS GOIN ON HERE??????? HELP!!


There is your problem, Give them your number and have them call you

Then you can not return their call if they call

laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

At least it cuts out the return call worries



nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo...


Why not......................

Just_Say_When's photo
Mon 01/21/08 09:38 PM


I agree. Call the next day and get some feedback... whether or not it's a good date, it's just good manners anyway.


like i said i dont want to seem like im in a rush!


No, just a casual, "thanks for the crappy coffee" call. Not a desperate "let's have coffee again tomorrow" call. If you're purposely waiting a few days...then you're playing games. We wanna feel like we're worth your effort. Ignoring someone for a few days should come after you're married a few years.laugh

karock1's photo
Mon 01/21/08 09:38 PM
You know, rather than waiting a few days to call, maybe drop an email or message on here (if thats where you are "meeting" her) later that night or the next day to let her know that you had a nice time and would like to meet again. It takes the pressure off calling and puts the ball in her court while letting her know you are interested.

deltasissy's photo
Mon 01/21/08 09:39 PM




I GO OUT ON DATES, AND THEY GO REALLY WELL....BUT THEN WHEN I CALL THEM BACK IN A FEW DAYS THEY DONT RETURN MY CALL....WHATS GOIN ON HERE??????? HELP!!


There is your problem, Give them your number and have them call you

Then you can not return their call if they call

laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

At least it cuts out the return call worries



nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo...


Why not......................


because you are twisting the rules, putting it on the GIRL

mikecom21hotmaiL's photo
Mon 01/21/08 09:41 PM
Edited by mikecom21hotmaiL on Mon 01/21/08 09:44 PM





I GO OUT ON DATES, AND THEY GO REALLY WELL....BUT THEN WHEN I CALL THEM BACK IN A FEW DAYS THEY DONT RETURN MY CALL....WHATS GOIN ON HERE??????? HELP!!


There is your problem, Give them your number and have them call you

Then you can not return their call if they call



laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

At least it cuts out the return call worries



nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo...


Why not......................


because you are twisting the rules, putting it on the GIRL


My hunting license has expired LOL

mikecom21hotmaiL's photo
Mon 01/21/08 09:42 PM
Edited by mikecom21hotmaiL on Mon 01/21/08 09:43 PM
lol

deltasissy's photo
Mon 01/21/08 09:45 PM

lol


well, nothing worse than a tired or lazy hunter... did i say that? wink flowerforyou

mikecom21hotmaiL's photo
Mon 01/21/08 09:50 PM


lol


well, nothing worse than a tired or lazy hunter... did i say that? wink flowerforyou


I am not a tired or lazy hunter, I just choose to be the prey rather than the hunter

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briank66's photo
Mon 01/21/08 09:50 PM
You're leaving the wrong call back # smokin

no photo
Mon 01/21/08 09:51 PM

You know, rather than waiting a few days to call, maybe drop an email or message on here (if thats where you are "meeting" her) later that night or the next day to let her know that you had a nice time and would like to meet again. It takes the pressure off calling and puts the ball in her court while letting her know you are interested.


i dont want them to think im a coward and hide behind a computer screen cause im 2 scared to talk on the phone...

deltasissy's photo
Mon 01/21/08 09:51 PM



lol


well, nothing worse than a tired or lazy hunter... did i say that? wink flowerforyou


I am not a tired or lazy hunter, I just choose to be the prey rather than the hunter

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bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile



oh really? the prey? rrrrrrrrrrrrrr

mikecom21hotmaiL's photo
Mon 01/21/08 09:51 PM

You're leaving the wrong call back # smokin


ROFLMAO......................

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deltasissy's photo
Mon 01/21/08 09:52 PM


You know, rather than waiting a few days to call, maybe drop an email or message on here (if thats where you are "meeting" her) later that night or the next day to let her know that you had a nice time and would like to meet again. It takes the pressure off calling and puts the ball in her court while letting her know you are interested.


i dont want them to think im a coward and hide behind a computer screen cause im 2 scared to talk on the phone...



you think wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy too much.
just call the girl the next day or ask for a follow up date

you don't have to smother her


deltasissy's photo
Mon 01/21/08 09:52 PM
unless she goes for that sort of thing devil

mikecom21hotmaiL's photo
Mon 01/21/08 09:53 PM




lol


well, nothing worse than a tired or lazy hunter... did i say that? wink flowerforyou


I am not a tired or lazy hunter, I just choose to be the prey rather than the hunter

blushing blushing blushing
bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile bigsmile



oh really? the prey? rrrrrrrrrrrrrr


OP see how it works

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karock1's photo
Mon 01/21/08 09:55 PM


You know, rather than waiting a few days to call, maybe drop an email or message on here (if thats where you are "meeting" her) later that night or the next day to let her know that you had a nice time and would like to meet again. It takes the pressure off calling and puts the ball in her court while letting her know you are interested.


i dont want them to think im a coward and hide behind a computer screen cause im 2 scared to talk on the phone...


It takes the pressure off her though as well. You are letting her know you are interested but not being pushy about it. Honestly, I think you are worrying too much about what she is going to think rather than just doing what comes natural to you. Just be yourself. If that means waiting a few days to call, then wait. If shes really into you, it wont matter.

no photo
Mon 01/21/08 09:58 PM
ITS KILLING ME!!!!!!!

IVE TRIED IT ALL!!!!!!!!!!!!!

AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAbrokenheart

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Mon 01/21/08 09:59 PM

I GO OUT ON DATES, AND THEY GO REALLY WELL....BUT THEN WHEN I CALL THEM BACK IN A FEW DAYS THEY DONT RETURN MY CALL....WHATS GOIN ON HERE??????? HELP!!

What are you saying on the messages you leave?

karock1's photo
Mon 01/21/08 09:59 PM
I know, its rough...but, there is someone out there for you that will accept for just who and how you are. Be patient.

karock1's photo
Mon 01/21/08 09:59 PM
I know, its rough...but, there is someone out there for you that will accept for just who and how you are. Be patient.