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Topic: I NEED HELP - ASAP!
karock1 Joined Sun 01/21/07 Posts: 55	Mon 01/21/08 09:15 PM
I dont know, maybe its where you are meeting them. Maybe if after coffee you feel a connection, suggest something else to do that you know you both like, perhaps a walk or something. Nothing where you are isolated because that might make her uncomfortable but something public but fun other than just sitting for coffee.

midnightdreams Joined Tue 11/06/07 Posts: 65	Mon 01/21/08 09:15 PM
I agree. Call the next day and get some feedback... whether or not it's a good date, it's just good manners anyway. like i said i dont want to seem like im in a rush!

deltasissy Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 1318	Mon 01/21/08 09:16 PM
why wait DAYS? geez. I DONT WANT THEM TO THINK IM IN A RUSH... oh but girls like to feel chased call later the next day maybe and tell her you had a great time

midnightdreams Joined Tue 11/06/07 Posts: 65	Mon 01/21/08 09:17 PM
I dont know, maybe its where you are meeting them. Maybe if after coffee you feel a connection, suggest something else to do that you know you both like, perhaps a walk or something. Nothing where you are isolated because that might make her uncomfortable but something public but fun other than just sitting for coffee. after coffee we went to a nearby bookstore.....

karock1 Joined Sun 01/21/07 Posts: 55	Mon 01/21/08 09:18 PM
ahh..well then maybe set something up before you say goodbye next time. If shes interested then she'll go for it.

JaceKnows Joined Mon 11/12/07 Posts: 5110	Mon 01/21/08 09:19 PM
Unless you're throwing up on their laps, you should get SOME sort of feedback a day later... calling 20 minutes after the date ended means you're rushing. If you're waiting days, she's probably not real thrilled with that. Just an observation. (=

deltasissy Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 1318	Mon 01/21/08 09:20 PM
ahh..well then maybe set something up before you say goodbye next time. If shes interested then she'll go for it. that's great advice

Fade2Black Joined Mon 10/08/07 Posts: 50752	Mon 01/21/08 09:20 PM
I GO OUT ON DATES, AND THEY GO REALLY WELL....BUT THEN WHEN I CALL THEM BACK IN A FEW DAYS THEY DONT RETURN MY CALL....WHATS GOIN ON HERE??????? HELP!! First off stop yelling What are your convos about? Do you get into her, or just talk about your self? This is HUGE. And show interest straight up. I LOVE being pursued as long as it's not suffocating.

midnightdreams Joined Tue 11/06/07 Posts: 65	Mon 01/21/08 09:22 PM
I GO OUT ON DATES, AND THEY GO REALLY WELL....BUT THEN WHEN I CALL THEM BACK IN A FEW DAYS THEY DONT RETURN MY CALL....WHATS GOIN ON HERE??????? HELP!! First off stop yelling What are your convos about? Do you get into her, or just talk about your self? This is HUGE. And show interest straight up. I LOVE being pursued as long as it's not suffocating. convos are about both of us but i dont reveal 2much about myself...i like mystery.

karock1 Joined Sun 01/21/07 Posts: 55	Mon 01/21/08 09:24 PM
I GO OUT ON DATES, AND THEY GO REALLY WELL....BUT THEN WHEN I CALL THEM BACK IN A FEW DAYS THEY DONT RETURN MY CALL....WHATS GOIN ON HERE??????? HELP!! First off stop yelling What are your convos about? Do you get into her, or just talk about your self? This is HUGE. And show interest straight up. I LOVE being pursued as long as it's not suffocating. convos are about both of us but i dont reveal 2much about myself...i like mystery. That might be part of the problem. If I meet a guy and he doesnt reveal much about himself, it kinda makes me wonder if he's trying to hide something or that he wont be good at having a conversation with down the road maybe.

deltasissy Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 1318	Mon 01/21/08 09:25 PM
yes like the mysterious picture. too much mystery = red flag.

karock1 Joined Sun 01/21/07 Posts: 55	Mon 01/21/08 09:26 PM
yes like the mysterious picture. too much mystery = red flag. Exactly!

legman99 Joined Sun 01/06/08 Posts: 181	Mon 01/21/08 09:27 PM
did you read the owners manual

midnightdreams Joined Tue 11/06/07 Posts: 65	Mon 01/21/08 09:27 PM
why are they so into me that night??????????????? i just dont get it....

karock1 Joined Sun 01/21/07 Posts: 55	Mon 01/21/08 09:28 PM
Its easy to get caught up in the moment and have fun but when you have time to reflect on it, sometimes you see those red flags later.

midnightdreams Joined Tue 11/06/07 Posts: 65	Mon 01/21/08 09:29 PM
yes like the mysterious picture. too much mystery = red flag. Exactly! what about cocky comedy ???

deltasissy Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 1318	Mon 01/21/08 09:29 PM
why are they so into me that night??????????????? i just dont get it.... girls can fake their interest to be nice. sorry.

karock1 Joined Sun 01/21/07 Posts: 55	Mon 01/21/08 09:30 PM
why are they so into me that night??????????????? i just dont get it.... girls can fake their interest to be nice. sorry. sad but true as well

mikecom21hotmaiL Joined Thu 08/31/06 Posts: 6595	Mon 01/21/08 09:35 PM
I GO OUT ON DATES, AND THEY GO REALLY WELL....BUT THEN WHEN I CALL THEM BACK IN A FEW DAYS THEY DONT RETURN MY CALL....WHATS GOIN ON HERE??????? HELP!! There is your problem, Give them your number and have them call you Then you can not return their call if they call At least it cuts out the return call worries

deltasissy Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 1318	Mon 01/21/08 09:37 PM
I GO OUT ON DATES, AND THEY GO REALLY WELL....BUT THEN WHEN I CALL THEM BACK IN A FEW DAYS THEY DONT RETURN MY CALL....WHATS GOIN ON HERE??????? HELP!! There is your problem, Give them your number and have them call you Then you can not return their call if they call At least it cuts out the return call worries nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo...