first let me tell you a little about myself.
no i'm not perfect and don't claim to be. but i want the best, who doesn't want the best for themselves. i'm independent female, i have full-time job, no children, about to go back to college, drug free and i live by myself in NJ.

don't get me wrong, i understand that there is no such thing as perfect date. but don't tell your expect date, you are going to treat him/her like the prince/princess. i understand that people are on tight budget. don't make plans that your budget can't handle. here are couple of situtation, what would you have done?

1. a gal/guy ask you out, who should pay?

2. your date tells you that you going to have fun at the wine tasting - at winery?, no free community event. what is your opinion of your date?

3. refuse to pay cover charger of 8$ for two, at nice club. and told you they was charging forty dollars per person (even though you heard the whole conversation)what is your opinion of your date?

4. thought paying to take your date to movie was too high ($22), then stated hope you don't want anything to eat (after paying for the tickets). because i plan to cook you a nice meal.......

wanted to/decide to cook dinner, hot dogs and mac&cheese. what would you have done?

5. if you are twenty minutes from your date's city, would you take him/her hour away to catch the train (that have to backtrack, where you just left from). what would you have done?

6. your date has sweat pants&shirt (like s/he been outside moaning the lawn for 3hrs) on and snow storm falling from her/his head. what would you have done?

please tell me what would you have done?
or please tell me your opinion of this person?

thanks have fun and be honest.
ps no i will not tell you who this person is.

That is not a perfect date!

Honestly i wood have told them that they are a low life and told them to get away then again i expect alot out of a guy who takes me out who ever did the asking for the date should and wit me will always pay flat and simple good luck girl

I would have headed for the hills, man what a bummer

okay, question, did all this occur on the first date??? was this with one person???????

hmmmm i have often thought of this and then i do dolly a couple times

Doesn't sound like a very good date. Never believe the "treat you like a prince/princess," you will probably be treated like Cinderella before the prince found her!

My rule is whoever asks for the date, pays. Unless it is worked out before hand. If I ask someone out I pay. If they ask me out I expect them to pay.

For the rest of the questions I think the person was cheap and did not respect themselves or you.

End date early!

not to offend anyone.
never set up a date with a jewish guy.

okay, question, did all this occur on the first date??? was this with one person???????


first date and one person from this site.
they live in the yonker-bronx, ny