Alright, well first i'll start off by saying my name is amy and im 19 years old. I've been struggling to get answers to this question. Do Looks really matter when meeting somone? i mean obviously it does a bit, but i mean like does size really matter? Im not a small girl and im not big ether, but why do people have to always judge by the size you are? it doesn't change the person you are....i don't understand it. Can Somone please try to explain it to me?
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Amy
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Some people are just shallow. But honestly, I have not encountered that much on here. There are a lot of great people on here and if one of them is meant for you, they will find you or vice versa. Good luck.

who knows amy.people are strange.say one thing do something else.just be yourself.thanks

If someone judges you by the way you look, then you most definitely do not even need to worry about that person. SO many people these days judge by looks, or income that its not even funny. I can relate in an odd way... I have been "rejected" if you will just because I'm covered in tattoos, and have alot of piercings. Don't fret over the ignorance of those who would judge you by your looks. It's their loss, not yours.

Unfortunately, society does tend to judge people based on superficial attributions, thats a given fact, but acknowledge this and work on accepting yourself first---(which usually is the hardest thing to do).

people dont get what life is really about well actually no matter how old we are or who we are i dont think any of us get what life is about but many of us understand what being with someone is all about but some dont get it well they will learn sooner or later

Some people are rude and shallow. For me, I have to think the guy is cute because if I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with him, then he has to be cute. When I think hes cute, I dont give a rats a$$ what other people think about him.

Thanks You Guys!!!!
i really appreciate all teh feedback!!

if we were all blind it wouldnt take us long to find love

yeah i know what you mean, but it's so hard to accept that people can be so mean, i mean yes okay im not the smallest girl, but i know i have the biggest heart. && as for you and your peircings, who care's they shouln't judge you for that, you are who you are, that shouln't change, people judeged me to cuz i have 2 tatoos and some people think girls shouldn't have tatoo's but screw them, it's our body right? :)

Berryboo is right but I would like to add that EVERYONE has their tastes.. I may be one persons idea of attractive and not another's and the same for you.. We are all individuals and while yes there are shallow people it doesn't mean that everyone is or that only attractive people get things.. A guy that makes me weak in the knees you may think is ugly...

Here's a question.. If someone is shallow b/c they want to be attracted to a person physically... Are they also shallow b/c the want to be attracted to someone mentally and aren't interested in people that are dumb as stumps???

your absolutely right its the inside that counts i mean honestly who cares what religion they are or how many cats or dogs they have as long as you like them for who they are than that is what counts

I agree with that 100%

My DNA tells me what is attractive, it's not my fault

I agree with Suzanne. It's because a lot of people are really shallow. Obviously, looks are going to be more important to some people, but not everyone. Everybody has different things they look for. Personally, I think that good looking girls are a dime a dozen. Therefore, I tend to keep an eye out for girls with a good heart and personality. The girls like that seem to be a lot harder to find. That's why I think they are more special to find if you are lucky enough to find one. Honestly, looks are somewhat important to me, but not the most important by any means. You're right, looks has nothing to do with your character. Character is the most important thing to me.

There's nothing wrong with any of us. That cant be cured ..I think..

well theres nothing wrong with the rest of us just you

I would say that you definitely need some sort of physical attraction towards somebody when you first meet. But then after that personality is #1. I need to be able to interact with the person so looks aren't my main priority.....I need to find them attractive as do most people. But after that if there is no spark, then who cares what they look like. I have met a few girls that were very pretty but once I started talking to them, they became less and less attractive. Then I've also met girls that were cute but once we started interacting they became much more attractive. I say personality goes a long way with me.

i totally agree with you guys there is need to feel attracted towards that certain someone, im just saying a lot of people go to much about that.

yes some do and they dont deserve us