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As a friend, he really ought to understand that you're uncomfortable with her around and respect that. I've had to stop being friends with girls because they broke up with my friends in nasty ways before. It's not fun, but it's what friends are about. If he was really such a good friend, he'd back you up. IMHO of course. Thanks dude - my other friends said the same thing! 
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Hey sunshine, I dont think he is disrepecting you. He isn't messing w/her is he? That would mean he is disrepecting you! jmo Afterall, it shouldnt affect him one way or the other if you guys are together, his interest is in a good poker game. So sorry, I side w/your friend, think you should leave your personal feelings at the door. (just my opinion) Nah - he's not getting with her. And I don't mind if he invites her....just don't get mad at me if I decide not to be around her - that's all. |
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I think he should know it makes you feel uncomfortable. Sounds like he wants to get jiggy wit her yanno??? He doesnt sound like much of a friend.....  Hummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm huhhhhh sounds like he is wanting some hanky panky to me lmao shshshhsh my friends that split even tho I was friends with both I would have never put one in that situation that is just not right.  
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ya dude ur friend has to see where your coming from. i mean come on, no one in their right mind wants to hang out with your ex u know. i mean if she would start flirting with someone there or something, alls its going to do is piss you off, and bring back all that bull****. i think your doing the right thing by telling him that if shes there your not coming. makes total sense to me. and if he is a true friend he will understand that it makes you uncomfortable, he is the one acting stupid calling you immature, whats immature about not wanting to be around someone that did some shady ****.
stick to you guns dude, and if he can understand it. then your friend needs a wakeup call |
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I don't think you are acting immature. You are doing what you need to do to heal right now. It is unfortunate that your friend cannot be more sensitive to your feelings, being that your bond and his was supposed to be stronger than his and hers. Ah, but some men will lose their minds for a hot bod or pretty face. Causes lots of problems, no?  yeah - I guess......or maybe he is just trying to take her money at poker....she has gotten better but usually loses.
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a year from now, you will be mad at yourself for giving her all that power over you.
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Hey sunshine, I dont think he is disrepecting you. He isn't messing w/her is he? That would mean he is disrepecting you! jmo Afterall, it shouldnt affect him one way or the other if you guys are together, his interest is in a good poker game. So sorry, I side w/your friend, think you should leave your personal feelings at the door. (just my opinion) Nah - he's not getting with her. And I don't mind if he invites her....just don't get mad at me if I decide not to be around her - that's all. ahh that is absolutely your right. I misread your post, if you personally feel you dont want to be in her presence, then kudos to you, stick to your guns... thought for some reason you were avoiding your friends because she went to play. See I would go and make sure I'd play to win, run her outta da game instead of the other way around  |
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BROS before HOES.... Kidding... I am not kidding.....thats the way it should be.. he is wrong for doing that. |
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a year from now, you will be mad at yourself for giving her all that power over you. I kind of understand what you're saying but I still do not want to be around her. Too uncomfortable. She did some stuff behind my back that I wouldn't wish on anyone. So it's not about giving her power, more about letting me keep mine!!! It took a while for me to get over everything and I'd like to keep it that way. I don't deserve to have to rehash everything. |
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dump them both
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ya dude ur friend has to see where your coming from. i mean come on, no one in their right mind wants to hang out with your ex u know. i mean if she would start flirting with someone there or something, alls its going to do is piss you off, and bring back all that bull****. i think your doing the right thing by telling him that if shes there your not coming. makes total sense to me. and if he is a true friend he will understand that it makes you uncomfortable, he is the one acting stupid calling you immature, whats immature about not wanting to be around someone that did some shady ****. stick to you guns dude, and if he can understand it. then your friend needs a wakeup call EXACTLY!!! It's just the whole situation of what happened months ago will come back to me in some way if I'm around her. I don't need to go through that again. If he invites her and she goes, that's fine. I just don't want to be a part of it. The one game she couldn't make, I went!!! |
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dump them both I'm a pretty loyal guy to my friends.....but I don't want her in my life anymore. She messed with my feelings and my little girls. It was bad. |
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Find friends who got your back!!!
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I thinks thats A Dr.Phill question .
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ya dude ur friend has to see where your coming from. i mean come on, no one in their right mind wants to hang out with your ex u know. i mean if she would start flirting with someone there or something, alls its going to do is piss you off, and bring back all that bull****. i think your doing the right thing by telling him that if shes there your not coming. makes total sense to me. and if he is a true friend he will understand that it makes you uncomfortable, he is the one acting stupid calling you immature, whats immature about not wanting to be around someone that did some shady ****. stick to you guns dude, and if he can understand it. then your friend needs a wakeup call yep. seconded. |
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a friend is supposed to support you. i think your friend should understand that you are uncomfortable when she is there. if he can't understand that and let you make your choice to stay away without getting mad at you then he is not the friend you think he is. tell him that yall have been friends for a long time and explain to him how uncomfortable you are. if he says you are still being immature just tell him it has been nice knowing him. one day he will wake up and realize he was wrong but by then it may be too late.
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dump them both I'm a pretty loyal guy to my friends.....but I don't want her in my life anymore. She messed with my feelings and my little girls. It was bad. Loyalty runs both ways or they are not friends. |
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Find friends who got your back!!! I see a difference with my other real close friends....they won't even go to the poker game if she is going to be there. |
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You guys are awesome....I guess I just wanted to vent a little bit and get some of your opinions. Made me feel a lot better.
Here's to my JSH friends.
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Find friends who got your back!!! I see a difference with my other real close friends....they won't even go to the poker game if she is going to be there. those are the friends to have. they will have your back no matter what. I'm sure if you asked the JSH posse will jump her
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