first of all let me say this i really dont care what anyone thinks of me but here goes today after i awoke i started to go through the threads and i came upon a couple done by heels 08 a young foreign kid who spoke with broken english but none the less no different than the rest of us here as he tried to talk about himself and his problems i started noticing that people who i thought were decent start insulting him and the way he spoke and the fact that he had a few post and pretty soon there were more insults directed at this kid and he was told to shut up i guess everyone felt the need to join in the crowd against this young man and yall know who you are and you should be ashamed of yourselves its threads like these that show the rest of us your true colors ..what if this had been your kid ..this young man came on here to try to make friends and he was alienated i guess by those who thought they were better than him well on the contrary ..so you dont have to worry about heels08 because he has deactivated his account i hope yall are proud of yourselves sometimes these young adults come on here needing a friend to talk with and maybe we may find ourselves the gap between them doing something harmful who knows but you would have thought that yall could have showed more compassion for this young man i hope yall are happy now i personally would like to say more but trust me i would be banned .....

first of all let me say this i really dont care what anyone thinks of me but here goes today after i awoke i started to go through the threads and i came upon a couple done by heels 08 a young foreign kid who spoke with broken english but none the less no different than the rest of us here as he tried to talk about himself and his problems i started noticing that people who i thought were decent start insulting him and the way he spoke and the fact that he had a few post and pretty soon there were more insults directed at this kid and he was told to shut up i guess everyone felt the need to join in the crowd against this young man and yall know who you are and you should be ashamed of yourselves its threads like these that show the rest of us your true colors ..what if this had been your kid ..this young man came on here to try to make friends and he was alienated i guess by those who thought they were better than him well on the contrary ..so you dont have to worry about heels08 because he has deactivated his account i hope yall are proud of yourselves sometimes these young adults come on here needing a friend to talk with and maybe we may find ourselves the gap between them doing something harmful who knows but you would have thought that yall could have showed more compassion for this young man i hope yall are happy now i personally would like to say more but trust me i would be banned .....

well said. heels wasn't a bad kid. just a little on the negative side. sorry he left.

I'M NOT SURE I WAS ONE.
I JUST THOUGHT HE WAS TOO YOUNG TO BE ON A DATING SITE.

MAYBE THIS SITE SHOULD BE 'JUST BE FRIENDS' OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT.
WELL,LIKE MOST....I HOPE HEELS COMES BACK.

well tombs...my true color is black...i'm personally glad he's gone and if he were my child he would never disrespect anyone in the cyber or real world...my 3 are yes ma'am and no sir children...also he wasn't here for compassion or problem solving he was the obligatory sh*t stirrer that show up now and then and get shut down pretty damn quick...you can e-mail me if you like...so you won't be banned
brenda
p.s. in the beginning i was trying to help him by telling him to slow down and think a min before he just let his fingers fly so that the community could understand what he was trying to convey. he mailed me back that i was a f*ing whore biotch (not censored that should mind her own ugly ass business...
it pretty much went down hill from there...don't worry though tombs, his mold hasn't been broken...there will be more...bring em on

I understand what your saying and appreciate what your doing to. I don't join in threads like that and have read a lot of what he has posted. Although some have gone the wrong way about it and ill say to each is own.

Now the hard part. There is only so much you can tell some one something or so many times and to know that it goes through one ear out the other. My stong opinion abot this whole thing is. That he should find one person that he feels comfortable with and hops of them helping him out. But if no one wants that help and will keep going over and over the same situations. there is nothing anone can do. To be really honest her. **** happens! it a part of life but we have to take the first step in order to even get anywhere and take responcibility for our own actions.

The best way to put all this is. You can sit in a coner and pray all you want. but if you don't get off you As.s and do a little foot work. god can't help you nore can anyone here.....

Here are people retracting what they did...I surely wont. As well I am glad he is gone. He started all trouble and never offered anything good. To each his own and have your own opinion, but I will stand to mine and invite open conversation.